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RE: Trying to be special - does it EVER work? - 6/10/2010 8:02:58 PM

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I seem to be at a loss for words, literally. Has anyone seen them?

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RE: Trying to be special - does it EVER work? - 6/12/2010 4:44:06 AM

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Two answers:

First, I had such fantasies a long time ago when I was extremely young and insecure and needed proof that I was attractive. I didn't try to act on them, thank the gods, I don't think I'd like myself much today if I had.

Secondly, as people have probably already told you, these aren't particularly difficult things to acomplish, especially when you understand the more basic social rules and urges that most of us operate under. Once such rule is "Attention trumps pretty much everything."

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RE: Trying to be special - does it EVER work? - 6/12/2010 7:28:05 AM

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It is said the Nice Guys are ignored and oft not trusted if they appear too good to be true by members of the female sex. Conversely, Bad Boys attract females like flies and maggots to rotted meat (there is a parable in the somewhere just can't place my finger on it though).

So, if both of these are true, then you can make your self special by being either a really good guy and be loved by the few girls who appreciate your kindness and gentle manners or you can go down in infammy by being the boiggest, baddest bastyard about and have femalke knickers adorning your trophy wall.

Good Guys get better as they mature with age like priceless wine and bad boys burn out, get haggard, scared and either jailed for life or shot in some back alley unless the do a James Dean.

For me, I'd rather do the very best with what I have and let those who actually know me judge and the rest will either hate me or love me. That is still a jolly lot of love to have.

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RE: Trying to be special - does it EVER work? - 6/12/2010 9:01:21 AM

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AWWWW hell SocNot, Here we go again.... One of your silly ass questions that has no possible answer. People are who they are. From within. It's their personalities that make them who they are. Why the fuck would you want to try to change someone???? You're supposed to like and love the person you're with. Quit trying to play Dr Jekyll and turn people into your own personal Frankensteins. It may have been fiction, but it didn't work so well.

We (yes the Royal we) keep telling you to get out in the real world. You don't seem to be able to grasp that concept. Once again, STEP AWAY FROM THE KEYBOARD. Or I'll come there and unplug the whole damn PC and force you into the sunlight. If you turn into ash, then my initial suspicion that you're actually a vampire sucking the life out of everyone will be proven once and for all.

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RE: Trying to be special - does it EVER work? - 6/12/2010 9:31:26 AM

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Ye Gods and little fishes lass, I do love it when you talk dirty...

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