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wisdomtogive -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 7:44:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: curiouskitten8 i suppose your right....some people really know how to push your buttons though you can't control the behavior of others. The only thing you can control is your reaction to them. [sm=agree.gif] Thank you holly. You saved me from typing a lot:) OP, only you can let someone push your buttons.

MistressRoux -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 7:45:37 AM)
block and delete. I've had some people who want Me to switch. they're insistent. I've only been a member for a few days. ignore them.

Justme696 -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 10:01:15 AM)
quote: Rude and disrespectful emails from random "Doms" seem to be quite common on this site. There are no rude Doms..there are just subs that don't obey :P

GreedyTop -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 10:20:32 AM)
smacks Justme grin

Justme696 -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 10:30:52 AM)
ahh nice..always wanted that :P

GreedyTop -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 10:33:07 AM)
I aim to please... snort

Wolf2Bear -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 10:38:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: curiouskitten8 Rude and disrespectful emails from random "Doms" seem to be quite common on this site. They never fail to light my short fuse. So I ask, how do you keep a level head? Do you just block them? And why do these "Doms", who are supposed to understand women, treat us with such disrespect when they don't know us? Don't they realize they will never own anyone of any worth acting in such a manner. let me add......... there are lots of wonderful and respectful Doms on this site. Interesting as I have never had that problem, even from female doms who may message me. Just get the few very confused female subs thinking I'd be the perfect match for them and to which I laugh at their assumptions and delete message.

GreedyTop -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 10:40:35 AM)
c'mon, Bear.. you know you'd love to dom me.. ok, Jonnie.. but oh well... snort

Wolf2Bear -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 10:43:50 AM)
Ah Greedy my pet....you have that all wrong....I just want to be a more intimate part of your marriage with Jonnie. I mean, I know you you want to see first hand some man on man action grinz

GreedyTop -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 10:52:12 AM)
well, that too ;)

sblady -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 11:14:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Justme696 quote: Rude and disrespectful emails from random "Doms" seem to be quite common on this site. There are no rude Doms..there are just subs that don't obey :P [sm=discipline.gif]

Justme696 -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 12:18:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sblady [sm=discipline.gif] dear friend.....blame Greedy..she made me say it [:D]

Lorenzo19 -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 1:48:05 PM)
nice Dom bashing festival you're having. And nobody even cares to ask for some example of the rudeness in question. This is a fetish site. And one girls rudeness is anothers turn on. But dont worry about that. We dont need facts or reality. Continue on...

wittynamehere -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 2:02:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB She's not saying "back off, asshole," she's saying, "don't mess with me just because I'm 19 and a sub. I know what I want and deserve." Oh, I agree, that's how I see it as well. I was just letting her know that she might not be getting the kinds of messages she wants, because she hasn't said anything about herself, and has only played the "defense" card. There's really nothing to go on, when you go to contact somebody like that. For me, I just don't bother contacting them. If their profile is little more than "don't contact me if you're X years or older/younger, if you won't treat me like a princess, if you're A B or C" etc, then all I know about them is their age, gender, and sometimes approximate location. Very little to strike up a conversation about. And what's worse, many of those profiles also include a "don't message me if you only have a couple lines to give me" disclaimer as well. quote: ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB I really don't think it's fair to say she's playing a part in the rudeness of the email she receives. No, me neither. I do think it's fair to say she might be playing a part in the lack of quality email she receives, though. Perhaps increasing the quality of the profile would increase the quality of the incoming messages to that profile. But she's not to blame for the rudeness she's been subjected to, from what I can tell anyway. :)

Lorenzo19 -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 2:13:44 PM)
Enough of this poo poo. Time to be blunt... The OP is obviously new at this. Explain to her this is a fetish site. And there are people on here with really bizarre fetishes. Maybe even some fetishes that repulse her. Some subbies crave extreme humiliation and disrespect. All she needs to do is delete it. If she really wants to say something just tell the Guy 'I'm not into that but thanks anyway.' If she cant handle that, maybe she should join eHarmony where everything is beautiful all the time and nobody has creepy fetishes.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 2:16:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lorenzo19 nice Dom bashing festival you're having. And nobody even cares to ask for some example of the rudeness in question. This is a fetish site. And one girls rudeness is anothers turn on. But dont worry about that. We dont need facts or reality. Continue on... I personally don't feel like I have to ask for examples, because I get similar mails from D-types who want to 'turn me' sometimes. Isn't it against TOS to post private mails, anyway? Your idea that 'one girl's rudeness is another's turn on' is fine in a consensual setting-but this isn't a consensual setting. She's trying to find a kinky partner, not asking for abusive messages from complete strangers; in fact by posting this thread she is actively seeking methods of stopping it from happening. The counter-argument, I guess, is that having a CM profile is tantamount to giving consent for randoms to send you highly unpleasant unsolicited mail; I reckon anyone who sends out nasty mails on that basis is flagging themselves up as someone I won't ever want anything to do with, so I guess I should thank them really...

littlewonder -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 3:45:30 PM)
I just delete and laugh. I don't even block them. It takes too much of my energy to waste on them.

winterlight -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 4:47:49 PM)
Laughs, block, delete. I don't have the time or inclination to waste it on wankers, dom wanna be 5 year olds that get pouty when a sub won't do what she is told online by some idiot stranger. Delusions are your friend I guess. Keep banging your head against a wall. How is that working for you? Clueless, rude, morons....they are all out there in all walks of life. Find something better to do than let them bother you..

Level -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 4:53:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: Lorenzo19 nice Dom bashing festival you're having. And nobody even cares to ask for some example of the rudeness in question. This is a fetish site. And one girls rudeness is anothers turn on. But dont worry about that. We dont need facts or reality. Continue on... I personally don't feel like I have to ask for examples, because I get similar mails from D-types who want to 'turn me' sometimes. Isn't it against TOS to post private mails, anyway? Your idea that 'one girl's rudeness is another's turn on' is fine in a consensual setting-but this isn't a consensual setting. She's trying to find a kinky partner, not asking for abusive messages from complete strangers; in fact by posting this thread she is actively seeking methods of stopping it from happening. The counter-argument, I guess, is that having a CM profile is tantamount to giving consent for randoms to send you highly unpleasant unsolicited mail; I reckon anyone who sends out nasty mails on that basis is flagging themselves up as someone I won't ever want anything to do with, so I guess I should thank them really... Good post. I generally am of the mindset to ignore what you don't like (the recent spate of "I hate nude avatars/pics" threads/comments comes to mind), but to send something rude to someone's inbox is a bit like sticking your head in their front door and talking smack.

Wolf2Bear -> RE: Handeling Rude Doms (2/23/2010 5:26:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lorenzo19 nice Dom bashing festival you're having. And nobody even cares to ask for some example of the rudeness in question. This is a fetish site. And one girls rudeness is anothers turn on. But dont worry about that. We dont need facts or reality. Continue on... Face it...there's rudeness from both sides of the kneel. And I guarantee that every single one of us can and have been rude to others at times. Just because one identifies as a dom or a sub doesn't mean they are completely above being rude.

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