twistedwillow -> RE: Why do we get all uppity about Weight based Threads? (3/23/2010 6:41:11 PM)
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Fast Reply: You know what? I am fat. Morbidly Obese actually. I don't like it, don't want to be fat. I am fat for so many reaons, as a 'protection' from certain things in my childhood, because I am a comfort eater, because I have pcos and insulin resistance, they could very well have been induced BECAUSE I was already fat, or they could have happened anyway, I will never know. Because I am a cook and I enjoy cooking and eating, and food that tastes nice. Because I am a full time single mum, who is attempting to run her own business, which takes up 40+ hours a week, as well as studying at Uni, exercise is the last thing on my mind after a full day like that, compounded by the fact that I am fat and therefor exhausted to start off with ... and when your mothers 'pet name' for you is fatso, and has been for as long as you can remember ( even when you were anorexic ) well, you get the picture. Some might say they are all valid reasons, others will most definitely say they are just excuses and to move my fat ass and stop stuffing my face. I don't really care ... what I do care about though is that it is MY fat MY problem. And if you don't find fat people attractive no problem, don't have sex with them simple. If you do find fat people attractive, have sex with them, also simple. Who cares what brings people to BDSM or any other kink or non kink. I am pretty sure that skinny sally sue didn't slowly gain weight in her 20's till she hit the magic bdsm button, triggered by the weight of her belly pushing down on it ... and go 'Oh man i so wanna have the shit beaten out of me today, and maybe some humiliation, ohh I know some housecleaning while I have a horsetail buttplug in with pretty ribbons and flashy lights woven through it!' ... Perhaps fat people are kinkier than skinny people, I don't know, never conducted a poll on it. But in the grand scheme of things does it really matter? We don't all have to get along and hold hands, but oh for fuck sake ... get a life.If you are skinny and only want a skinny, ignore the fatties, no skin off your nose, or ours either. Twisted fatty Willow
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