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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 2:22:05 AM   
VaguelyCurious


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Seriously? One photo (which looks a tiny bit like an establishing shot from some soft porn)? Short, bitchy text? Obsession with beauty far beyond anyone I've ever come across in real life (and I've met some pretty shallow people)? Is nobody else thinking 'closeted man', here?

(I'm aware that as someone with one photo and some bitchy text I'm being kind of hypocritical here, but the difference is that I *know* I'm female, and there are several regular posters who will attest to that fact.)

The profile was created on Friday. I think we've been set up.

Mr Dead Rapper Necro Man? Is that you? Have I seen past your ugly-hating not-that-pretty exterior (going by 'her' photo I've slept with better-just being honest, OP) to the true you inside?


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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 3:26:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		Mmmmmmyeah and the profile also says "Asian". I dunno but she looks kinda....well....Caucasian to me anyway.

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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 4:12:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: JessicaSavage

Why do people on the internet get so pissy when you tell them that looks matter?  Isn't that just common sense?  I don't want to talk to fat guys or ugly guys.  It's nothing personal and it's my own choice. So why can't people just deal instead of getting so angry all the time?  To me looks matter, to me looks are the best way to tell what kind of person someone really is and to me looks are the most important piece of the attraction puzzle.  WHy can't everyone just deal?



Well Jess you little bag-o-chips you! It's been awhile, not looking quite the same as last time you trolled the forums. Fresh bout of plastic surgery? I would love for you to stick around and post a few more photos (I love laughing at twits that think they are hot, but are only really mediocre, especially when they've spent a bunch of money to try and accomplish it...) but given your track record, you won't be around long.

Shame......I would hate to say you will be missed but alas...........your waters are too chaotic.

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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 4:55:58 AM   
LadyEllen


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Status: offline 		Jessica is back and no one told me?

Has she truly lasted 8 pages this time? The new moderation regime is her friend perhaps.

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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 6:02:54 AM   
lally2


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Status: offline 		i dont think its a bad thing to have healthy self esteem but when i see it used to undermine others its a bit ugly and shallow to be honest.

i agree that attraction is important but in my experience the guys who are drop dead georgeous generally know it and tend to be arrogantly unnattractive as a result.  i went out with a male model once, purely for his looks and body realy, there was nothing much else to recommend him personality wise.  my sons dad is very good looking but in all other respects a complete shit.

personality counts for a whole lot more than looks.  a quality in the eyes that tells you he's fun, intelligent and interested in more than his reflection in the mirror sells it for me every time.  but i think that comes with maturity and experience.  eventually you learn that looks are not all that important at all, its the person they are that matters much much more.

but you have to kiss a few toady princes to learn that.

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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 6:21:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		I agree, looks matter a lot.

You're almost as pretty as I am handsome. But even with that, I have a body type requirement you don't meet. I'm not gonna get pissy if you don't like handsome older men and you should'nt get pissy if I won't date a woman that has a chest like a young boy.

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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 6:50:24 AM   
SassySarijane


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Status: offline 		Gotta agree with those who think the Jessyka troll has returned in yet another new incarnation. It's what I was thinking all through "her" posts. New account and straight to the boards to stir shit up as usual. Also thinking it's more likely male rather than female. Provided some good entertainment though lol.

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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 6:52:48 AM   
thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: JessicaSavage

Over defensive much?  lmao

I was just giving My opinion.



Not sure where you got over defensive from. His post made a lot of sense to me. Maybe the problem is with you and how you interpret words on a computer screen.

As to your op, I wouldn't know, unless I knew how your were responding to them. If you are as snarky for no apparent reason, as you were with red, that may be the problem. You can say it's not personal, but I am willing to bet, if someone told you that you were ugly, you would take it personally. Good luck.


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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 6:58:46 AM   
thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: JessicaSavage

I don't believe dishonesty is equal to maturity.  In my opinion it's always better to be honest even when the truth hurts.


Well I wasn't going to add to this thread, but since you think being honest is better, I will go ahead and give my opinion.

I think you are about the ugliest person I have met on CM. I hope you find a man who is equally ugly, who will make you miserable for the rest of you life.

Wow, your right, honesty is better


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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 7:00:13 AM   
stella41b


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Status: offline 		Intelligence also counts.

I guess there's nothing to stop the uncivilized and mentally retarded from coming onto these Message Boards and starting threads and posting. But if the most intelligent thing you can do with a computer and all this technology is brag about yourself and put other people down maybe it's best to stick with the rest of the uncivilized and retarded folks and keep it to your journal entries.


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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 7:00:48 AM   
thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: JessicaSavage

I always say this is just my opinion, what I think.  This is just the way things are to me and I don't see how anyone could get so offended when I make that clear.  Jeez I'm not being mean just stating my opinion.  Why can't people deal?


Why can't people deal?

That's a good question. Why can't you deal with people telling you that you are a bitch? Why are you getting so offended?


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Jessica Troll - 4/26/2010 7:06:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		So you guys think this is Jessica on a revisit? It doesn't really seem that inflammatory.

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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 7:07:22 AM   
SassySarijane


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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 7:14:41 AM   
thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: JessicaSavage

lMao well I got My answer in this thread.  What it comes down to is that people just aren't mature enough to deal with honesty, especially not people who are insecure about their own looks and age.  I should have known that going in but I guess I just wanted My intuition confirmed.  So I'm probably done with My thread now.  I may check back at some point but My questions have basically been answered. 


Well if that is all you got from this thread, then not only are you self-centered, but you need to work on your english comprehension skills.

My guess is you are done with this thread because you can't deal with people being honest about you. Like I said before....good luck with that attitude. You're going to need it.


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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 7:34:14 AM   
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Are we actually saying, in all this picking on the OP, that looks don't matter ? I think not, I think it more a matter of attitude.

When you first open the CM homepage it throws you a profile, not sure quite how they pick it, but they do. In one of them I've seen it says straight up "I admit I'm shallow, so send a pic". When you put it that way I have no problem with it.

And there is nothing wrong with being attracted to attractive people, really. But there is so much more. I would rather have someone who is butt ugly that I can relate to rather than a beauty queen who thinks her shit don't stink.

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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 7:47:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: JessicaSavage

lol exactly.  I don't even like being friends with ugly guys because in my opinion people who don't take care of themselves physically are also unhealthy mentally and unhappy and I choose not to burden my beautiful mind with people like that.  Sometimes people get really mad when I say things like that but I'm just expressing My opinion.

I am in a position to enjoy my bisexuality while out here in school and I have had nice young coeds tell me that they are just not attracted to me. I thank them for their honesty in telling me why rather than make something up or being vague about it.

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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 8:08:38 AM   
timmaygirl


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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes



4 - are we sure that this isn't the same "jessikapowers" or whatever the fuck her name was?


that is exactly what i was thinking...

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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 9:09:53 AM   
reynardfox


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Status: offline 		What a load of tripe! Looks tell you nothing about a person, some of the sweetest looking people are also killers. What a vain, shallow, vacuuous statement.
This is superficiality on steroids. (walks off muttering and shaking head)

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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 9:14:37 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Jessica LIVES to upset people. 

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RE: People freak when you tell them looks matter - 4/26/2010 9:24:23 AM   
perfectflaw00


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Status: offline 		Of course looks matter to a degree humans are visual creatures. Now the op could have come in and stated her opinion a little less arrogant but there is some truth to what she stated. In this society there is a premium on beauty its sad but its the truth. Good looking people get treated differently.

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