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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:23:46 PM

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I seen you people attack the newbies time and again but this time was just too far. And you people know who you are. Many were objectively giving thier opinions and I commend those people for not joining in on the feeding frenzy.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:25:50 PM

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It was a TEST... a test of your "dominance" to REFUSE to play along, and you FAILED.

It started out as a party game ice-breaker. and turned into a test which he FAILED.

Come on people. That was a vicious attack.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:26:13 PM

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I've seen some newbies take some shit here, but this didn't seem to fit the bill. The worst anyone really said was that he was overreacting. The guy seemed to want our opinions on HIS opinion and experience.

I'm not saying this place can't be harsh to newbies, I'm just not seeing it here, and not sure if you meant me, or others, but *shrugs* like I said, in this case, I'm just not seeing it.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:28:24 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lorenzo19

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It was a TEST... a test of your "dominance" to REFUSE to play along, and you FAILED.

It started out as a party game ice-breaker. and turned into a test which he FAILED.

Come on people. That was a vicious attack.

I read her post as teasing and playful, taking into count her slang wording and smiley face. I didn't see it as a vicious attack at all!

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It was a TEST... a test of your "dominance" to REFUSE to play along, and you FAILED. Had you shown your Toppy powers, you'd have been part of the Twoo-Domly-Dom group who stuck around and were rewarded with 20 uber-hawt slaves that were stored in the other room and crawled-in shortly after you left to suck-service the penis-parade before them. Joo phucked-up, mang!!!

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:31:03 PM

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Oh yeah the smiley face makes it all ok? say any thing you want and the smiley face makes it ok. Wrong.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:33:26 PM

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No, I don't think you can throw in a smiley face and make things ok, but I think that we can sometimes misread a post, or take it out of context. I stand on my belief she was teasing and playful. But, that's how I read it. I guess you saw something different. Only she can speak to her true intent.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:35:32 PM

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Oh yeah the smiley face makes it all ok? say any thing you want and the smiley face makes it ok. Wrong.

You're right. We should take people's words at face value, whether they include a smiley or not. I appreciate your drawing my attention to this, because now I will be personally offended if I see anyone write anything about eating the brains of humans. Cannibalism is disgusting, and should not be tolerated on this site.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:38:34 PM

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So youre saying I could take that quote and insert your name. and as long as there's a smiley face everyone will take it as a real funny joke and you're the butt of the joke. Really?

So this is like roast the newbie show? That's what you want Me to believe? What a load of crap.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:41:15 PM

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all things considered, if you took her post and inserted my name, yes - I'd think it was pretty damn amusing. Even without the smiley face.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:42:54 PM

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Tries it on for size:

It was a TEST.. WINSOME. a test of your "dominance" to REFUSE to play along, and you FAILED. Had you shown your Toppy powers, you'd have been part of the Twoo-Domly-Dom group who stuck around and were rewarded with 20 uber-hawt slaves that were stored in the other room and crawled-in shortly after you left to suck-service the penis-parade before them. Joo phucked-up, WINSOME!!!

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:45:49 PM

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all things considered, if you took her post and inserted my name, yes - I'd think it was pretty damn amusing. Even without the smiley face.

Agreed.

That post came across to me very clearly as a joke, not at all insulting to the OP.

If you say,

"Wow, why don't you go to a couple parties and learn something, then come back with your big boy panties and try not to be too butt hurt that the other Doms didn't play nice, k?

" Then, no, the smiley doesn't "make everything okay"

In the post in question, the smiley, in conjunction with the words used made it really clear to me that the poster didn't actually think it was any sort of test of anything that the OP failed, the poster was just goofing around.

I've seen people be WAY harsher around here, and I don't get at all why this finally crossed some line for you.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:47:28 PM

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Yeah, Winsome, joo phucked-up.

Sorry, I just wanted to say it. And, yeah, it was just as fun as I though it would be. :)

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:49:01 PM

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Yeah, Winsome, joo phucked-up.

Sorry, I just wanted to say it. And, yeah, it was just as fun as I though it would be. :)

Yes, I feel empowered now! I think I shall go forth and conquer...

On your knees bitch!!!

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:50:04 PM

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Oh my. But, but...I put a smiley face!!!

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:50:17 PM

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oops....forgot the smiley again....

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:50:56 PM

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I sure the hell didnt take it as a joke. especially, when combined with all the other attacks on his character.

Fine well just see what the concensus is tomorrow. I said My bit.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:51:35 PM

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LOL, no more empowerment for you. Went straight to your head.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:54:06 PM

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True....I'll just have to join the uber hawt subbies crawling around and servicing cock...that'll teach me!

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:56:04 PM

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I sure the hell didnt take it as a joke. especially, when combined with all the other attacks on his character.

Fine well just see what the concensus is tomorrow. I said My bit.

Honestly, I think we can sometimes let the negative tone of a thread color our views on individual posters. I didn't read the entire thread, so I didn't have the same bias you obviously read it with. S'all good. You were just sticking up for someone you saw being ganged up on. I respect that. I still don't think she meant her post to be mean or vicious. "nuff said

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/2/2010 9:56:50 PM

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LOL, mhmm, somehow, I doubt it will.