laurell3 -> RE: Public or Private Displays. (6/19/2010 3:18:51 AM)
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ORIGINAL: ranja Jeff, this is from your profile: "For us, there is a relatively small kink component to this. We don't engage in SM and about the extent of the bondage is the collar, leash, and occasionally I cuff her while she's working just because I like seeing her submit physically" again i like to point out that i do not have any problem with anybody doing their thing, but at the same time i fail to see how a kinky thing like having your partner on a leash (as you refer to it yourself in such a way) is not sexual... And wether it makes anybody horny or not is not the point... i would argue that flirting is sexually driven aswell, but that does not mean to say that anybody who does a bit of flirting is horny And if people can not understand why i think it is sexual, then i think that they are missing the point and some lovely intimate sexy power play is totally not picked up upon and wasted... and all there is left is a sad and silly display of two adults, who should know better, playing dogs upsetting some members of the general public... but hey, if that is your thing go ahead. Also someone mentioned there is a difference between a lead and a leash... can anybody explain what the difference is as i am un aware. Does anyone see the complete irony in ranja being the spelling/grammar dictator on this thread? Your assertation that you aren't trying to insult anyone is quite obviously untrue. If I were going to be the spelling nazi, I'd probably mind my own first. The reason people are saying it isn't sexual is because it clearly isn't to them. The fact that it is to you doesn't change that. You can bitch and moan about it all day, they aren't you and your childish arguments don't change the fact that we are all different.
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