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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:06:48 PM   
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He had sex with a teenager, not a child....he is not a pedophile the way that term is defined by the DSM-IV....


You and I will disagree on this I am sure to the death.

13 is pedophiliac.

I don't care what you say, you may want to look at pictures of what she looked like at 13 and what he looked like at 13 and then tell me you honestly still think what he did isn't pedophiliac.

Age is subjective when it comes to development.... and in 1970 the Hoochie Mamma of the year 2010 is a far cry different from one another.

The DSM-IV is good for so many things... I really think it gets some very wrong, or at least only half right.

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I look at this from an anthropological view also, in many countries people get married as soon as they reach puberty.


Now you can look at it from our cultural standard... we can agree to disagree...


What I will say is that he drugged her and raped her, and no matter what her age that is rape. I will also repeat.... He has never reoffended as far as we know. He has been gone for 3 decades. His victim is well old enough to say that she doesn't want him extradited, and I think that has some meaning in this case. We have people in this country that get reduced sentences that are pedophiles, meaning they target prepubescent children to molest and rape, this behavior in this sort of pedophile cannot ever be cured, it isn't situational, and they reoffend at a sky high rate.... so excuse me if I don't want to worry about this dude who is never coming back here.

I know several people who were targeted by the type of pedophile that hangs out at schoolyards... those are the types I worry about the most, and they are exceedingly dangerous to all of our kids.... we should be going after these people the most instead of reducing their sentences and letting them out early (which happens way too often)

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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:06:56 PM   
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I have no clue what his 'victim' looks like now or then, but going by his extremely lenient sentence, and the psycologist releasing him early saying 'he's not a paedo, not a threat to anyone'....I seriously doubt he's a child molester of any kind.

"13 is paedophilic"

Nah. There are plenty of 13 year olds who could be described as 'children'.....but there are also plenty of 13 year olds who could pass for 18. You shouldn't/can't broad brush label stuff like that, 13 is the age of consent in some places....If I'd gotten laid at 13, it wouldn't have been a pedophilia, it'd have been awesome.

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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:08:59 PM   
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but there are also plenty of 13 year olds who could pass for 18.


I had a D cup at 13

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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:10:26 PM   
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His victim does not want him prosecuted further




Its not up to her. He pled guilty. Its now out of her hands.


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He had sex with a teenager, not a child....he is not a pedophile the way that term is defined by the DSM-IV....


The DSM IV states its 13 years old or younger. you may want to recheck your facts.

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Now I am for the current age of consent, and I am for prosecuting people who have sex with teenagers, but by the same token, when I hear people call a sex crime against a teen "child sex crime", well it isn't... I think it muddies the water when we look at sex crimes committed against the prepubescent.


We arent talking about consensual sex between a 13 year old girl and her 16 year old boyfriend. This is between a 13 year old girl and a man in his 30's, after plying her with booze and drugs, ending in anal sex.

I dont believe any waters have been muddled.

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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:11:36 PM   
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And, according to all my friends at the time, average 13 year old male has a foot long cock and fucks every weekend.

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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:13:25 PM   
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And, according to all my friends at the time, average 13 year old male has a foot long cock and fucks every weekend.



Dude, if you had seen my photo on the Breasts Thread on gen discussion, you would see I am twice a D cup these days

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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:14:34 PM   
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Oh I saw it :D

Wasn't doubting you, just trying to lighten the mood....people get really intense about this subject.

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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:20:52 PM   
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dont believe any waters have been muddled.


I think that anytime we lump the prepubescent with children the waters get muddied.

