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maggieg -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 3:17:00 PM)
Wow! You are all mad! Only shut up when you nod off! I am British, not that you would understand that!

Jeffff -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 3:20:23 PM)
The Sun never Sets on the British Empire!

Aileen1968 -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 3:23:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: maggieg Wow! You are all mad! Only shut up when you nod off! I am British, not that you would understand that! British people can't be loons???? Seriously though.....If this is your profile and if it's about the guy in the OP then he made the best decision of his life quote: I am a submissive woman. I am not weak, nor I am worthless. I am a submissive woman. I am intelligent, and possess a strength and perseverence that withstands the trials of life. This strength which i possess and cherish is my gift to You. When life breaks You down and makes You question the man you were intended to be... allow me to allow You to suck my strength from me. Make it Your own. I do not nor will I ever give my submission to a man just because he claims dominance. But to You, i give all of me... and Your ownership completely sets me free. i trust in You to cherish the gift, embrace my trust in You... to protect me. I have opened up my heart and my mind... the very core of my soul to You... and invited You in. I have given You the book entitled "Me"... and invited You to read. You know i have suffered and You know i am scared but You... You have endeavored to erase the memories and replace the pain. You are my Master and i am Your slave. i am not to be degraded nor ever dishonored yet i recognize i am not Your equal, nor will i ever be. i was created to compliment You... i was created to make You whole... for without the portion of Your heart that contains my soul... You would not be complete. Thankyou, for all the compliments, she smiles ;-)

myotherself -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 3:24:59 PM)
Jefffff...as a British citizen myself, I will marry you and you can be my little British hubby. It's only a few bits of paper to fill in, and you can be an honorary Britisher. I'll buy you a cardigan and slippers and train you to smoke a pipe and read the tabloid press. Will you marry me, oh hairy-snouted one?

AquaticSub -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 3:41:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: maggieg Wow! You are all mad! Only shut up when you nod off! I am British, not that you would understand that! You know that the Bunny is a Brit right? Again, if you are attempting to communicate it's your job to make it clear. Evidently this is a task you do not excell in. Instead of insults, you would probably be better served in all aspects of your life by attempting to improve. quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi Sure, knock me up next time you are in Detroit and I will deliver it in person[:)] Don't tempt me. I'm going stir crazy where I am and I have folks I could stay with near there! [:D]

myotherself -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 3:46:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 British people can't be loons???? We certainly can...I think I'm a rabbit, for crying out loud! [:D]

laurell3 -> RE: what is happening? (5/8/2010 3:54:45 PM)
Maggie.....ignore them, they're playing....it's fun...see? not personal...they don't know you...see it's the internet? I think this guy was correct, you are insecure, but also there are many idiots on these sites looking for easy sex or that aren't really someone you should be jumping over hurdles for. Remember this, and work on the esteem thing....you are looking for someone that is good for you..I know you are excited, it's new and all and man that's cool and you want it all RIGHT NOW, but slow down, the brick wall is going to give you a concussion if you don't stop and think about what you are doing and take care of you and value YOU more. Nothing is more unattractive than needy and clingy, and if you don't work on your radar a bit, you may get yourself hurt. Not every guy here is worth your time or worry, you deserve someone that's good for you...try it from that approach...you might see better results.

daddysliloneds -> RE: what is happening? (5/9/2010 8:22:06 AM)
most men who want to see you more than once, won't if you put out on the first date; and, if they don't make definate plans to see you again before the first date ends, you probably will never see them again.

AquaticSub -> RE: what is happening? (5/9/2010 11:05:48 AM)
Funny... all the men I've slept with on the first date have wanted to see me again.

reynardfox -> RE: what is happening? (5/9/2010 12:10:35 PM)
I started to read this, then it was no longer possible as the words, Needy and keyboard happy were flashing in the foreground of my head. How long did it take to write this? You could have been out looking for a life.

