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LaTigresse -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 11:02:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I guess sticking your head into the oven is sooooo last century? I think so. The oven way only works with gas ovens, most are electric these days. Only the disrespectful ovens.

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 11:02:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva This would be the rumpus who's only post to me was to call me names? Ones you personally consider unnecessary. Or perhaps, to you, it's only unnecessary from me? I generally find it unnecessary from everyone, unless the people interacting have that kind of relationship. There are some folks here who do have that kind of joking banter between them, but the non joking type seems to be cropping up more and more. Right. Rumpus is your friend so a blantant, random insult was fine from her but you don't know me so I can't. You are a hypocrite. On the bright side, I did just discover the ignore button.

Musicmystery -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 11:03:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva a lier. Wow. More name calling. What a surprise. I said I'm headed off. And so I am. Btw, it's "liar," genius. And now that whole round of conversation has come full circle again.

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 11:03:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I guess sticking your head into the oven is sooooo last century? I think so. The oven way only works with gas ovens, most are electric these days. Only the disrespectful ovens. Yeah, damn them for not being condusive to me suicidal needs!

juliaoceania -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 11:03:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: And you gave a contradictory answer and became offended when I asked you if you could apply the talent you claimed to posses to any situation. You are one dumb bitch. And you claim that I've been to more parties than you. You've never been to a single bdsm event and you presume to give other's advice. Wow. I've been to a lot of parties in my life, people play games. They do things like drink and play strip poker, get naked and go into hot tubs, break out cocaine in the middle of a room... Sounds wonderful, I envy you. But then why'd you say I'd been to more parties than you? Was that directed as someone else? You claim to be a "novice", yet you have been to BDSM parties... when I claimed to be a novice, it meant that I had no BDSM experience... I have experiences... just not community experiences... As far as parties involving nudity and drug use... I leave those parties because I do not want to get naked or use drugs... my point is that I have never posted a thread about how disrespected I felt.. probably because I did not feel disrespected. I go to a party, things happen, I do not like it I leave... and it never crosses my mind again that I should be upset over it. If it sucked enough I just don't hang out with those people anymore... it isn't rocket science and what I have posted isn't that hard to understand... even if I am a "dumb bitch"

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 11:05:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: And you gave a contradictory answer and became offended when I asked you if you could apply the talent you claimed to posses to any situation. You are one dumb bitch. And you claim that I've been to more parties than you. You've never been to a single bdsm event and you presume to give other's advice. Wow. I've been to a lot of parties in my life, people play games. They do things like drink and play strip poker, get naked and go into hot tubs, break out cocaine in the middle of a room... Sounds wonderful, I envy you. But then why'd you say I'd been to more parties than you? Was that directed as someone else? You claim to be a "novice", yet you have been to BDSM parties... Not parties. Ten minutes of one party.

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 11:06:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: And you gave a contradictory answer and became offended when I asked you if you could apply the talent you claimed to posses to any situation. You are one dumb bitch. And you claim that I've been to more parties than you. You've never been to a single bdsm event and you presume to give other's advice. Wow. I've been to a lot of parties in my life, people play games. They do things like drink and play strip poker, get naked and go into hot tubs, break out cocaine in the middle of a room... Sounds wonderful, I envy you. But then why'd you say I'd been to more parties than you? Was that directed as someone else? You claim to be a "novice", yet you have been to BDSM parties... Not parties. Ten minutes of one party. Now I'm going to take the advice of some of your own advice and ignore you. If only real life had a button for that.

juliaoceania -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 11:07:32 AM)
quote: Attending kink events doesn't give you a BDSM XP bonus. It doesn't? There goes my whole entire strategy to get into Legends Guild of Uber Submissiveness, I even heard there were special powers that came with that, like being able to kneel for longer without needing to a break to keep my health stats up... what am I going to do now to achieve that goal?[:(]

