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juliaoceania -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 8:41:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff Ok who needs a hug! ~smiles~ Jeff I can always use hugs! (just don't ~smile~ like that it remind me of a perverted uncle or something)

LadyPact -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 8:56:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lorenzo19 Ok. You all ripped the newbie a new asshole. You all had your red meat. Time to back off. It's just pathetic how you people treat newbies. I have to say that I find this statement to be a bit on the ridiculous side. While it was obvious that some of the replies were made in a joking matter. I think you took it more seriously than the OP. It makes Me wonder if you are feeling less than secure about your own experience level or reception here that was carried over to this thread, rather than where your perception of it really starts. Your reaction to it seemed a bit strong, in My opinion. If anyone was tougher on the OP, it was Me, because I told him that he shared part of the responsibility. I'm basing that on the same advice that I'd give anyone whether they were going to their first BDSM get together or if they've been going for twenty years, but they are going to a new group/club for the first time. If the information isn't already provided to you, ask what you can expect, ask about things like the dress code of the event, the protocols, and so on. If it's a play party, ask what the dungeon rules are. Things aren't the same everywhere and personally, I prefer to know what type of situation it is before I get there, rather than to find out afterwards. This helps to prevent situations like the OP described. Edited for punctuation.

Justme696 -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 9:03:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff Ok who needs a hug! ~smiles~ Jeff did you shower? if so...then yes

Jeffff -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 9:05:14 AM)
Well... how recently?

Justme696 -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 9:06:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff Well... how recently? lets say 2009 -2010 -ish

AquaticSub -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 9:15:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania I can always use hugs! Me too!!

Jeffff -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 9:17:51 AM)
Ok, we are all good then!

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 9:47:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: I thanked you for your imput several pages back and concluded that I didn't think we'd see eye to eye on that. Yet we're still going back and forth. Is it still just offering an opinion, as you claim, when you continue pushing it long after resolution? Here dude, you asked for clarification on my "philosophy", Post 17 quote: In one portion your saying you choose how to respond to your feelings, but the last sentance you say no one else can make you feel anything. Seems a little contradictory. Which is it? You choose how to repsond to your feelings or you choose what you feel? Or both? Either way, I don't think you and I share the same philisophical view in this area, but thank you very much for sharing your opinion on the topic. If you did not want to continue the dialogue, don't ask further questions, okay? quote: Edit: And no, I didn't think things were as bad as lorenzo indicated they were either, but still it's nice to know someone is willing to stick their neck out for an overwellmed novice. Overwhelmed by forums or by BDSM parties, or both? Most people your age know how internet forums work. I thought you had been in the lifestyle a couple of years? You have been to more BDSM parties than I have been to.... not that it matters though. No one here has been unfair to you And you gave a contradictory answer and became offended when I asked you if you could apply the talent you claimed to posses to any situation. You are one dumb bitch. And you claim that I've been to more parties than you. You've never been to a single bdsm event and you presume to give other's advice. Wow.

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 9:51:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetNika quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: SweetNika I think people are to easily offended these days and this is a prime example IMO. I have done a similiar game at a private party that I hosted but it included both dominant and submissive traits. It wasn't meant as disrespectful. There was no prior warning to my guests. Those that wanted to participate did and I wasn't offended if they didn't. Everyone did and it was hilarious. I have been to parties that had themes or group games that were hosted by others, making a scene that you didn't like it is disrespectful to me. Either quitely opt out or leave don't make a federal case over it (especially YEARS later). If you were truly offended by it take it up with the host privately at a later time. I take it you haven't been following the thread at all. Actually I did read the ENTIRE thread not that it changes MY opinion or answer to the op. I think the op got his panties in a bunch over a simple party game and really needs to relax if it still bothers him YEARS later. For those that have been stupid enough to ask "what insults?" have been made to the Op, here's a prime example. Most have been helpful, but a handful of people have been needlessly fucked up, and one can't help but respond in kind.

Musicmystery -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 9:51:45 AM)
Everyplace I see your name, you're insulting people. How's that working out for you?

Jeffff -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 9:52:07 AM)
WOW.... you are a whiney little fella, aren't you? Jeff

Madame4a -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 9:53:48 AM)
well.. there ya go... the insults are yours... stupid enough, one dumb bitch ...

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 9:55:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Musicmystery Everyplace I see your name, you're insulting people. How's that working out for you? I only respond with insults when people are insulting me. As for how it's working out, not well, but being polite didn't work either.

Smutmonger -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 9:55:47 AM)
Op just got blocked. hahahahahaaaaaaa.........[:D]

Jeffff -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 9:55:59 AM)
In Tibetan Buddhism, a Bodhisattva is anyone who is motivated by compassion and seeks enlightenment not only for him/herself but also for everyone... Ironic, no? Jeff

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 9:56:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Madame4a well.. there ya go... the insults are yours... stupid enough, one dumb bitch ... I'm only responding in kind. Oh but your right, it's okay for other's to attack me but not for me to defend myself. Silly me.

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 9:57:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff In Tibetan Buddhism, a Bodhisattva is anyone who is motivated by compassion and seeks enlightenment not only for him/herself but also for everyone... Ironic, no? Jeff No, not at all. It's just a screenname. There are numerous people with god or godess in their title, do you message them saying it's ironic that they can't turn water to wine or fly?

Musicmystery -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 9:58:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: Musicmystery Everyplace I see your name, you're insulting people. How's that working out for you? I only respond with insults when people are insulting me. As for how it's working out not, well, but being polite didn't work either. Ah. The victim route. So what we've established is that it's not working. Yet it works for many others. Could be your approach........

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 9:59:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff WOW.... you are a whiney little fella, aren't you? Jeff So you want to whine about whining, and then talk about irony. Yeah, you're bright.

Musicmystery -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:00:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff In Tibetan Buddhism, a Bodhisattva is anyone who is motivated by compassion and seeks enlightenment not only for him/herself but also for everyone... Ironic, no? Jeff No, not at all. It's just a screenname. There are numerous people with god or godess in their title, do you message them saying it's ironic that they can't turn water to wine or fly? Well, as one who takes such a beautiful concept seriously, you using it to be cool and lash out at the world is inherently offensively. You don't see people with screen names "Jesus."

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