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LadyPact -> RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? (4/11/2010 10:52:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: jbcurious

I'm sorry, I did misread your words and appreciate your clarification and hope I get the opportunity to take you up on your very generous offer.

That's ok.  It happens easy enough.  (Someday, we will talk about My odd perceptions of things that I read during top space.)  When I haven't had adequate sleep, I confuse things quite often.



LadyPact -> RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? (4/11/2010 10:54:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

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Should you ever be in My part of the world, we'll see to it that you get your opportunity.

She really isn't kidding, jb. LP is one of the good ones for sure [:)]




My deepest thanks.  I hope to be able to see you again very soon.



WyldHrt -> RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? (4/11/2010 11:38:36 PM)

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My deepest thanks.  I hope to be able to see you again very soon.

I don't suppose that I will be able to talk you into leaving that dragon's tongue at home, though [8D]
*smooch!* and my best regards to Mr.P and clip.



reynardfox -> RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? (4/11/2010 11:53:48 PM)

My philosophy and dictum and indeed my rationale and outgoing and ingoing conjugal mental approach to the subject of sexual domination and the core values of doing what I like to do can be summarised in four words;
Sexual submissives, - enjoy them.



LadyPact -> RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? (4/12/2010 4:48:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

I don't suppose that I will be able to talk you into leaving that dragon's tongue at home, though [8D]
*smooch!* and my best regards to Mr.P and clip.


Of course you can.  I'll just bring the bigger one.  [8D]



CaringandReal -> RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? (4/12/2010 5:05:09 AM)


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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

All the females seem to be from "nigeria" so does that mean there are no humble female slaves left?[:D]
Or maybe the humble female slaves are just capable of using vocabulary that doesn't make them sound completely Victorian :P



Not the steampunk ones.



sunshinemiss -> RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? (4/12/2010 5:46:20 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

So you aren't really a sunshine? :-(

- LA



Well darling, if it isn't obvious, then I must not be!



sunshinemiss -> RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? (4/12/2010 5:49:00 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

So you aren't really a sunshine? :-(

- LA

Bingo :>




What's that? Pigtails in an inkwell?



Icarys -> RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? (4/12/2010 5:52:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss


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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

So you aren't really a sunshine? :-(

- LA

Bingo :>




What's that? Pigtails in an inkwell?

I secretly just like you as you put it.



ResidentSadist -> RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? (4/12/2010 8:40:11 AM)

I'm baffled by the OPs opening line in his profile. I thought a fata morgana was an extremely distorted mirage? They whisper.. huh?



Kana -> RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? (4/12/2010 12:04:28 PM)

Personally, I run a benevolent dictatorship.
~Grins~
Think Idi Amin with a generous prospensity...



lally2 -> RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? (4/12/2010 1:35:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: jbcurious

.Yet thread after thread...I see new people that aren't "Dom" enough or "subbie" enough or knowledgable enough... get shredded, ridiculed or ignored. Some have just faded away not to be heard from again and some have tried to take it in good humour and some have tried to fight back.

Many of you have been involved with this lifestyle for years, have read sll the books, know the right attitudes and answers. Some of us are trying to find those answers, trying to find our own possibilites. Many respond to posts in a detached analytical manner based on knowledge... Some of us post with personal thoughts, feeling and experiences bexause it's all we have.

Many have access to clubs, organizations, friends, munches ect as a way to meet people who are into the lifestyle, as a way to meet potential partners. Some have only CM as a means to learn and meet others.

I'm not asking anyone to stop being who they are, or to stop having a laugh and enjoying the sarcastic humor... I am asking that you be a little more tolerant to those of us still trying to find our way.


well said.

if a guy puts in his profile that he's married then thats one point to him right off the bat. plenty dont.

all that i read in his OP was a new guy trying to find his feet and start off with a premis.  at least he has some semblance of an idea and is trying to learn from others.

but he gets trashed by the people who assume theyre better than the rest because they have rheams of experience (but it would appear no humanity or humility)  i find the hypocrasy of some and the arrogance of others really depressing.

but you carry on, gather in youre tight little circle of uberness and shun all new comers and their slightly naive but nevertheless, genuine attempt to learn.

sheesh!



LadyPact -> RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? (4/12/2010 3:11:57 PM)

Unfortunately, lally, we don't agree. 

I'd give the guy points if he was honest with his wife more than if he's admitting that he's married here.

I'd give the guy points if the words in the original were swapped and instead of Master, slave, and M/s, they were  husband, wife, and marriage, and he was actually living up to that.

I'd give the guy points if somewhere in that novel length of a profile, he had one sentence in there about how his wife is aware of the online slave that he wants, that he even says he can never possibly meet.

My opinions on being ethical in a marriage first before involving other people in your life may not be popular, but I still stand by them.




Firebirdseeking -> RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? (4/12/2010 7:08:12 PM)

I'm with you, Lady Pact.

When I was still pretty 'new', I spent several hours over a day and a half in intense conversation with a "dominant". His profile state clearly that he was looking for a relationship. Then, I (naively) asked him So how long have you been divorced? He said Im not divorced.

Then there was the awkward pause where I have to decide to ask, are you separated, married, or widowed? Well, of course he was - is - married. I was quite indignant (so naive of me!) and said Why didnt you tell me? And he said... Why didn't you ask?

So yeah, I think ethical behavior, integrity, is real important, and not just in a marriage - but in life.



Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? (4/12/2010 11:02:05 PM)

I'll get back to you after I've sorted it all in OneNote.....



WyldHrt -> RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? (4/12/2010 11:19:19 PM)

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Of course you can.  I'll just bring the bigger one.  [8D]

How did I know that was coming.... [:(]

[:D]



lally2 -> RE: What is your vision & philosophy as Master? (4/13/2010 4:40:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Unfortunately, lally, we don't agree. 

I'd give the guy points if he was honest with his wife more than if he's admitting that he's married here.

I'd give the guy points if the words in the original were swapped and instead of Master, slave, and M/s, they were  husband, wife, and marriage, and he was actually living up to that.

I'd give the guy points if somewhere in that novel length of a profile, he had one sentence in there about how his wife is aware of the online slave that he wants, that he even says he can never possibly meet.

My opinions on being ethical in a marriage first before involving other people in your life may not be popular, but I still stand by them.




wasnt having a dig at you - i think youre great...

but in a way he is coming here to explore his wants/needs whilst knowing he might probably never be able to realise them.  its a release for him to share what understanding he has of this.  it just seems a shame that someone comes here and tries to share with us and gets ridiculed when he is being honest about his situation and his 'dreams'.

i personally dont see the harm in people like this coming here to release - i do mind it when people come here and manipulate us into some absurd 'pity party' thats clearly disengenuous and obviously for wank purposes.

in the end this trashing of someones dreams, fragile ones even sends out a message to anyone else looking to share and talk, if thats all they can do realistically and prevents them from doing that.  surely these boards are for everyone, not just the realised pervs but the ones who want to be realised but probably never will be.  in a way my heart goes out to them, it must be hard to want this and know youll never have it.

when i first saw the title to the thread i thought 'carnage, stay away' its so predictable - you know the poor sap is going to get chewed to hell, why, i dont understand and i just end up feeling bad for them.  so, from now on ill just stay away i guess.



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