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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 7:25:05 AM

RedMagic1

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One lesson learned from real life is worth ten thousand principles gained from mental masturbation.

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 7:26:56 AM

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But.... My brain is hard and dripping pre-thoughts!

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 7:30:16 AM

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Oh, blow it out your horn.

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 7:30:35 AM

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

But.... My brain is hard and dripping pre-thoughts!

Just grab hold!!!! and I am sure with alittle work you will actualize those thoughts into results you can be proud to show off!!!

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 7:31:43 AM

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My vision is that you need to master yourself first.......and that hen pecked husbands need to work out this shit with thier wives-not by puffing up on internet forums.

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 7:33:40 AM

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I had someone say to me that in some cases a man calling himself a Dominant or Master can have, in real life, no power whatsoever and chooses this lifestyle and position out of a desire to feel powerful and in control in some aspect of his life.
Someone like this wouldn´t last 10 minutes with me in vanilla land never mind a BDSM relationship. I think I have a pretty clearly defined idea of what I look for.

A man who is Dominant, not a man who calls himself A Dominant. Someone who rarely raises his voice because he doesn´t have to. Someone who is admired and respected by his peers and who´s advice is sought. Never aggressive or bullying... rather quietly confident and assertive. Someone who understands people and their motivation well enough to push the right buttons to get from them what he desires but is respectful with that ability.

Am I asking for too much?

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 7:36:25 AM

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Probably not-since the vast majority of real Doms like to be called by thier NAME. After all,they already have personal power. Only weaklings and very small children need constant outside validation.

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I had someone say to me that in some cases a man calling himself a Dominant or Master can have, in real life, no power whatsoever and chooses this lifestyle and position out of a desire to feel powerful and in control in some aspect of his life.
Someone like this wouldn´t last 10 minutes with me in vanilla land never mind a BDSM relationship. I think I have a pretty clearly defined idea of what I look for.

A man who is Dominant, not a man who calls himself A Dominant. Someone who rarely raises his voice because he doesn´t have to. Someone who is admired and respected by his peers and who´s advice is sought. Never aggressive or bullying... rather quietly confident and assertive. Someone who understands people and their motivation well enough to push the right buttons to get from them what he desires but is respectful with that ability.

Am I asking for too much?

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 7:37:00 AM

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STFU!!!!

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 7:38:24 AM

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STFU!!!!

swooons!

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 7:46:34 AM

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STFU!!!!

Having one of those

days?

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 8:02:10 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: jbcurious

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STFU!!!!

Having one of those days?

Don't listen to him-he's just jealous cause you look better in a dress than he does...

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 8:04:56 AM

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I have a clear personal vision of what a Master is all about. That vision is crystallized in the way I live, think and act as Master.

It is unfortunate that it doesn't seem be grounded in any semblance of reality.

- LA

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 8:05:19 AM

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You are all blurry. I have seen better pictures taken of a yetti.

So there.

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 8:06:23 AM

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You are all blurry. I have seen better pictures taken of a yetti.

So there.

You been drinking again haven't you?

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 8:11:41 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: jbcurious

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

STFU!!!!

Having one of those days?

Don't listen to him-he's just jealous cause you look better in a dress than he does...

...and here I thought he had a crush on me...

< Message edited by jbcurious -- 4/11/2010 8:15:30 AM >

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 8:21:11 AM

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

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You are all blurry. I have seen better pictures taken of a yetti.

So there.

You been drinking again haven't you?

Nope. Sober as a church mouse.

You have to admit that vaguely is kind of blurry...Kind of yettiesque in appearance...

I think vaguely might be related to big foot.

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 8:25:13 AM

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clearly the first two are fakes... but that third one..... well...it's a vision of clarity... so it must be real!!!!

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 8:31:42 AM

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I was going to mock the OP, but it seems you all have done an even better job of it than his wife has so now I just feel sorry for the hen pecked bastard.

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 8:36:54 AM

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Well, Michael gave a pass, but I won't.

If you are married, OP, how exactly are you living your principles? If you're not showing integrity in your primary relationship, how on earth are you going to have it with a s-type?

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RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? - 4/11/2010 8:41:55 AM

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You have to admit that vaguely is kind of blurry...Kind of yettiesque in appearance...

Not to those of us who have seen pictures of the gorgeous girl.

- LA

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