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Pedophilia: People with pedophilia have fantasies, urges or behaviors that involve illegal sexual activity with a prepubescent child or children (generally age 13 years or younger)


http://www.medterms.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=46415


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Terminology
Pedophilia is a psychiatric disorder characterized by sexual interest in pre-pubescent children by an adult or older adolescent. [1][2][3] According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), pedophilia is a paraphilia in which a person has intense and recurrent sexual urges towards and fantasies about children they have either acted on or cause distress or interpersonal difficulty.[4]
According to Frederick S. Berlin, M.D., Ph.D., Director of the National Institute for the Study, Prevention and Treatment of Sexual Trauma, the words "pedophile" and "pedophilia" are sometimes used informally to describe an adult's sexual interest or attraction to teenagers and other situations that do not fit within the clinical definitions. Dr. Berlin indicates that the terms "hebephilia" or "ephebophilia" may be more technically accurate in these cases. [69] Another erroneous but unfortunately common usage of "pedophilia" is to refer to the actus reus itself, (that is, interchangeably with "sexual abuse")[70][71][72][73] rather than the correct meaning, which is a preference for that age group on the part of the older individual.[74][9] Even more problematic are situations where the terms are misused to refer to relationships where the younger person is an adult of legal age, but is either perceived socially as being too young in comparison to their older partner, or the older partner occupies a position of authority over them.[75][76] Researchers recommend that this incorrect use be avoided.[74][69]


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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:24:27 PM   
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And my source...


Special Report
Psychopathology and Personality Traits of Pedophiles
By Lisa J. Cohen, PhD and Igor Galynker, MD, PhD | June 8, 2009

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Diagnosis
DSM-IV and DSM-IV-TR define pedophilia as “recurrent, intense sexually arousing fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors involving activity with a prepubescent child or children (generally 13 years or younger).” These feelings, urges, or behaviors must persist for at least 6 months. The DSM-IV criterion that such urges must cause clinically significant distress or functional impairment was amended in DSM-IV-TR, such that recurrent pedophilic fantasies or arousal need not be experienced as distressing. This correction reflects the ego-syntonic nature of many pedophiles’ sexual desires and/or behavior.3,4

According to DSM-IV, pedophilia can be diagnosed in the absence of any pedophilic behavior. Nonetheless, because of the potential legal risks of self-reporting pedophilic inclinations, the majority of pedophile research is conducted with participants who are identified by their behavior, most often via their contact with the criminal justice system.

There are 2 problems inherent with this research pool. For one, convicted or arrested sex offenders might differ considerably from pedophilic individuals who have not acted on their urges or who have acted on them but have not been caught. Second, not everyone who sexually molests a child is actually a pedophile; that is, such a person may not have a persistent sexual attraction to prepubescent children.5 Despite these difficulties, current research does reveal sufficiently consistent patterns to provide a basic overview of common psychological features associated with pedophilia.


http://www.psychiatrictimes.com/display/article/10168/1420331



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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:28:39 PM   
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I don't care how you write it this goy deserved a LOT more than he got, and he never fully did what he was supposed to have done.

My Point is Justice is so rarely served in so many cases why is this guy so special?

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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:28:51 PM   
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Thanks for posting that, it supports what I just posted off Wiki.. that even one incident does not classify someone as a pedophile, just like the absence of acting on it does....

Researchers have stated what I have on this thread, people often misuse the term and should educate themselves about it...

He hasn't shown he will be a recidivist, has he?

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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:30:21 PM   
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According to DSM-IV, pedophilia can be diagnosed in the absence of any pedophilic behavior. Nonetheless, because of the potential legal risks of self-reporting pedophilic inclinations, the majority of pedophile research is conducted with participants who are identified by their behavior, most often via their contact with the criminal justice system.


You missed this part, julia.

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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:30:37 PM   
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I don't care how you write it this goy deserved a LOT more than he got, and he never fully did what he was supposed to have done.

My Point is Justice is so rarely served in so many cases why is this guy so special?

QSM


That works both ways, if he was anyone else, would they still be looking to extradite him after three decades?

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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:32:34 PM   
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Sure, julia, lets allow him to walk away. It was just a little girl... barely a teen if you will. The next one that this happens too, we can let him walk away too.

How many daughters do you have?

