tazzygirl
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next shall we redefine a rapist? pedaphile?
you may not like the definition... and it may be because it doesnt fit what you want it too... but you cant redefine green to fit the color blue either.
that, to me, is the absolutely most crazy thing i have ever read on here.
define porn. define fat, skinny.
define "easy". is it someone who fucks everyone but you? or someone who fucks everyone including you.
define insane. crazy.
some words are set in stone, with one twue definition. murderer, rapist, absolutely. if they are used in the proper context, one is someone who murdered another human being, one is someone who forced someone else to perform sex acts against their will (or something close to that-lol-i aint googling the exact definitions).
depending on who you ask, being a doormat could have good or bad meaning. just as slut could, bitch, cunt, whore, player, diva. all these words mean something different to many people.
the fact that you continue to argue a point, especially here, that for some(many) is the definition of what makes their relationship wonderful and makes it work.....
you show you are a girl.....there is only one definition of girl, so you must be too young to be on this site, cause if you were old enough, you would be tazzywoman right?
i dont mean this as an attack, but good grief, sometimes it is so easy to say "i can see your side of this and hmmmm, perhaps i should allow you to enjoy your doormat or doormattiness and just not worry my purdy lil head about others who are happy".
its tazzygirl because among goreans, woman refers to a FW, which i am not.
my purdy lil head... hmmm... so not my style. nor do i like being put down in such a manner. i have a mind, a good one, consider myself quite intelligent about many subjects. i will continue to voice my opinions as i see fit. im sure you have no issue with that. but, if, by chance, you do, im sure you know where the hide button is to click.
here is an odd question for you. this is a site to discuss differences. my position is that a doormat, as seen by most of world, is not something that should be romaticized or glamorized. when discussing rape that is consensual, its called rape play. why? because rape, by itself, is something inherently wrong and many would tell a sub/slave when faced with such a prospect to run like hell. many threads here have girls telling other subs or slaves to not do this, not do that, dont tolerate this, dont accept that. even a few who are claiming the doormat status.
now, i have said a slave can appear to be a doormat for her Master/Owner. yup yup, said it more than once. but that is not a doormat as society accepts the term.
but, since you are so curious... here is the difference between a sub/slave and a doormat.
Owner gives the girl a command... no sex without my approval.
Owner goes out of town.
Owner had allowed girl to be used by another man, not her owner.
Other man now demands service.
sub/slave says ... i have to contact Master first.
doormat says... when?
the desire to please overrides everything else... even common sense... even an owners command.
just like with rape play, there can be doormat play... or a doormat. But, for christs sake, when you use the term to define yourself, dont blast other people when they snicker, call you on it, belittle you or demean you. you merely asked for it. others will view you by the definitions they know, not by what you may have twisted them to become.
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