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Jeffff -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:01:28 AM)
Thanks! I like to think so. Jeff

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:02:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Musicmystery quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff In Tibetan Buddhism, a Bodhisattva is anyone who is motivated by compassion and seeks enlightenment not only for him/herself but also for everyone... Ironic, no? Jeff No, not at all. It's just a screenname. There are numerous people with god or godess in their title, do you message them saying it's ironic that they can't turn water to wine or fly? Well, as one who takes such a beautiful concept seriously, you using it to be cool and lash out at the world is inherently offensively. You don't see people with screen names "Jesus." There'd be no difference, but take a trip south, there's ton's there. Hell I work with 2.

Musicmystery -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:02:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: Madame4a well.. there ya go... the insults are yours... stupid enough, one dumb bitch ... I'm only responding in kind. Oh but your right, it's okay for other's to attack me but not for me to defend myself. Silly me. Yup. Victim. And twisting what was said into a straw man fallacy. Read what's there, not what you invent. You aren't defending--you're defensive. Hyperly so. Learn to laugh a little.

Musicmystery -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:03:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff WOW.... you are a whiney little fella, aren't you? Jeff So you want to whine about whining, and then talk about irony. Yeah, you're bright. Just read what you've written here and the last few posts and think it over for a bit.

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:04:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Musicmystery quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: Madame4a well.. there ya go... the insults are yours... stupid enough, one dumb bitch ... I'm only responding in kind. Oh but your right, it's okay for other's to attack me but not for me to defend myself. Silly me. Yup. Victim. And twisting what was said into a straw man fallacy. Read what's there, not what you invent. You aren't defending--you're defensive. Hyperly so. Learn to laugh a little. Oh your posts are good for that. It's hard not to laugh at someone as pathetic as you.

Musicmystery -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:06:11 AM)
OK. So the world is stupid and you're the only bright one. You've already explained yourself that isn't working. But have fun. Such as it is. Carry on.

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:06:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Musicmystery quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff WOW.... you are a whiney little fella, aren't you? Jeff So you want to whine about whining, and then talk about irony. Yeah, you're bright. Just read what you've written here and the last few posts and think it over for a bit. All I see in those posts are people who make snippy or insulting posts, then complain when I defend myself. As I already said, being polite attracted jerks, fighting back has braught down even more crap, what other options are there? What would you do?

Jeffff -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:07:11 AM)
I feel so.... disrespected.......[8D] Jeff

Musicmystery -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:09:08 AM)
And yet you pull it off well, Jeff. Tell me---how DO you do it? Is it your reference to the Anteater God? [:D]

Musicmystery -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:11:07 AM)
quote: All I see in those posts are people who make snippy or insulting posts, then complain when I defend myself. It's all you want to see. quote: What would you do? What everyone does. Grow up. Learn to roll with criticism. Laugh a little. Don't take everything so personally. Address points instead of personalities. And as I told you in another thread, raise issues instead of baiting.

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:15:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Musicmystery quote: All I see in those posts are people who make snippy or insulting posts, then complain when I defend myself. It's all you want to see. quote: What would you do? Address points instead of personalities. And as I told you in another thread, raise issues instead of baiting. And what, in your mind, was 'baiting' about this subject?

Musicmystery -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:18:18 AM)
I'm not getting dragged into this thread. Haven't read it. You already know the other thread. Dude, you have two options. 1) Keep doing what you're doing. You yourself have pointed out it's not working. 2) Do something different. You're not an advice-taking kind of guy, so I'll leave this there.

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:24:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Musicmystery I'm not getting dragged into this thread. Haven't read it. You already know the other thread. Dude, you have two options. 1) Keep doing what you're doing. You yourself have pointed out it's not working. 2) Do something different. You're not an advice-taking kind of guy, so I'll leave this there. I would love advice. That's why I'm here. I just want tactful advice. Maybe that's unrealistic, but I don't find things like 'Well, try not to get your panties in a twist' particularly helpful. Do you?

Musicmystery -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:27:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: Musicmystery Dude, you have two options. 1) Keep doing what you're doing. You yourself have pointed out it's not working. 2) Do something different. You're not an advice-taking kind of guy, so I'll leave this there. I would love advice. That's why I'm here. I just want tactful advice. Maybe that's unrealistic, but I don't find things like 'Well, try not to get your panties in a twist' particularly helpful. Do you?

LadyPact -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:27:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva I would love advice. That's why I'm here. I just want tactful advice. Maybe that's unrealistic, but I don't find things like 'Well, try not to get your panties in a twist' particularly helpful. Do you? Do you not think that you received it?

AquaticSub -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:33:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: SweetNika Actually I did read the ENTIRE thread not that it changes MY opinion or answer to the op. I think the op got his panties in a bunch over a simple party game and really needs to relax if it still bothers him YEARS later. For those that have been stupid enough to ask "what insults?" have been made to the Op, here's a prime example. Most have been helpful, but a handful of people have been needlessly fucked up, and one can't help but respond in kind. That isn't an insult, in my opinion anyway. That's a blunt assessment of your OP that I happen to agree with. I elected not to include "making a mountain out of a molehill" in my response because, frankly, I didn't think you'd listen. Something you don't like happens as a party and you consider your evening wasted. Years later you are still upset about it. quote: I would love advice. That's why I'm here. I just want tactful advice. Maybe that's unrealistic, but I don't find things like 'Well, try not to get your panties in a twist' particularly helpful. Do you? You got a lot of tactful advice and you got some people who were less than tactful but their advice is still sound. If you want a specific type of advice or advice delivered in a particular manner pay for it. When you are seeking free advice, getting sound information, regardless of it's formatting, is pretty damn good.

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:34:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva I would love advice. That's why I'm here. I just want tactful advice. Maybe that's unrealistic, but I don't find things like 'Well, try not to get your panties in a twist' particularly helpful. Do you? Do you not think that you received it? I think most of the posters were helpful. You for example gave me some things to think on. But some were downright rude, and then became angry and blamed me when I responded in kind. They were rude when I was polite, and even more rude when I returned their rudeness. I don't know what else to do.

Musicmystery -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:37:00 AM)
quote: I don't know what else to do. Let it go. At that point, it's over and done.

Jeffff -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:37:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva I would love advice. That's why I'm here. I just want tactful advice. Maybe that's unrealistic, but I don't find things like 'Well, try not to get your panties in a twist' particularly helpful. Do you? Advice? ok ...here goes. If I found myself in your position, I think I would take my self out. just off Myself. Probably pills and a bottle of fine single malt scotch. of course the danger is in falling asleep and vomiting. If you decide to go gunshot to the head, wrap it up in a shower curtain. It makes the clean up easier Thoughtfully Jeff

juliaoceania -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 10:40:11 AM)
quote: And you gave a contradictory answer and became offended when I asked you if you could apply the talent you claimed to posses to any situation. You are one dumb bitch. And you claim that I've been to more parties than you. You've never been to a single bdsm event and you presume to give other's advice. Wow. I've been to a lot of parties in my life, people play games. They do things like drink and play strip poker, get naked and go into hot tubs, break out cocaine in the middle of a room... and no, when they do these things I do not get pissed off or offended or bent out of shape... if I do not want to be included, I leave, simple as that. This concept is pretty much the same no matter the social gathering... I have had two long term relationships with dominant men. One of whom I remain friendly with, the other who i am still involved with... I live this, I don't just do it at parties. As for the name calling... I have been respectful to you in every single post. You have given yourself a screen name, too bad you have no earthly idea of how to fulfill it.

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