AquaticSub -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 11:12:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: Attending kink events doesn't give you a BDSM XP bonus. It doesn't? There goes my whole entire strategy to get into Legends Guild of Uber Submissiveness, I even heard there were special powers that came with that, like being able to kneel for longer without needing to a break to keep my health stats up... what am I going to do now to achieve that goal?[:(] It is true - you do get special unlockable powers when you qualify for the Guild and get more awesome powers as you grind your rep with them. However, attending events isn't the way to go. You've got to grind your skill sets to get them all to master before you get the quest to start the introduction to the guild roller coaster. Start with grinding your blow job and dinner skills. Alternatively, you can buy Aqua's Strategy Guide to BDSM! For the low, low price of 49.99, this elegant tome can be yours! It even includes the cheat code for unlocking Twue Dominance in your chosen Domly Dom! [:D]

LadyPact -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 11:14:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva This would be the rumpus who's only post to me was to call me names? Ones you personally consider unnecessary. Or perhaps, to you, it's only unnecessary from me? I generally find it unnecessary from everyone, unless the people interacting have that kind of relationship. There are some folks here who do have that kind of joking banter between them, but the non joking type seems to be cropping up more and more. Right. Rumpus is your friend so a blantant, random insult was fine from her but you don't know me so I can't. You are a hypocrite. On the bright side, I did just discover the ignore button. If you see it that way, that's your right. The fact is that I was responding to you, so I can only address you. If I was responding to Rumpus' comment, I would have been addressing her. I tend to think we have a different definition of hypocrite. Had I said I had a low opinion of people calling each other names and then called you an asshole, I'd consider that hypocritical. I do know that really isn't Rumpus' general way to respond to people, because I've seen how she interacts with others in real life. It would be rather ironic if you've decided to put Me on ignore, considering you said just a few posts back that what I said on this thread gave you something to think about. Regardless of this, the thread will be here for those who may stumble across it using the search feature when looking up what they might encounter at their first or new BDSM gathering.

juliaoceania -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 11:24:09 AM)
quote: Not parties. Ten minutes of one party. Well, I think if I were you I would refer back to cloudboy's posts on this thread.... and I mean that sincerely... BDSM parties and vanilla parties share something in common... human beings attend them. Some of those human beings are courteous and good hosts/hostesses... some not so much so. I still stand by what I said on this thread... I have tried to give good advice to you, and you are not open to it. You in fact have felt disrespected by my advice enough to sling names at me. This makes me think perhaps you are looking for reasons to be offended and to give offense instead of accepting people the way that they are and taking the world the way that it exists... I do not think that anything I have to contribute will help you out, although I wish you luck.... Edited to add, just realized you are going to ignore me... How very sad that you can't have anyone challenge your thoughts, even when they are being sincere in trying to give you good advice...

juliaoceania -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 11:25:58 AM)
quote: It is true - you do get special unlockable powers when you qualify for the Guild and get more awesome powers as you grind your rep with them. However, attending events isn't the way to go. You've got to grind your skill sets to get them all to master before you get the quest to start the introduction to the guild roller coaster. Start with grinding your blow job and dinner skills. Alternatively, you can buy Aqua's Strategy Guide to BDSM! For the low, low price of 49.99, this elegant tome can be yours! It even includes the cheat code for unlocking Twue Dominance in your chosen Domly Dom! Truly made me laugh my ass off...

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 11:30:51 AM)
-FR- (After having read maybe 2/3-ish, and having skipped a middle chunk). OP: You don't know the people here; they are just pixels on a screen. If that was your first play party I'm assuming you didn't know the hosts-they were just strangers too. Is the 'disrespect', real or imagined, of a bunch of people you don't know really important enough to justify nine pages of snark and several years of feeling bothered respectively?! Make a judgement about whether you think your actions deserve respect. If you think they don't: fix them. If you think they do, and that we aren't giving you the respect you think you deserve: don't bother with us. As pixels you will never meet, we really aren't worth any of your stress or distress.

