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Glasgow -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:35:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff Make him promise that you won't get pregnant too! Sweetie?.. he might not even know he has a disease I'm on the patch, so no worries about zygotes infecting my uterus. Ahem, just saying it again, 'twas all in jest. Nobody shall get laid tomorrow.

RCdc -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:35:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DaddysInkedSlut you can simply walk into the health dept. and ask for a brown bag and get a lunch bag full of condoms. Lol Oooo...like pick and Mix?[:)] the.dark.

Whenready -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:36:48 PM)
Fee fi fo fum I smell... a troll? No profile... big sis hid condoms... (age?) no money..... I promise I havent got a disease - not even a cold - sniff - is it me or are ALL the red flags waving here? Yes it COULD be me... If it IS Me - and this is genuine - have coffee in public - have a phone call with a safeword - walk away after coffee - and think before you act.

DommeKeliDallas -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:36:57 PM)
All of these people say "take condoms." WTF? Are you going to F at Starbuck's? I doubt it. ...and what if this guy is awful? No one is that desperate.

Glasgow -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:37:20 PM)
quote: I agree take condoms just incase. In maryland and California you can simply walk into the health dept. and ask for a brown bag and get a lunch bag full of condoms. Lol I am indeed in California, but I was under the impression that our local PP chapters charged for condoms. Is there a secret I don't know about?

PeanutTigerinBox -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:38:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas All of these people say "take condoms." WTF? Are you going to F at Starbuck's? I doubt it. yeah, but ones doubt is another persons kink, yanno [8\|]

Jeffff -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:38:18 PM)
No one is that desperate... Really? And what starts in starbucks can end anywhere. How fucking naive are YOU?

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:38:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Whenready is it me or are ALL the red flags waving here? No, it's you. She was being sarcastic about the diseases, for god's sake.

Glasgow -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:39:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Whenready Fee fi fo fum I smell... a troll? No profile... big sis hid condoms... (age?) no money..... I promise I havent got a disease - not even a cold - sniff - is it me or are ALL the red flags waving here? Yes it COULD be me... If it IS Me - and this is genuine - have coffee in public - have a phone call with a safeword - walk away after coffee - and think before you act. I do have a profile. A nice one. I hid it, because I was tired of getting messages. She didn't hide them, she took them out of my room and left. She doesn't live with us, and decided that removing my option of having safe sex would definitely make me a safer person. I'm 18, don't have a job, and am going to college while living off of my parents. I have no money. Nobody was talking about me not having a disease. It's the dude I'm meeting. It's definitely you.

laurell3 -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:40:38 PM)
Remember in the meeting stage it's very much a two-way street, regardless of role. Don't let anyone try to convince you to do anything that you don't want to.

RCdc -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:40:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Whenready If it IS Me - and this is genuine - have coffee in public - have a phone call with a safeword - walk away after coffee - and think before you act. b o r i n g ... (couldn't resist) [;)] Whatever happened to the 60's man and free love and spontanaity.... ( and the just in case scenarios)....[sm=hippie.gif] the.dark.

Missokyst -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:41:42 PM)
Try the college walk-in medical office. They usually don't need an appointment for something they can just hand over the counter. If you are in Cali, most colleges I know have them free. Oh and BTW.. I love the idea of a sarcasm font!

CalifChick -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:42:20 PM)
Yanno, there could be some people right here on this very thread who know a lot of people in your town, that are active in the local group. The local group whose leaders come up to our munches and events. The local group where a bunch of our peeps go road-tripping to meet up with. The local group who knows who the online peeps are. Just sayin'. Cali PS: Let someone know where you are??? Most people don't do "safecalls" for a meeting at Starbucks. Unless you're really truly worried about them running out of espresso... that might warrant a safecall.

lally2 -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:44:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Glasgow quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Well where are you meeting and for what purpose? Bring condoms. Generally, just be yourself, relax, hang out, use good sense, follow your instincts. He's a Dom. We're meeting to see if there is any possible future of enslavement. I don't plan to sleep with him as soon as tomorrow - which is probably good, because I am broke and out of condoms. We are meeting in a very public place, which I am well familiar with. It's a cluster of restaurants, expensive boutiques, a movie theater, and a Starbucks. We will be meeting at the Starbucks. so whats with the older doms telling you to be careful - sounds like a regular meet up. like the others have said, relax and enjoy youre time together - if theres chemistry then great - have fun.

Whenready -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:45:04 PM)
'Tis me then. Rolls a 3 for stupidity. There goes my perfect record....

RCdc -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:45:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick PS: Let someone know where you are??? Most people don't do "safecalls" for a meeting at Starbucks. Unless you're really truly worried about them running out of espresso... that might warrant a safecall. I'd have a safe call just for meeting at a starbucks. Don't y'all have somewhere that sells better coffee than there? Blergh....[:'(][;)] the.dark.

Glasgow -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:46:13 PM)
quote: so whats with the older doms telling you to be careful - sounds like a regular meet up. I'd estimate that I've received about 20 "be careful" messages from randomers. And as far as I know, it is a regular meet up. But I've never met up before, so I'm trying to glean the wisdom of you experienced people before I go.

laurell3 -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:46:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick Yanno, there could be some people right here on this very thread who know a lot of people in your town, that are active in the local group. The local group whose leaders come up to our munches and events. The local group where a bunch of our peeps go road-tripping to meet up with. The local group who knows who the online peeps are. Just sayin'. Cali PS: Let someone know where you are??? Most people don't do "safecalls" for a meeting at Starbucks. Unless you're really truly worried about them running out of espresso... that might warrant a safecall. LOL....nice Cali

MissJana -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:46:48 PM)
Run out of espresso!!! Good god call 911!!!!!!!

Jeffff -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:47:20 PM)
As a sign of good faith, she should blow him. How is a guy supposed to know if she is true wthout her blowing him? It can't be done! "This post was approved by Ron"

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