Nineveh
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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx Ok, so I just got an email from domlongschlong (names have been slightly changed to protect the clueless) I remember that he has cmailed me before because it's an...interesting name. Interesting but...off putting, at least for me. So, when you see a nic called fuckpuppy or domwithdick (both made up but could be real) does that change your perception of the person at all? Do you consider someone with a name like that, or is that a deal breaker? For me it is a deal breaker as far as dating goes. I'm sure I may have turned down some interesting partners because of it, but I want someone a bit more subtle. I don't want/need to see your cock until I'm interested in you. I don't want/need to think of you as slutbitch unless you are MY slutbitch and I gave that name to you because you are special to me. Also, does it change the way you view their posts? If sucksalotofcock is posting in politics and religion, it's possible I would pass right by that post just due to the nic. Otoh, if domwithcookies posted there, I might engage because I would think that showed a sense of humour, and a willingness not to take one's self so seriously. So is there a difference between putting yourself out there as just a vagina or cock and an ironic sense of humour? I know this is a bit judgmental, but it is honest, and I am curious about others' thoughts on this subject. I thought I was the only one who got creeped out my someone's lack of class or tact. The ones that REALLY creep me out are the "oral 4 U" ones and I totally agree with you about the "slut" ones. If a man is calling himself a "slut", you're right...He is not a "slut" until I say so. What also gets me going is "your" for "YOU ARE"...instead of you're. you define whether or not he is a slut? I'm pretty sure if he's sleeping around, he's a slut.
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