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Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 8:47:44 AM   
SocratesNot


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Status: offline 		Do you slaves ever swear at your Masters / Mistresses?
Do you ever tell them that they are assholes or that they should fuck off?
If so, do they always punish you for this?

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 8:49:27 AM   
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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 8:49:53 AM   
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i will emphasize the word "once." 

i think that's all the answer you need. 

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 8:54:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		Do you mean behave this way when fighting or during play?

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 8:54:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		I had one Master who thought it hilarious every time i called him "Fucker"

Had another who thought my nose looked better purple after i called him an asshole... once (man had strong pinchers for fingers)

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 8:56:09 AM   
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Do you mean behave this way when fighting or during play?


Not during play, but when you are genuinely annoyed by their behavior. I mean telling them that they should shut up or fuck off or that they are assholes, jerks, idiots, etc, when you are really angry and when you actually mean it.

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 8:56:16 AM   
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quote:

Do you slaves ever swear at your Maters / Mistresses?


The men I'm involved with find swearing to be distasteful, particularly where I'm concerned. I try to avoid doing it in all honesty. But in relation to him? Uh, no.

quote:

Do you ever tell them that they are assholes or that they should fuck off?


Yeah I did that once and he came unspooled. It was bad. I never did it again. Even in a non exchange relationship it didn't play out well. I just accept that my wiggle room on that issue is nil.

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If so, do they always punish you for this?


Yeah, he gave me neck respect.

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 8:57:09 AM   
LillyoftheVally


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Status: offline 		I am not a slave I am submissive but my ex was and yup she swore all the time, nope he didn't punish her

Though not a slave I have sworn at most of my ex partners on occasions, only one that I remember didn't like it, he just wouldn't talk to me for a while after I did it

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 9:01:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SocratesNot

Do you slaves ever swear at your Masters / Mistresses?


I would only do so in a joking around meant to totally entertain him sort of way like calling him a Rat Bastid when he's getting sadistic all over my ass which would just make him chuckle.


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Do you ever tell them that they are assholes or that they should fuck off?


NO and no.


quote:

If so, do they always punish you for this?


Moot.

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 9:01:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SocratesNot

Not during play, but when you are genuinely annoyed by their behavior. I mean telling them that they should shut up or fuck off or that they are assholes, jerks, idiots, etc, when you are really angry and when you actually mean it.



No.  But then, i don't engage in that type of behavior in any relationship, at all.  It's emotional immaturity to lash out at someone i love and/or care for when i'm hurt and/or angry, and hurtful to the relationship, ultimately.

You can say you're sorry, you can seek forgiveness, but you can never "un-say" something.  It's like cracking a mirror.  You can fix the crack, but you'll always still see it.  Eventually there are too many cracks, and the whole thing falls apart.

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 9:02:51 AM   
barelynangel


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Status: offline 		Yes, i swore at my former Master.  I told him to go to hell, i told him he was being an ass etc, especially in a temper.

Depended on his mood really if he "punished me" and many times i was heading out the door at a dead run lol if i told him to fuck off.  As i became more enslaved and i grew as a slave, these happened less often, but it still happened -- i have a temper from hell.

Many times he would put me on silence if he was really ticked off at my doing so.  That SUCKS -- i mean seriously, not being able to speak for days on end.  Sometimes, he spanked my ass.  Other times, especially if it was one of those times i thought to make a quick escape, he would tackle me and well let's just say he showed me exactly what it meant to fuck off lol.  Other times, i would jump into his arms after swearing at him and wrap my arms and legs around him and kiss him.  grins this usually ended with my being used very nicely than getting my ass spanked lol.

I think it depends about the two people involved how its handles and even if its something that is appropriate. 

angel

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 9:07:39 AM   
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Yes, i swore at my former Master.  I told him to go to hell, i told him he was being an ass etc, especially in a temper.

Depended on his mood really if he "punished me" and many times i was heading out the door at a dead run lol if i told him to fuck off.  As i became more enslaved and i grew as a slave, these happened less often, but it still happened -- i have a temper from hell.