Firebirdseeking -> RE: what is happening? (5/9/2010 3:48:04 PM)
Maggie, you need to calm down. You put a post here and you can't turn it off. What others are saying is that you came across here, and so also likely to this man, as way to eager, and way too emotional. You did not see the red flags that this man was flying; the most obvious being his hesitancy to meet you. A red flag means STOP, it does not mean proceed with caution, orr bulldoze ahead, which is what you did. I see you are new to all this, or at least new to posting, or new to the internet; maybe you are new to "dating", who knows. But, you need to understand that many people are not who they appear to be. And you need to be more careful, and more controlled emotionally.

marylynn -> RE: what is happening? (5/9/2010 3:49:16 PM)
This sucks, and I'm sorry that it happened to you. Unfortunately, if there is no relationship set before the meet, then you're likely the candidate of Use and Discard. Try not to obsess too much, you will drive yourself crazy. Good luck in the future

lucylucy -> RE: what is happening? (5/9/2010 5:27:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Funny... all the men I've slept with on the first date have wanted to see me again. Same here. I think if you sleep with a man on the first date and he likes you, he'll want to see you again. If you sleep with a man on a first date and he doesn't like you, he won't want to see you again. If a man isn't sure if he likes you and you don't sleep with him on the first date, he may want to see you again (in hopes of getting laid on date #2 and/or determining whether he likes you or not). Apparently, though, the OP didn't sleep with him on the first date, so I'm guessing he doesn't want to see her again because he doesn't feel any chemistry.

Andalusite -> RE: what is happening? (5/9/2010 5:45:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: marylynn Unfortunately, if there is no relationship set before the meet, then you're likely the candidate of Use and Discard. Wow, I know some online-based relationships that have worked out, but if anything, most people suggest meeting before making a formal commitment. My Master and I dated for about a month and a half before I became his girlfriend and his slave. We used that time to get to know each other, spend time around each others' pets and friends, go on dates, talk, and so forth.

maggieg -> RE: what is happening? (5/11/2010 3:11:47 PM)
Ok lets get something straight.........we kissed! i NEVER PAID OUT! clear??????????????????????????????????????? Jesus! Get over yourselves. I made a mistake on coming on here, on thinking you would understand. I am not a bunny boiler, nor desperate for a man. I have read all this tonight.....I am a very busy woman, maybe it is a class/ foreign thing who knows? I am sure you are all lovely, and thankyou I am sure. I think this thread is over and gone. The man in question is very much in touch........and I have no need of him.

AquaticSub -> RE: what is happening? (5/11/2010 4:15:50 PM)
Or maybe you are extremely emotional and react to things too strongly? By the way, do you really think adding additional question marks makes a stronger point? Hopefully you learn from this experience that you need to write more clearly in order to be understood. People simply can't read your mind.

maggieg -> RE: what is happening? (5/11/2010 4:41:58 PM)
Well yes the ??????????????? means in my halfof the globe......DO YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT i SAID! No doubt my phone will start going off in the night telling me some saddo wrote on this pathetic thread again!

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: what is happening? (5/11/2010 4:44:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Funny... all the men I've slept with on the first date have wanted to see me again. I was gonna say, last guy I slept with seemed to never freaking go home. Men are like dogs. If you feed them, they won't leave. Pfft, don't mind me. I'm still sore at him for stealing the remote and hogging my side of the bed. Bastard.

laurell3 -> RE: what is happening? (5/11/2010 4:44:39 PM)
psst...you're encouraging it with your silly responses....you got some legitimate advice that was meant to be helpful...read it again....consider it if you want, or not....stop with the drama already. We were all new once, we have all made mistakes as well. Stick around, READ, stop insulting and take the advice you can find here and discard the rest, it really is that simple.

maggieg -> RE: what is happening? (5/11/2010 4:54:21 PM)
Advice you are kidding....it was an insult hurling at me, and a pathetic discussion between yourselves! God job, 1 I don't care and 2 I am strong!

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