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caelestis -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:47:43 PM)
The only thing I haven't seen here (and there is plenty of good advice, thats for sure) is to leave someone with his number as well, you never know what could happen, and any way to increase the chance of friends contacting is usually a good one. Hope you have a good time! [:)]

LadyNTrainer -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:49:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Glasgow I'm on the patch, so no worries about zygotes infecting my uterus. Ahem, just saying it again, 'twas all in jest. Nobody shall get laid tomorrow. Well, I probably will, but this is quite biologically unlikely to get you pregnant. Unless we do something really fancy with mad science, like in the movie Splice. [:D]

LadyCimarron -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:50:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Glasgow quote: I agree take condoms just incase. In maryland and California you can simply walk into the health dept. and ask for a brown bag and get a lunch bag full of condoms. Lol I am indeed in California, but I was under the impression that our local PP chapters charged for condoms. Is there a secret I don't know about? The California Department of Public Health has a Public Health or STD Clinic somewhere in your area. All Public Health STD clinics offer free condoms, and sexually active residents can also acquire them by calling the Public Health STD Hotline at 1-800-758-0880. The hotline also provides referrals to low- and no-cost clinics for STD testing and treatment.

Glasgow -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:50:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: caelestis The only thing I haven't seen here (and there is plenty of good advice, thats for sure) is to leave someone with his number as well, you never know what could happen, and any way to increase the chance of friends contacting is usually a good one. Hope you have a good time! [:)] Good idea. That way, they can give it to the police if I go missing. You guys are just so helpful [sm=hearts.gif] Alright, Jefff. Are you being facetious? Because you know how impressionable young people are. I don't want to blow him in the middle of a Starbucks unless I really, really have to.

Glasgow -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:52:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer quote: ORIGINAL: Glasgow I'm on the patch, so no worries about zygotes infecting my uterus. Ahem, just saying it again, 'twas all in jest. Nobody shall get laid tomorrow. Well, I probably will, but this is quite biologically unlikely to get you pregnant. Unless we do something really fancy with mad science, like in the movie Splice. [:D] I was waiting for someone to make this joke. Cookies for Lady for getting there first!

Jeffff -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:53:12 PM)
Sighsssssss.. you newbies. Blow him in the RESTROOM.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:53:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Glasgow Alright, Jefff. Are you being facetious? If you feel the need to ask this question you have not been here long enough. :P

Jeffff -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:54:52 PM)
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Glasgow -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:55:42 PM)
quote: The California Department of Public Health has a Public Health or STD Clinic somewhere in your area. All Public Health STD clinics offer free condoms, and sexually active residents can also acquire them by calling the Public Health STD Hotline at 1-800-758-0880. The hotline also provides referrals to low- and no-cost clinics for STD testing and treatment. Thanks, I'll look it up. quote: Sighsssssss.. you newbies. Blow him in the RESTROOM. Oh yeaaaah... [sm=dunno.gif] when will I ever learn? In the RESTROOM. quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: Glasgow Alright, Jefff. Are you being facetious? If you feel the need to ask this question you have not been here long enough. :P ...well played.

GraciousLady -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:56:30 PM)
Get to know this man very well before you put yourself in a situation that you may not be able to get out of if you want to.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:57:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff 421 Good morning, class. Can we spell 'Wank-Related Macular Degeneration'?

LadyNTrainer -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 3:59:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Glasgow I don't want to blow him in the middle of a Starbucks unless I really, really have to. Oh, go ahead. It will taste better than their over-roasted coffee.

Glasgow -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:00:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff 421 Good morning, class. Can we spell 'Wank-Related Macular Degeneration'? Sometimes you guys say things, and I just have no idea. quote: Get to know this man very well before you put yourself in a situation that you may not be able to get out of if you want to. I plan to -- a very good friend of mine is going to be my helpful relay buddy and keep me out of trouble.

juliaoceania -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:00:29 PM)
quote: which is probably good, because I am broke and out of condoms. Laughing here, this is already getting off to a bad start.... Does he have condoms (just in case)?

laurell3 -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:01:27 PM)
Yeah I had to ask too... http://www.collarchat.com/m_3251388/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#3251436

sunshinemiss -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:01:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas All of these people say "take condoms." WTF? Are you going to F at Starbuck's? I doubt it. ...and what if this guy is awful? No one is that desperate. Oh please. People fuck everywhere. I always win the "what's the weirdest place you've ever had sex?" contest. Starbucks would not even be in the running. To the OP: Yes take condoms. Who knows? He may be fabulous and you want to have all kinds of mind blowing monkey sex for 3 days. Meh... It happens. Back when I was 18.... Do give his number to someone else, and safe calls? How fricking safe is it if you are already dead? Have a good time, don't be stupid, trust yourself. BREATHE! And then come back and tell us all the gory details. oh yes... that's the most important one! best, sunshine

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:03:15 PM)
Fast reply Most of the gay bars I've been to have condoms on the bar. Although, it is kinda tacky to go into a bar, take a condom and leave without at least buying a drink. Not sure which is cheaper, bar drink or small pack of condoms. Anyway, to answer you. I've done all the wrong things, and all the right things and oddly enough, the only time I was harmed was when I did all the right things. Still, I'd advocate taking the safety precautions anyway. Just so you realize, most precautions aren't really to keep you safe but rather to fasciliate an investigation if something goes wrong. Now that we have the disclaimers out of the way. Have fun. Try and remember that you are meeting a person for the first time. No matter how many texts you've shared, or emails, he's still a stranger. An individual that it is definitely OK to not want, desire or have any interest in submitting to. Sometimes it is easy to fall into the people pleaser mode, and do what you feel is expected of you. Not sure if that is the case with you, but if it is, then remember that it is ok - in fact it is IMPORTANT - that you keep in mind that you are under no obligation to 'serve" this stranger you are meeting for the first time. Unless you want to. Hmm, did I mention have fun? That's important too. WinD

laurell3 -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:03:21 PM)
Agreed! They never tell us the good details, it's always the crap we would never want to know..........sobs*

lizi -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:03:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: caelestis The only thing I haven't seen here (and there is plenty of good advice, thats for sure) is to leave someone with his number as well, you never know what could happen, and any way to increase the chance of friends contacting is usually a good one. Hope you have a good time! [:)] I used to email my bff with all the information I had about the guy plus where we'd be and any other pertinent info on things before the date. One of my dates told me that a woman he'd been out with took a picture of his license plate and text messaged it to her girlfriend, I thought that was pretty clever. I don't tend to be too overlycautious and have probably taken some stupid risks when I shouldn't have. Someone I know from here went on a meeting and was raped as a result, after knowing that this happened to her if I were ever single again I'd be much more cautious and perhaps be taking pictures of license plates. My major downfall is trying to please people. If I can be so bold as to offer advice I'd just like to say don't do anything you don't feel like doing, and take it slowly. I could have benefited myself from doing things this way a time or two. He may be sold on you but you get to make that decision too and your time table may be different.

Glasgow -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:05:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: which is probably good, because I am broke and out of condoms. Laughing here, this is already getting off to a bad start.... Does he have condoms (just in case)? I'm sure he does. Or, he better. Man, I hate being poor. Your laughter is deserved, for I am but a lowly college student.

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