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Cum on command - 4/2/2006 4:46:59 PM   
MasterUnknown


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Status: offline 		hmm ok I am just wondering about something.  I am speaking with a submissive and on the phone the other night I said the word cum.  well actully I think it was come as in come here, but anyways.  Much to my surprize she did so. 

This made me ask if she has ever done that before and she said no.  I know there are people ( not all submissives I am sure) that do that.  But how common is it?

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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 4:48:28 PM   
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hmm ok I am just wonderingabout something. I am speaking with a submissive and on the phone the other night I said the word cum. well actully I think it was come as in come here, but anyways. Much to my surprize she did so.

This made me ask if she has ever done that before and she said no. I know there are people ( not all submissives I am sure) that do that. But how common is it?



In my experience it takes one of two things:

High level of newness and excitement.

Lots of training. Think conditioning.


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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 4:52:23 PM   
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In my experience it takes one of two things:

High level of newness and excitement.

Lots of training. Think conditioning.



well she is fairly new so that might be it then again she says the sound of my voice turns her on ..lol   and it made me wonder is all

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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 5:00:19 PM   
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hmm ok I am just wondering about something.  I am speaking with a submissive and on the phone the other night I said the word cum.  well actully I think it was come as in come here, but anyways.  Much to my surprize she did so. 

This made me ask if she has ever done that before and she said no.  I know there are people ( not all submissives I am sure) that do that.  But how common is it?


A couple who are friends of mine say in a scene she can always come or should that be cum on demand. I have never encountered it as they describe it  but they say they have no problem. They are hardcore when it comes to sado-masochism and always pushing boundaries so I don't know if that is the reason.

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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 5:10:29 PM   
Duncan


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Status: offline 		Sub was trained to do so. Its rather entertaining to talk to her while she is working sometimes.

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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 5:15:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hi,
This is my first time posting on the boards....i've enjoyed many of the debates i've read and often  had the urge to post.  This is an interesting topic to me since  I was just speaking to someone regarding this very subject today.
I agree that training and conditioning is helpful  in allowing orgasm on command. But also..in my opinion...it takes a persons very intimate and thorough knowledge of their own body....training the mind to keep oneself on the edge of orgasm....just waiting for that magic word....this can be accomplished  strictly  mentally  (with much practice and imagination) and of course more easily physically, through.....light masturbation, just enough to keep one on the edge.

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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 5:27:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		It was my pleasure to spemd some time with a sub who had been trained in this art. I loved it.

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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 5:37:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		I was trained in such a way that with His word and without a touch I would release.   Never been able to do that with anyone else though.

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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 5:42:55 PM   
MasterUnknown


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Hi,
This is my first time posting on the boards....i've enjoyed many of the debates i've read and often  had the urge to post.  This is an interesting topic to me since  I was just speaking to someone regarding this very subject today.
I agree that training and conditioning is helpful  in allowing orgasm on command. But also..in my opinion...it takes a persons very intimate and thorough knowledge of their own body....training the mind to keep oneself on the edge of orgasm....just waiting for that magic word....this can be accomplished  strictly  mentally  (with much practice and imagination) and of course more easily physically, through.....light masturbation, just enough to keep one on the edge.


well yes last night I thought that since she had been masterbating before that it might have had something to do with it.  However this morning when she got up while we were speaking she did it again.  Like I said she is fairly new and has had very little training. 

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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 5:44:09 PM   
YourCss


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Status: offline 		I am a slave, that is, I am one who has was born with this nature.  I will admit that when I had first read of that training I did not really believe in it.  For one thing I hate to surrender my orgasm, cunnilingus is the most painful act I have to endure.  Luckily most Owners do not enjoy giving it.  However, my last Owner made it His objective to train me to cum on command.  It was a long training, there was much denial, much control, a very concise and concerted effort on His part.  In the end it was as if He had my orgasm in a box, a small contained box that was kept on a shelf behind His desk, and it was locked.  I had no more control over it than I did over His money.  When it amused Him He would take down the box and play with my orgasm, sometimes causing me to cum until my loins ached and there was a puddle under my cunt, sometimes leaving it there for weeks at a time untouched.  His control was so specific that He could command me to masturbate continuously and not be permitted to cum, even if I wanted to and I literally could not.  At one point He had a submissive man f*%k me and clean me repeatedly with his tongue, teasing and bringing me to the point of orgasm, keeping me there until I was crying, but without His permission I could not cum.  Indeed He owned it.

Today, I still can cum by command, it does not have to be His voice.  However I really do not enjoy it.  To be in a place where there is no particular arousal and be commanded to suddenly orgasm is like having a severe cramp out of the blue.  It erupts within you without any build up and leaves you quite weakened and feeling overwhelmingly violated and vulnerable.  I do not normally tell those I meet that this is a training I have had.  Some discover it because of Their own capacity, some never do.  As I said, it is not something I enjoy, it is something though that I no longer have control over.

