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myotherself -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 3:39:38 AM)
yeah, I think 'white knight syndrome' was the main issue. Hopefully she'll re-read this and realise that no-one was trying to bully her, we were just pointing out the obvious [:)] Hell, some of us have even made similar mistakes ourselves! Myo (the bunny is NOT hiding in that big cooking pot, so don't go looking...[8\|]) edited cos some days my fingers and brain do not work together

SimplyMe8 -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 3:42:19 AM)
Don't judge someone you don't know! I did not tell the whole story and was in a rush! My downfall by all accounts! Actually I do have a rabbit! He has just sent me a text asking why on earth would listen to complete strangers, who knew nothing about the entire situation! He may be right, so if it makes you feel happy.......do feel free to carry on. I would be questioning my own sanity if I where you, for trying to hurt other people with negative words!!!!

tazzygirl -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 3:44:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss He's just not into you. I just adore that book!

Aileen1968 -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 3:45:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMe8 Don't judge someone you don't know! I did not tell the whole story and was in a rush! My downfall by all accounts! Actually I do have a rabbit! He has just sent me a text asking why on earth would listen to complete strangers, who knew nothing about the entire situation! He may be right, so if it makes you feel happy.......do feel free to carry on. I would be questioning my own sanity if I where you, for trying to hurt other people with negative words!!!! Are you the OP?

loverly -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 3:49:40 AM)
This has happened to me .. NOT the kissing ( i just don't go there usually on a first meet or anywhere else! ) and me falling into some sort of subspace from the meeting but .. meeting.. for coffee or a drink and then going our seperate ways and afterwards nothing much.. and less and less as the days go by after tons of communication. It is an ovbious case of Him not being into You so much as was thought when chatting prior to meeting... As much as you are or where into Him...... Happens all the time and let me clue you in here.. JUST because you met him here on CM means Nothing... Alot of ppl here wear the guise of i am Master so that they can get casual sex and S&M play but aren't looking to fall in love or anything close to a relationship. i'm sorry it happened.. it sucks ... but also the downfall of internet meeting and communicating and then reality. Two different animals altogether!

myotherself -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 3:54:39 AM)
Oh FFS....I judge you only on what you have said. No more. If you read my last post again (and I recommend you do that), you will see that I gave your age, suggested you have a 'common' problem to newbies to this site/world of bdsm, I even stated that I have made similar mistakes. I also complimented your profile. NOTHING MORE THAN THAT!!! If you see that as a personal attack, then I can only suggest you are WAAAAAY too oversensitive to be on a site like this, and should stop posting if you take the opinions of strangers so personally and negatively.

SimplyMe8 -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 4:06:28 AM)
My apologies, there should have been a note attached to that post. She "being Maggie" is my friend, wrote that and asked me to post it, as for some reason now can't herself. I am not being involved in this discussion, I did tell her not to come on here. Something I would never do myself, my dirty linnen stays where it should be in private. Goodluck to you all.

Aileen1968 -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 4:18:59 AM)
Yeah...ok. Starting to get really fishy here. Me thinks the op is not being very honest with us all....

myotherself -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 4:51:35 AM)
Oh, I think she's being completely upfront and honest! [8\|] Although SimplyMe should have a chat with Maggie about nicking her profile text, word for word...

Aileen1968 -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 5:03:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: myotherself Oh, I think she's being completely upfront and honest! [8\|] Although SimplyMe should have a chat with Maggie about nicking her profile text, word for word... Heh. Now I wonder how many profiles she has or if she is even a she.

sirsholly -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 5:05:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMe8 My apologies, there should have been a note attached to that post. She "being Maggie" is my friend, wrote that and asked me to post it, as for some reason now can't herself. I am not being involved in this discussion, I did tell her not to come on here. Something I would never do myself, my dirty linnen stays where it should be in private. Goodluck to you all. [8\|]

keyhole -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 5:07:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: myotherself quote: ORIGINAL: maggieg Ok so we go to the car, he gets in. My heart is pounding, he kisses me.......................jesus! The mental became physical, it blew me away. I am very sexual very very very by the way. We chatted, kissed I wont go into explicit detail, but subzone came at me in bounds. Reread the bits in bold. Explain why we WOULDN'T think sex had happened! Next time clarity would be a better idea, rather than snarking because you're too shy and delicate to state what did (or didn't) happen and resorted to euphimisms and wordplay. I would guess that you came on to him like a truck full of lead, he realised you had turned an innocent snog into a lifetime of commitment and servitude and ran as fast as he could. There, that better? I read it. And I "got", quite clearly, that sex hadn't happened. It was completely obvious from the way she phrased it and from how I remember phrasing things similarly at certain times in my life. Absolute no brainer. (shrug) Snark? Pot-kettle-black, much? Why don't you stop being such as jerk just becuase you misunderstood something and try to increase your reading comprehension skills a bit?

Jeffff -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 5:09:37 AM)
LOL.... this is the weirdest place... really. I feel SO much better..... about myself..:)

myotherself -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 5:09:40 AM)
wow - another 'new profile' defending the OP...who would have guessed it? [8\|]

KatyLied -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 5:11:43 AM)
This is a ton of drama over something that was probably a drink, and kiss, and some wild sex. The guy is not that into you, as others have stated. If he was, he would be contacting you. This stuff is not difficult to figure out.

Aileen1968 -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 5:16:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff I feel SO much better..... about myself..:) Impossible you mandal wearing cankle lover.

SimplyMe8 -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 5:18:34 AM)
Goodness me, what a strange place this is. I do not have maggies profile, in the slightest. I will not defend myself, you are all of no consequence what so ever to my life. You are like like vampires on a virgins throat, next virgin that falls in, just re read simple. Take a moment of thought, to what they may be feeling to be here in this crazy forum to start with. It is very easy to attack, it takes effort to help.

sirsholly -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 5:21:07 AM)
quote: he says.......there is no us! there isn't. You met and chatted. The fact that you feel that constitutes a relationship was no doubt conveyed to him, which may be why he is now distancing himself from you. Truthfully...you sound like the needy stalker type.

KatyLied -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 5:24:42 AM)
If you simply met for a drink and a kiss, how does that make it a relationship? That is some weird thinking. No wonder he is ignoring you.

JstAnotherSub -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 5:27:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMe8 Goodness me, what a strange place this is. I do not have maggies profile, in the slightest. I will not defend myself, you are all of no consequence what so ever to my life. You are like like vampires on a virgins throat, next virgin that falls in, just re read simple. Take a moment of thought, to what they may be feeling to be here in this crazy forum to start with. It is very easy to attack, it takes effort to help. why would anyone be interested in a virgins throat? veddy veddy stwange as for the rest of the topic on this thread, someone needs to learn to manage their fantasy world a lil better, imho

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