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 3:08:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Musicmystery quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff In Tibetan Buddhism, a Bodhisattva is anyone who is motivated by compassion and seeks enlightenment not only for him/herself but also for everyone... Ironic, no? Jeff No, not at all. It's just a screenname. There are numerous people with god or godess in their title, do you message them saying it's ironic that they can't turn water to wine or fly? Well, as one who takes such a beautiful concept seriously, you using it to be cool and lash out at the world is inherently offensively. You don't see people with screen names "Jesus." That's ok, Bodhisatva, I hold no animosity in your irreverance. I'm sure you'll learn enlightment, eventually. I'll be very careful not to step on any bugs in the future, lest I hurry your progress![:D] WinD The Merciful

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 3:36:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious -FR- (After having read maybe 2/3-ish, and having skipped a middle chunk). OP: You don't know the people here; they are just pixels on a screen. If that was your first play party I'm assuming you didn't know the hosts-they were just strangers too. Is the 'disrespect', real or imagined, of a bunch of people you don't know really important enough to justify nine pages of snark and several years of feeling bothered respectively?! Why does everyone think I'm so bothered by the example in the OP? The only words used were disrespectful and annoying. Annoyed really isn't that strong of a feeling. As for the 9 pages, that's from my attempts to defend myself from all these attacks. People keep saying things like let it go, or I've said my fill, but then they don't stop posting. People like ladypack find if distatesful I respond to insults in kind but doesn't appear to find anything inapropriate with the original insulters. It's complete hypocrisy. You people are insane! Appearently CM are for lifstylers who don't know the meaning of logic or ethics.

Bodhisatva -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 3:42:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva I would love advice. That's why I'm here. I just want tactful advice. Maybe that's unrealistic, but I don't find things like 'Well, try not to get your panties in a twist' particularly helpful. Do you? Advice? ok ...here goes. If I found myself in your position, I think I would take my self out. just off Myself. Probably pills and a bottle of fine single malt scotch. of course the danger is in falling asleep and vomiting. If you decide to go gunshot to the head, wrap it up in a shower curtain. It makes the clean up easier Thoughtfully Jeff Its a shame you never ansered my question concerning this. It is probably the best option for me.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? (3/3/2010 3:47:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious -FR- (After having read maybe 2/3-ish, and having skipped a middle chunk). OP: You don't know the people here; they are just pixels on a screen. If that was your first play party I'm assuming you didn't know the hosts-they were just strangers too. Is the 'disrespect', real or imagined, of a bunch of people you don't know really important enough to justify nine pages of snark and several years of feeling bothered respectively?! Why does everyone think I'm so bothered by the example in the OP? The only words used were disrespectful and annoying. Annoyed really isn't that strong of a feeling. I don't know about in Yanksville-over-Pond, but in English English 'bothered' is not that strong either. You have to admit, it irked you enough to go to the effort of posting about it... quote: As for the 9 pages, that's from my attempts to defend myself from all these attacks. People keep saying things like let it go, or I've said my fill, but then they don't stop posting. People like ladypack find if distatesful I respond to insults in kind but doesn't appear to find anything inapropriate with the original insulters. I'm not going to go back and search through, but if I remember correctly, that wasn't what LP said. She said a) that she took a dim view of any mudslinging-not just yours b) that she knew for a fact that the insults you were throwing at Rumpus et al were incorrect-because she knows them, so she knows that they aren't twits etc.... She doesn't have any such knowledge of you. I'm sorry if sounds unpleasant, but people keep posting because it's entertaining. Stop engaging and they will too. quote: It's complete hypocrisy. You people are insane! Appearently CM are for lifstylers who don't know the meaning of logic or ethics. Ok, just read that bit again, and tell me that you don't come off as a liiiiiittle bit histrionic. This is an internet messageboard, my friend. If you find us insane and illogical and devoid of ethics then we aren't worth your time.

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