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SpiritedRadiance -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 7:46:55 PM)

Because part of being an adult is admitting your mistakes and hopefully learning from them

And with her decision possibly people can offer insight on how to cope with the embarrassment or the feelings that come with that decision.



domiguy -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 7:48:26 PM)

Maybe she will show a pic of her cunt?



subtee -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 7:57:01 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance

Because part of being an adult is admitting your mistakes and hopefully learning from them

And with her decision possibly people can offer insight on how to cope with the embarrassment or the feelings that come with that decision.



And for that to be true, it has to be to you and everyone else?

God this place sucks sometimes. She's 18.



laurell3 -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 7:58:38 PM)

The truth is you all love drama. She's not obligated to post here to tell us anything. Give it a rest. She's 18 and feeling out what life is really like, you all made mistakes at 18 too, stop pointing fingers.



heartcream -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 7:59:56 PM)

Hopefully this was a merciful eye-opener for the OP. I certainly did major stuff that I would do different fo sho if I did it over again. Maybe it is perfect she popped in here and folks threw snowballs at her head and maybe it shook her up enough to re-think the grand plan.

Maybe not. I think it is sad if not because it doesnt feel like moving in with the guy is the healthiest of choices in the world today. If she moves in with him well, let the road trip begin as best as can be.

I kinda hope the peanut gallery of mostly folks older and experienced than she, will add to her decision making process. In that way the hard knocks she got here will be as hard as they get, rather than the real live owies some of us have known to be whomped with in our past histories.



Jeffff -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 8:00:15 PM)

Let's get back to the gash shots. Before we lose sight of what's really important.



maybemaybenot -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 8:00:43 PM)

subtee:

While I understand where you are coming from, the OP has three threads on this one week old relationship, including one where she willingly shares all the " gory details ". Of course those were good gorey details. So, yeah, I don't think it is too much or trying to inflict trauma on her to ask for the upsot of the resolution.

I am personally hoping this 27 y/o man has the good sense and good character to tell her she needs to get an education and to not jump " full steam ahead " into something she knows little to nothing about. And that he continues to be there to support her. Since she is quite taken by this man, it may be best coming from him rather than her parents. I would have serious concerns if he was content to be a wedge between her and her family.



SpiritedRadiance -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 8:01:53 PM)

And Im 21, Age really has little to do with it. Shes old enough to get into bdsm shes old enough to make a decision to move in with a total stranger, shes old enough to deal with the fall out of her actions, /Just like I am just like you are.

she made the decision to post her private life on a public board, And people would like to know how it turned out, I personally would like to know because regardless of harsh and blunt truth, I dont like to see people suffer in the world.

And if you really dislike the place, and how its going, I can only suggest to you whats been suggested to me on other boards and forums in the past, Your not going to change how other people conduct themselves here.

If you dont like it, create your own forums that you can control. If not hide the peoples opinions you dont like and move on. Shes an adult, and shes posted around and stomped her foot going on and on about how she is one. So Im going to treat her like one.

You cant have it both ways, either shes an adult whos able to cope and deal and work through things or shes not.....



Jeffff -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 8:04:25 PM)

And I am 53.


I win!!!!!



SpiritedRadiance -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 8:05:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

And I am 53.


I win!!!!!


Does That mean I get your birthday spanks?



subtee -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 8:06:14 PM)

I'm not going to indulge you, because you're so young too. I've said what I meant.

"People would like to know" is not enough.




SpiritedRadiance -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 8:08:30 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee

I'm not going to indulge you, because you're so young too. I've said what I meant.

"People would like to know" is not enough.




And Ive explained, I would like to know to see if any of my knowledge can help her cope with the situation, I think thats a valid enough reason.



girlygurl -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 8:09:27 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

And I am 53.


I win!!!!!


I love older men!



laurell3 -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 8:10:01 PM)

I love your ass!



subtee -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 8:10:58 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance

And Ive explained, I would like to know to see if any of my knowledge can help her cope with the situation, I think thats a valid enough reason.



Guess what? You're not going to get your wish. So DEAL.




Jeffff -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 8:11:08 PM)

Who doesn't?



Back that thang UP!



subtee -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 8:14:01 PM)

God, the Independence of our country could come soon enough.




SpiritedRadiance -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 8:14:15 PM)

And if she decides to offer it, then she does, and I guess you don't.

I honestly dont know why you are having such an emotional response to someone whos choosing to make her own life a spectacle.

But If that is your wish that is your wish, I will not respond to your posts on this thread further because I can not do so with out it becoming an emotional battle, instead of one of wits and logic.



UniqueRaven -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 8:14:30 PM)

When i was 18, i dated a 27 year old man (for reals).

After about a month, he told me i was just too young, that he was too old for me, and that i should be dating closer to my own age.

i cried my eyes out for a few days.

Turned out to be the nicest and kindest thing he could have done for me. He was right. [;)]



laurell3 -> RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out (6/14/2010 8:17:33 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance

And if she decides to offer it, then she does, and I guess you don't.

I honestly dont know why you are having such an emotional response to someone whos choosing to make her own life a spectacle.

But If that is your wish that is your wish, I will not respond to your posts on this thread further because I can not do so with out it becoming an emotional battle, instead of one of wits and logic.



By your post count you're still a bit new here, three pages of bitching at someone to disclose something they may not want to isn't usual or really even appropriate. It's a public forum, people tell us what they choose and not more. Live with it.



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