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RE: Do you enjoy being a submissive? - 7/5/2010 5:51:55 PM

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Well, I've found I am much more content and settled internally when in a defined D/s relationship. It seems much easier to establish and define limits and expectations. I enjoy the security and stabilty of knowing I can express my submissive nature and have the assurance that expression will be recognised and appreciated for what it is.

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RE: Do you enjoy being a submissive? - 7/6/2010 3:33:41 AM

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RE: Do you enjoy being a submissive? - 7/6/2010 3:35:32 AM

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RE: Do you enjoy being a submissive? - 7/18/2010 10:47:17 AM

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ABSOLUTLEY. no greater pleasure than serving and pleasing whether in a sexual role, or otherwise. Knowing that someone enjoys and wants your attention

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RE: Do you enjoy being a submissive? - 7/18/2010 11:10:00 AM

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However, if given the option to be equally fulfilled by vanilla relationships instead, would you take it?

I would take it in a heartbeat and without hesitation. No more endless looking for years on end. No more yearning and wondering if you will find what you are seeking. No more lonely nights and long days as the years endlessly roll by while you get older and you feel you are standing outside in the rain looking in on everyone else's happiness. No more wondering what it would be like to be fulfilled or to be complete. And the list could go on and on and on..

So to answer your query, yes. Yes, I would take the option in a heartbeat of being able to be equally fulfilled in a vanilla relationship. That would be something worth nearly any price to be paid.

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RE: Do you enjoy being a submissive? - 7/18/2010 11:11:12 AM

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Do you enjoy being a submissive?

i used to, but now...i'm not so sure.

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RE: Do you enjoy being a submissive? - 7/18/2010 7:34:29 PM

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With the right Domme, of course!

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RE: Do you enjoy being a submissive? - 7/18/2010 9:52:14 PM

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Mind you this is a bit more complex of a query than it may seem. Obviously we all enjoy being submissive to the extent that we receive gratification from interacting with dommes. However, if given the option to be equally fulfilled by vanilla relationships instead, would you take it?

I see that as a different form of fulfillment. One that wouldn't include the tenets of the power exchange that I prefer. However, I don't relegate that to merely non kink situations. I've encountered the same within the BDSM landscape as well. I have a noticeable bias for men that have an innate need to own and inflict varying controls that are sadistic in nature. It is not a mandatory component for all dominants and I would view engagement with them akin to the stance you've presented in your question.

To set aside those things for a relationship that offered some measure of fulfillment but failed to address the things I want in a power exchange would take some internal wrangling. I have never encountered anyone that has compelled me to dismiss the pivotal for a different flavor so to speak. However, I have interacted with those that wanted far more than I fathomed but didn't find myself ill at ease. I'm highly attracted to men that place heavy demands upon me, and would view the compromised situation and the non kink environment as sorely lacking.

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