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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/21/2010 2:40:10 PM

amanii

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I was raised to consider cursing as uncouth & so try not to swear often, however as I'm only human swearing does happen mainly when I'm angry or upset about something.

However swearing at my Dom or within his hearing, no way! In our initial discussions he made it perfectly clear that swearing was not a habit he liked or tolerated in his sub & that the consequences of breaking that rule would be unpleasant, painful & humiliating for me.

I am taking him at his word for self preservation!

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/21/2010 6:56:42 PM

SirsJewel

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i swear when upset and he tollerates it within reason,but at Him, never, i would be slapped before the word left my lips~ jewels

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RE: Swearing at Masters/Mistresses - 6/21/2010 10:29:37 PM

ElanSubdued

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SocratesNot,

--- Do you slaves ever swear at
--- your Masters / Mistresses?

Not normally, no. I have, however, during a discussion that got very heated, sworn at my domme. I was not happy with myself afterward.

--- Do you ever tell them that they
--- are assholes or that they should
--- fuck off?

Generally, never. (See my answer to the first question.) I try, as much as possible, never to say unkind words to my partner as this accomplishes worse than nothing. If I'm with someone where nasty communication is the regular modus operandi, that's a relationship that isn't going to last.

--- If so, do they always punish
--- you for this?

No. Punishment isn't required. We both know when things have gotten so out of hand that we've lost respectful humanity for one another. Sometimes, after we've both cooled down, this means two-way communication is needed to prevent this happening again. Other times, this indicates things have headed south and communication won't repair the already damaged relationship.

Elan.

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