Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female Page: <<   < prev  1 2 [3] 4 5   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 6:25:12 AM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Like it or not, that is the topic.  As soon as you said you want to do this in secret, you made it the topic.

Not everybody here is going to say that just because it's kinky, it's any different than a vanilla person looking to lie and cheat on his wife.  It really doesn't work like that.



Actually it does. The guy is being honest to everyone but his wife. She might be really gross which makes it okay.

There are a lot of people on this thang that are looking for something "on the side." I have met two of them. They were not honest in their profile or in brief discussions before we met. I don't roll that way so it was nothing that I pursued. One time I suggested that we get a hotel room and I would do everything raunchy to her under the sun and then she could leave. She said that she wanted a relationship. I told her that she already had one.....Life goes on.

The op will inevitably find that which is being sought. At least he is honest to his perspective plunderee and his wife is probably really gross, which makes it okay.

< Message edited by domiguy -- 7/14/2010 6:26:29 AM >

_____________________________



(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 41
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 6:35:51 AM   
BentUnit


Posts: 897
Status: offline 		I don't give a flying rats arsehole if she is a "two bag job" or he needs serious beer goggles to get near her.
He married her and he needs to own that.

Either fucking man up that it's not working and cut your losses or be caught and wear the wrath of a woman scorned.

Here is a little humor that isn't so humorous ...

What do a Scorned Wife and a Hurricane have in common?

They are both ferocious and wild when they hit and they both take the house and the car when they leave.

Something to dwell on.

(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 42
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 6:37:24 AM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline 		Lose half your shit now or later, what's the diff?

Maybe ol' uggo is in a coma?

_____________________________



(in reply to BentUnit)
Profile   Post #: 43
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 6:41:52 AM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

Lose half your shit now or later, what's the diff?

Integrity.


_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 44
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 6:46:07 AM   
BentUnit


Posts: 897
Status: offline 		If 'ol Uggo is in a comma then she isn't in a place to take half his shit if he divorces her.

If they are still married he has the right to yank the plug on her like Terry Schiavo's husband did and end it by death of the spouse.

(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 45
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 6:47:44 AM   
mnottertail


Posts: 60698
Joined: 11/3/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: BentUnit
What do a Scorned Wife and a Hurricane have in common?


Disasterous blowjobs?

Ron 

_____________________________

Have they not divided the prey; to every man a damsel or two? Judges 5:30


(in reply to BentUnit)
Profile   Post #: 46
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 6:51:07 AM   
Jasmineinbloom


Posts: 59
Joined: 4/24/2010
Status: offline 		I'm not advocating prostitution, because I feel it exploits already exploited people, but...why don't you fellows who feel compelled to cheat on your spouses go out on a local street corner and purchase your infidelities? Why also destroy some other woman's life by taking a chance that she'll
1.Fall in love with you.
2. Want to actually have her needs met also.
3.Become pregnant.
4.If she's married, destroy her family as well as yours.
I just don't get self destructive people.

(in reply to BDSMPleasures)
Profile   Post #: 47
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 6:52:31 AM   
BentUnit


Posts: 897
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

quote:

ORIGINAL: BentUnit
What do a Scorned Wife and a Hurricane have in common?


Disasterous blowjobs?

Ron 


True that, Ron.

True that.

Perhaps a little Lorena Bobbit action just to let him know she's upset with him...just in case he missed the fact.

(in reply to mnottertail)
Profile   Post #: 48
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 6:54:46 AM   
BentUnit


Posts: 897
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Jasmineinbloom

I'm not advocating prostitution, because I feel it exploits already exploited people, but...why don't you fellows who feel compelled to cheat on your spouses go out on a local street corner and purchase your infidelities? Why also destroy some other woman's life by taking a chance that she'll
1.Fall in love with you.
2. Want to actually have her needs met also.
3.Become pregnant.
4.If she's married, destroy her family as well as yours.
I just don't get self destructive people.


Because it's still fucking cheating and regardless if the need is met once it will still be there to be met again.

