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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/2/2010 11:16:20 PM   
porcelaine


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Although you didn't ask this particular question I'm going to add it on to my original response. I don't draw distinctions between how I address/refer to him whether I'm in his presence or not. I'm specifically thinking of discussions I have with other people aside from him. Especially friends. It isn't uncommon for people to vent or express their displeasure about something when in familiar company. However, there's a line I refuse to cross and I maintain that decorum when he's out of earshot. In my opinion, if he's an ass with a friend he's going to be an ass to his face at some point.

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/2/2010 11:43:07 PM   
NymphetamineGirl


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Status: offline 		I think the OP may have unknowingly derailed the thread with the concept of swearing.  As I see it, the issue is an expression of anger that is different enough from normal behavior as to say "we have a problem here", especially an expression outside what many consider to be good manners, and how do couples handle that.  Well we all can accept that manners are as you decide they are, it's a product of raising, environment, and agreements.

But as a sub I can say that one of my needs, in terms of the trust required for my submission, is to know that my happiness is important and that hurt feelings will never be simply bulldozed over.  Now the means of dealing with that pain may not make sense to anyone else but to each her own. 


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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/3/2010 12:22:55 AM   
petmonkey


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Status: offline 		i can swear like a sailor. ZX was a sailor when i met Him, so He barely noticed.
i would request a time-out if i felt angry enough to lob insults during an argument, though--just doesn't seem healthy. If i did this, i would kind of expect them to walk away from the relationship, or i would maybe, as it probably meant i have no deep respect for them. i also don't do well with foul language used as loving nicknames--i get that other people do, it's just not for me and mine.
Lately, i've been saying silly replacement phrases like "Zesus' Beard!" and "What the cuss?!" at work.  It's a laid back environment mostly, some of my co-workers certainly swear a bit but i try to not get so laid back in my language that i fall over. Swear words can be akin to saying "like" a lot for others, if i'm not careful.




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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/3/2010 2:34:13 AM   
reynardfox


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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/3/2010 8:57:24 AM   
kuppykake


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Status: offline 		umm yeah, I have a dirty mouth, and yeah it gets me into trouble...we're working on this 

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/5/2010 9:16:03 AM   
daddysliloneds


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ORIGINAL: SocratesNot

Do you slaves ever swear at your Masters / Mistresses?
Do you ever tell them that they are assholes or that they should fuck off?
If so, do they always punish you for this?


yes, and i never get in trouble for telling the truth

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/6/2010 5:40:10 PM   
sblady


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Status: offline 		Nope, never. I'm not sure how Sir would react if I ever took leave of my senses and swore at him, but chances are, that won't occur. In fact, that sort of thing hasn't occured in my non D/s relationships. I grew up in an environment where yelling, swearing, etc., was the norm and I knew that was something that I wouldn't allow in my relationships.

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/6/2010 5:50:57 PM   
elleX


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Status: offline 		Hi everyone ,
i am french canadian , in our culture  swearing is made with religious words , derived from our catholic backgound
so * tabarnak , hostie and others word are often use , i am very UNWELCOME  to swear in any way
and to swear at him is  simply impossible to me
i must behave like a lady even when i am furious , 

elleX

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/10/2010 10:05:10 PM   
TheSubMale


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Status: offline 		No I wouldn't take it that far..I more then likely wouldn't even have the guts to anyways lol.

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/11/2010 6:04:43 AM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: elleX

Hi everyone ,
i am french canadian , in our culture  swearing is made with religious words , derived from our catholic backgound
so * tabarnak , hostie and others word are often use , i am very UNWELCOME  to swear in any way
and to swear at him is  simply impossible to me
i must behave like a lady even when i am furious , 

elleX



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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/11/2010 10:18:05 AM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: SocratesNot

Do you slaves ever swear at your Masters / Mistresses?
Do you ever tell them that they are assholes or that they should fuck off?
If so, do they always punish you for this?


Yes I do tell him he is an asshole. No he doesn't usually punish me. He is aware that he is an asshole. I'm simply applying the correct term.

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/12/2010 5:04:39 PM   
phoenixmoonn13


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Status: offline 		i dont swear day to day never have , however on occasion when i hurt myself or drop somthing heavy on my toe i may. i once swore when master was getting close to mypain limit, not a good time to swear at him i have never done so since.

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/20/2010 4:28:02 AM   
Zechriel


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Status: offline 		Good morning!

I do not curse, I use other words like jerk or idiot to express how people act. But no I would never say anything disrespectful to him. We had a fight once, about a year ago. huge blowout b/c I felt like I was still paying for what his past girlfreinds, subs, and ex wife had doen to him. Okay well I STILL feel that way sometimes just now I do not say it. But anyways, I was yelling things like "why do you treat them better than me when I have done more for you?" and he was just looking at me like I could see the anger brewing but I was on a roll. Yeah, we split for a few days, I got punished severly for 2 weeks and it has never happened again. Not even raising my voice. Like others have said-it only takes once, then you learn. Good luck.
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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/20/2010 6:15:33 PM   
ncprincess


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Status: offline 		Called Him an asshole the first time He spanked me. It was in the very beginning of going from Him being "boyfriend" to Master. An added couple swats from the belt was all it took for me to not say it again. I have playfully told Him to "bite me" and it's always such fun when He complies.

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/21/2010 11:22:57 AM   
curiouskitten8


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Status: offline 		I still have an immature tongue and a quick temper ( both of which I am working on). My Dom doesn't mind me swearing, but if its directed at him..boy-o! 

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/21/2010 11:24:40 AM   
domiguy


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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/21/2010 11:32:44 AM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		I find it interesting that so many claim to never swear or curse when getting angry at a partner.

We ALL lose our tempers sometimes and we ALL swear or curse sometimes and in a healthy relationship this is fine, just not every time there is a disagreement.

Whether it is vanilla or not, people will get ticked off and curse or swear. To think otherwise is ridiculous.

My parents are married 56 happy years and they actually curse at each other sometimes; really. The sky did not fall in and they still adore and love each other.

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/21/2010 12:06:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SocratesNot

Do you slaves ever swear at your Masters / Mistresses?
Do you ever tell them that they are assholes or that they should fuck off?
If so, do they always punish you for this?

All the time

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/21/2010 12:54:46 PM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		I never curse...It is not polite.

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/21/2010 1:11:40 PM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		I'm not a slave, but yes I have cussed at Daddy, told him to fuck off, told him a few times to pack his shit and leave, and no he doesn't punish me for that. We don't have a punishment dynamic.

quote:

ORIGINAL: SocratesNot

Do you slaves ever swear at your Masters / Mistresses?
Do you ever tell them that they are assholes or that they should fuck off?
If so, do they always punish you for this?

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