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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 5:47:40 PM   
MasterUnknown


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Status: offline 		I was aware that people can be trained like that but to have it happen with out any training? 

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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 5:57:02 PM   
MasterUnknown


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Status: offline 		I guess there are a few things that I should say about her.  she is not really a slave( well no more than a baby girl can be ) and she has never had any type of training like this.  most of her past realtionships have been vanilla.  it is not something that I set out to do it just happened.  she does however like the feeling that she can cum from my voice.  or as we found out today when I type the word.  I guess it just struck me as odd that she could do that with out training her to do so

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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 6:01:27 PM   
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In my experience it takes one of two things:

High level of newness and excitement.

Lots of training. Think conditioning.



It's been my experience to do it very effectively with very little training.  However, the mindset must be right.

It's in the mind! 

PS.  I have experience 5 different girls that I showed how they could cum on my command.  3 are still in my life.  The 4 was a relationship that end some time ago... and the fifth was a lovely woman at a swing club that I enjoy for a couple hours of sensual carressing as I watched my girl alandra take care of others *G*

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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 6:26:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterUnknown

hmm ok I am just wondering about something.  I am speaking with a submissive and on the phone the other night I said the word cum.  well actully I think it was come as in come here, but anyways.  Much to my surprize she did so. 

This made me ask if she has ever done that before and she said no.  I know there are people ( not all submissives I am sure) that do that.  But how common is it?


So just you saying the word "cum" or "come" makes her orgasm? What happens if some Jehovah's Witness' show up at the door, and you say "baby girl, come here, the nice folks wanna talk to us"??

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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 6:32:12 PM   
MasterUnknown


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Status: offline 		ahhh well see I wont answer the door if I know its them and that might be something that runs them off a naked sub cumming when I say come here..lol

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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 6:38:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterUnknown

hmm ok I am just wondering about something.  I am speaking with a submissive and on the phone the other night I said the word cum.  well actully I think it was come as in come here, but anyways.  Much to my surprize she did so. 

This made me ask if she has ever done that before and she said no.  I know there are people ( not all submissives I am sure) that do that.  But how common is it?


I was "trained" to cum on command by ex-Master.  I have not tried it with anyone else though.

With Him, it just happened.  Through lots of conversations and me in a submissive mindset, conditioned only to cum when he gave me permission.. it just happened.

I don't know how long you two have been talking.. but it could be that she's just become conditioned to your voice and she's getting into a sub-mindset.  Without knowing more of what exactly you two do.. its hard to say.


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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 6:42:12 PM   
MasterUnknown


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I don't know how long you two have been talking.. but it could be that she's just become conditioned to your voice and she's getting into a sub-mindset.  Without knowing more of what exactly you two do.. its hard to say.




well we have been talking for about three weeks to a month  at the most.

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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 6:50:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		I do know some women that can do this. One really doesn't care for it.. Seems to be quite a bit of work to get someone to do this. I suppose the old saying goes, anything worth working for is worth having!

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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 7:11:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		hi... im fairly new to this site and havent posted before, but kinda felt like sharing my experince with this subject.

i can cum on command... i was never really trained to do so.. it just sort of happened very early on for me... several years before i had ever even had sex with someone, i was playing on the phone and.. he told me to cum and i did. it just went from there. there was no real relationship or anything between us.. it wasnt because of some deep connection we had.

it didnt always work tho.. some men id never cum on command with.. others sometimes i would sometimes not. a few... i always did.

after several years, im sure because someone took some time and put some effort into it.. i got to the point where i cum, no matter what, if im told to by a man i feel submissive to. i dont need to belong to him or anything, just someone i naturally feel submissive around... and its not the actual word that does it.. it can be phrased in any way and it works. apparantly im easy :)
not only that, but if im told not to cum i physically can not cum, no matter how hard i try. how hard i cum can be controlled.. if im told to cum harder i do.. each time im told to... which can get REALLY intense :) i was also with someone that had trained me with a hand signal to cum.

the orgasms out of the blue tho arent that much fun.. and if im in certain moods they just piss me off lol. and even when they arent out of the blue, during play usually they just arent as *good* as when im allowed to just cum on my own from whatever is happening. its just not as satisfying as when you build up all the way before letting go.

~lilkunt~

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RE: Cum on command - 4/2/2006 7:22:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		cumming on command "is" a lot of work to learn...i was very young when i learned how to do this...why i do not like to cum on command so much now is for one...it is no fun...espically if i am alone...and two it does not feel as good when i do not have something in me...i loved doing it for my Master...and when i did it for Him it carried a great sense pride for Him and a pleasure for me...but to just do it because i can...what is the point...if it does not bring any reward...just like masterbating alone...when there is no one to share it with...why do it...soft sigh...

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