Many times he would put me on silence if he was really ticked off at my doing so.  That SUCKS -- i mean seriously, not being able to speak for days on end.  Sometimes, he spanked my ass.  Other times, especially if it was one of those times i thought to make a quick escape, he would tackle me and well let's just say he showed me exactly what it meant to fuck off lol.  Other times, i would jump into his arms after swearing at him and wrap my arms and legs around him and kiss him.  grins this usually ended with my being used very nicely than getting my ass spanked lol.

I think it depends about the two people involved how its handles and even if its something that is appropriate. 

angel


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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 9:11:08 AM   
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No.  But then, i don't engage in that type of behavior in any relationship, at all.  It's emotional immaturity to lash out at someone i love and/or care for when i'm hurt and/or angry, and hurtful to the relationship, ultimately.

You can say you're sorry, you can seek forgiveness, but you can never "un-say" something.  It's like cracking a mirror.  You can fix the crack, but you'll always still see it.  Eventually there are too many cracks, and the whole thing falls apart.


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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 9:11:26 AM   
barelynangel


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Status: offline 		yeah, i tried to explain to him all the time, i wouldn't have to swear if he stopped being such a butthead about things.

His response before he spanked my ass was that it really sucks to be a slave when the butthead is the one who determines things like when my butt needed attention .



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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 9:40:33 AM   
GraciousLady


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SocratesNot

quote:

Do you mean behave this way when fighting or during play?


Not during play, but when you are genuinely annoyed by their behavior. I mean telling them that they should shut up or fuck off or that they are assholes, jerks, idiots, etc, when you are really angry and when you actually mean it.


Oh my! Tearing at each other verbally (or physically) is not part of a healthy and happy relationship. Perhaps sitting down and talking when your both calmer would be a better way to deal with such fierce aggrevations? I'm not saying a verbal jab is wrong because we are all human but name calling is a wound that is hard to heal in a relationship.

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 9:43:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SocratesNot

Do you slaves ever swear at your Masters / Mistresses?
Do you ever tell them that they are assholes or that they should fuck off?
If so, do they always punish you for this?


If it got to this point, he would be a former master rather than a current one... I try not to lose my cool unless things are truly dire.

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 10:17:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't swear at anyone (or tell them to fuck off) when I'm mad (ok except my ex husband, once), so swearing at someone I love like that is too foreign a concept to even contemplate.  I've sworn at him jokingly, or I've used profanity to emphasize a point here and there, but swear AT him?  That would make me feel too ugly inside.

No punishment because it doesn't happen.


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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 10:20:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: barelynangel

Yes, i swore at my former Master.  I told him to go to hell, i told him he was being an ass etc, especially in a temper.

Depended on his mood really if he "punished me" and many times i was heading out the door at a dead run lol if i told him to fuck off.  As i became more enslaved and i grew as a slave, these happened less often, but it still happened -- i have a temper from hell.

Many times he would put me on silence if he was really ticked off at my doing so.  That SUCKS -- i mean seriously, not being able to speak for days on end.  Sometimes, he spanked my ass.  Other times, especially if it was one of those times i thought to make a quick escape, he would tackle me and well let's just say he showed me exactly what it meant to fuck off lol.  Other times, i would jump into his arms after swearing at him and wrap my arms and legs around him and kiss him.  grins this usually ended with my being used very nicely than getting my ass spanked lol.

I think it depends about the two people involved how its handles and even if its something that is appropriate. 

angel


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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 10:43:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SocratesNot

quote:

Do you mean behave this way when fighting or during play?


Not during play, but when you are genuinely annoyed by their behavior. I mean telling them that they should shut up or fuck off or that they are assholes, jerks, idiots, etc, when you are really angry and when you actually mean it.

From the other side of the kneel.

I wouldn't tolerate this from My husband, much less My submissive. 

I do know people who do this during play.  I can get how folks would make a different allowance for that.  Not as a standard way to deal with each other.


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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 5/31/2010 11:06:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't swear at anyone. Which does not mean that I cannot make it abundantly clear that he is acting very badly and that it is lowering my respect for him.

With that said, the worst I ever said to my ex was to go to hell. And the few times I said that, he knew I was deadly serious and on the verge of leaving. It isn't the words per se, it's how you communicate.

However, he doesn't swear at me either. And I wouldn't tolerate it from him. We don't do punishment but acting like an asshole earns you its own punishment, loss of the other person's trust and respect.


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