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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:35:46 PM   
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I really think you're barking up the wrong tree here Tazzy, the issue is him skipping out on a possible month in prison...not paedophilia...he had sex with an, apparently quite mature, 13 year old once....spent 50 days being examined by a psycologist who releasd him early saying he was no risk to anybody. That mention of 13 years old is 'at most 13'...as in that's as late as anyone usually remains undeveloped and potentially paedobait.....most 13 year olds wouldn't be interesting to a paedophile....ya don't suddenly switch from kid to adult on your 14th birthday.

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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:36:48 PM   
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I don't care how you write it this goy deserved a LOT more than he got, and he never fully did what he was supposed to have done.

My Point is Justice is so rarely served in so many cases why is this guy so special?

QSM


That works both ways, if he was anyone else, would they still be looking to extradite him after three decades?


Who knows... I often wonder why some cases get swept under the rug while others get put all over the news.

Both my cousins were victims of pedophiles. No News on it at all. The guy just moved to a different state and they STILL haven't found him. Where is my Breaking News Moment?

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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:38:07 PM   
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According to DSM-IV, pedophilia can be diagnosed in the absence of any pedophilic behavior. Nonetheless, because of the potential legal risks of self-reporting pedophilic inclinations, the majority of pedophile research is conducted with participants who are identified by their behavior, most often via their contact with the criminal justice system.


You missed this part, julia.


In my research on this topic, which I have looked into it for personal reasons, is that there are different types that commit sex crimes. Believe it or not, just because someone has done an action that does not make them a pedophile. Now you can try to say that it does, but scientists that research this behavior say it doesn't. There are people that take one action, and never repeat it, and claim to have no fantasies regarding a younger age group...

The person in this case was past puberty, no matter what the legal definition is, she was not prepubescent. Now you can try to throw out every definition of this that you can muster, but it does not support him being what researchers call a "true pedophile", which is someone that has ideations of romantic relationships with prepubescent kids... targets them, etc....

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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:44:51 PM   
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Sure, julia, lets allow him to walk away. It was just a little girl... barely a teen if you will. The next one that this happens too, we can let him walk away too.

How many daughters do you have?


He would do 90 days in jail...

So you are willing to spend tax dollars on chasing this man to the ends of the Earth to save American girls? You find nothing slightly out of balance when we could be spending money on pedophiles in our own backyard? If you were really worried about your daughters you would be checking megan's list and worrying about what you find out about in your own backyard instead of fearing a man that is afraid to come back here for a 3 month sentence

How is locking him up for 3 months protecting your daughters? He would just be free to come back to the good ole USA after that anyhow
And his victim is on board with letting him go... and yes, I think what SHE wants counts for something.

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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:46:54 PM   
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Sure, julia, lets allow him to walk away. It was just a little girl... barely a teen if you will. The next one that this happens too, we can let him walk away too.

How many daughters do you have?



Really low.


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RE: Lousy Swiss…dumb assed French - 7/12/2010 7:47:31 PM   
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I really think you're barking up the wrong tree here Tazzy, the issue is him skipping out on a possible month in prison...not paedophilia...he had sex with an, apparently quite mature, 13 year old once....spent 50 days being examined by a psycologist who releasd him early saying he was no risk to anybody. That mention of 13 years old is 'at most 13'...as in that's as late as anyone usually remains undeveloped and potentially paedobait.....most 13 year olds wouldn't be interesting to a paedophile....ya don't suddenly switch from kid to adult on your 14th birthday.


Im sure 30 years ago, under the limited knowledge they had regarding pedophilia, he was seen as having no further risk. These days, we know much better.

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I have no clue what his 'victim' looks like now or then, but going by his extremely lenient sentence, and the psycologist releasing him early saying 'he's not a paedo, not a threat to anyone'....I seriously doubt he's a child molester of any kind.


Suddenly she was. according to you who said he didnt know what she looked like... he had sex with an, apparently quite mature, 13 year old once... your words. Did you look up her pictures?

http://www.listown.com/pic2-samantha-geimer-photos-shoot-7463

Quite mature looking.

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