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Jeffff -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:06:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss Oh please. People fuck everywhere. *I always* win the "what's the weirdest place you've ever had sex?"** contest. Starbucks would not even be in the running. SO... SPILL IT!

rulemylife -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:08:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Glasgow Well, much to the fury of concerned older men everywhere that sent me messages telling me to be careful, I've gone and jumped into the BDSM pool with both feet -- I'm meeting someone from CM tomorrow. We're both local and have texted for about a week. Although, I've never met anyone from the Internet before, much less for something like this, and I'd appreciate any advice. Especially from that IronBear guy. He's awesome. Run away quickly. The people here are all perverts.

Glasgow -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:08:37 PM)
quote: Agreed! They never tell us the good details, it's always the crap we would never want to know..........sobs* Tomorrow, I will start a brand-new thread called "Advice For Glasgow: The Followup". In exchange for your advice, I will give all of you the dirty, gory details, and whether or not I blew him in the restroom of a Starbucks. @Lizi, good advice, especially that last bit.

laurell3 -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:08:56 PM)
duh.

rulemylife -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:15:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: laurell3 duh. See? Just what I mean. Not only are you perverts but you use filthy, vile language to defend your perverted ways.

Glasgow -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:16:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rulemylife quote: ORIGINAL: laurell3 duh. See? Just what I mean. Not only are you perverts but you use filthy, vile language to defend your perverted ways. Now I admit I'm rather new, but I thought that the point was that everyone here is a pervert? [8\|]

BitaTruble -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:16:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Glasgow Well, much to the fury of concerned older men everywhere that sent me messages telling me to be careful, I've gone and jumped into the BDSM pool with both feet -- I'm meeting someone from CM tomorrow. We're both local and have texted for about a week. Although, I've never met anyone from the Internet before, much less for something like this, and I'd appreciate any advice. Especially from that IronBear guy. He's awesome. Take breath mints with you. Coffee does not make for pleasant oral activities.. even talking across the table can cause you to wrinkle your nose. ;) Also, eat something light before you go.. butterflies can actually leave you a little light headed if you're nervous. If you wear perfume, go light on that as well.. if he is allergic, sneezing his brains out makes it hard to have a conversation. Check the weather before you go so you aren't dressed too warm which will make you sweat or too cool which can distract you and make you uncomfortable. Take your time getting ready, enjoy the anticipation without too many expectations and, as many others have said, have fun! Oh, and take enough money to pay for your own coffee or what have you... just in case. :)

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:18:42 PM)
And take a pen. People respect people who carry pens around-it makes them think you are organised and capable. It may come in handy.

Glasgow -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:19:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious And take a pen. People respect people who carry pens around-it makes them think you are organised and capable. It may come in handy. Not only do I always carry a pen, but I also carry Post-It Notes. They're so sticky and awesome and bright and cheery, and also useful for making notes! And posting them to places! Hurrah!

laurell3 -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:20:23 PM)
LOL....by the end of this thread she's going to be all sorts of stressed and carrying a damn suitcase full of junk! Have fun! By the way, this person you're meeting doesn't post here or read the boards do they?

Glasgow -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:22:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: laurell3 LOL....by the end of this thread she's going to be all sorts of stressed and carrying a damn suitcase full of junk! Have fun! By the way, this person you're meeting doesn't post here or read the boards do they? Er, I don't believe he does.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:24:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Glasgow Not only do I always carry a pen, but I also carry Post-It Notes. They're so sticky and awesome and bright and cheery, and also useful for making notes! And posting them to places! Hurrah! Fuck this randomer. Stand him up. Get on a plane, get over here and marry me. Now. It's legal here. We'll do without condoms [:D]

Glasgow -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:27:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: Glasgow Not only do I always carry a pen, but I also carry Post-It Notes. They're so sticky and awesome and bright and cheery, and also useful for making notes! And posting them to places! Hurrah! Fuck this randomer. Stand him up. Get on a plane, get over here and marry me. Now. It's legal here. We'll do without condoms [:D] But I would disappoint my randomer :( Oh check it out! Now I have four of those swirly things. When do I get paddles? Or handcuffs?

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:30:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Glasgow But I would disappoint my randomer :( For a girl who carries post-its on her person I can live with disappointing a randomer. :P

kiwisub12 -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:30:16 PM)
I think you need to take a clean pair of undies - in case he is superhot (like the abs on that hunky brit fella) and you get all overemotional and moist and embarassed because it looks as if you wet yourself. You need a book , in case he is boring - you can pull it out and non-verbally indicate he is of no more interest than a fungus. You need a pair of spectacles - in case you want to look intellectual. You should carry an umbrella, so he will know you are always prepared. and finally, you should carry a red rose - in case you want to choose him. have fun, enjoy and first meets are always nerve wracking and interesting.

Glasgow -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:32:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kiwisub12 I think you need to take a clean pair of undies - in case he is superhot (like the abs on that hunky brit fella) I know!!! That dude is so frikken hot, right?! Damn the Atlantic ocean, keeping us apart. Dx

Glasgow -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:33:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: Glasgow But I would disappoint my randomer :( For a girl who carries post-its on her person I can live with disappointing a randomer. :P Well I feel like I should at least meet up tomorrow. But if it doesn't work out, we can always talk winkwink

rulemylife -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:33:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Glasgow Now I admit I'm rather new, but I thought that the point was that everyone here is a pervert? [8\|] No my child, one must restrain themselves from the evils of perversion. As a self-ordained Catholic priest I can demonstrate to you the evils that lust and sexual sin cause. Your place or mine?

Glasgow -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:34:57 PM)
Yours, but I think you're next in line after Vague.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice (6/10/2010 4:38:10 PM)
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