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UniqueRaven -> RE: Dominant submisive acts? (6/18/2010 2:59:44 PM)
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You know, this thread got me thinking about when i read the thread yesterday between LadyPact and PeonForHer where they were going back and forth telling an erotic story about a submissive man performing orally on another submissive man and having a strap-on used on him for the first time.
And when i got to PeonForHer's post about where this man was being taken for the first time by a Domme with a strap-on - i gotta tell ya, it made me hot. And i had a moment of thinking, "Whoah, am i secretly a Domme or do i have switch tendencies? Eeek!"
But then i reminded myself of what i've already figured out about myself through real life experiences - the part of the fantasy that resonated with me was the submissive part - i kept thinking about how good it must feel for Peon, the fear he must have had, the pleasure he gained by serving LadyPact in that way - i didn't think much about LadyPact's piece at all. It's that deep rooted need in me to please, and to be pleasing that reached out to the submissive male's experience. i know that if you asked LadyPact what "worked" for her about the whole erotic tale experience, it would be entirely different - and a feeling i wouldn't understand at all, because she is on the other side of the kneel.
This is why if any potential Owner of mine wanted me to engage in a "Dominant" act like using a dildo on him, i would - because it pleases him, and he's in control of the situation. Some acts would be easier than others for me, of course, if he wanted me to paddle him or something (highly unlikely) that would be very hard for me because i simply can't figure out how to wield an implement of pain on another human body - seriously, every time i've tried it's turned out to be really funny - it just doesn't compute for me.
But that's the difference - no matter what action i take, i am still deeply submissive, i have a deep need to please, and ultimately, i'm a slave.
No other values needed.
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