(in reply to Jasmineinbloom)
Profile   Post #: 49
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 6:55:01 AM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

Lose half your shit now or later, what's the diff?

Integrity.



I agree. But there are a shit load of people that cheat that do not seem to care.

What are the statistics on cheating? If this was some sort of an isolated incident I would be more opinionated. This is not pedophilia or some other wacked out practice. this is something regularly undertaken by millions of people.

All I'm saying is at least the guy makes his case in his profile. He makes it is easy for people who are not searching for a "cheater" to avoid him. For that he deserves some props.


I use the word "props" only because I am trying to bang MissAssylum.....I am so dope!

_____________________________



(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 50
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 6:57:26 AM   
BDSMPleasures


Posts: 26
Joined: 4/12/2010
Status: offline 		some say 28% of population... someone you know and trust has done it...

(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 51
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 7:01:13 AM   
BentUnit


Posts: 897
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

Lose half your shit now or later, what's the diff?

Integrity.



I agree. But there are a shit load of people that cheat that do not seem to care.

What are the statistics on cheating? If this was some sort of an isolated incident I would be more opinionated. This is not pedophilia or some other wacked out practice. this is something regularly undertaken by millions of people.

All I'm saying is at least the guy makes his case in his profile. He makes it is easy for people who are not searching for a "cheater" to avoid him. For that he deserves some props.


I use the word "props" only because I am trying to bang MissAssylum.....I am so dope!


Forget your advocation of cheating, Dude!
If you are willing to sink to those sort of depths to get laid you are DEAD to me.

<insert all sorts of vomiting, yacking and puking noises here>

(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 52
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 7:01:14 AM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Jasmineinbloom

I'm not advocating prostitution, because I feel it exploits already exploited people, but...why don't you fellows who feel compelled to cheat on your spouses go out on a local street corner and purchase your infidelities? Why also destroy some other woman's life by taking a chance that she'll
1.Fall in love with you.
2. Want to actually have her needs met also.
3.Become pregnant.
4.If she's married, destroy her family as well as yours.
I just don't get self destructive people.


Follow along people....The fuckstick makes it clear in his profile that he is married. It's there in black and white for all to see!!!

SURGEON GENERAL'S WARNING: Dating BDSMPleasures Causes Lung Cancer, Heart Disease, Emphysema, And May Complicate Pregnancy as well as a long term relationship. Beware!!!


Bentunit...Nice tits!

_____________________________



(in reply to Jasmineinbloom)
Profile   Post #: 53
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 7:01:48 AM   
Jeffff


Posts: 12600
Joined: 7/7/2007
Status: offline 		Every one draws their own lines. I am inclined to go with DG on this one. It can be kinda weird what is and is not acceptable. As long as it is out in the open, it's ok with me.
It's also ok with me if he gets slapped around for it.

It is not ok if DG gets to bang MissA and I do not.


Word!

_____________________________

"If you don't live it, it won't come out your horn." Charlie Parker

(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 54
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 7:05:07 AM   
DarkSteven


Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: BDSMPleasures

some say 28% of population... someone you know and trust has done it...


Look, fella... I've been polite to you before.  But you need to know what a Dom truly is.

A Dom has integrity.  They stand by their word.

I admit that I reneged on my marriage vows by getting a divorce.  I had tried to work it out and finally left.  Then I felt free to chase other women.

You on the other hand come here to cheat.  I'm not sure if you have a need for kink or a need for other pussy.  That's neither here nor there.

But it really chapped my ass for you to say that 28% of people cheat.  Hell, a Dom is supposed to be a leader, not check the latest poll to see if a behavior is okay or not. And a Dom should be an example of integrity, and not worry about statistics.

Just be a fucking man and either divorce her or work things out.




_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

(in reply to BDSMPleasures)
Profile   Post #: 55
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 7:06:05 AM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: BDSMPleasures

some say 28% of population... someone you know and trust has done it...


Exactly my brotah! (I use the word "brothah" only because I am trying to bone MissAssylum)

At least you are forthcoming in that which you seek.

Can it be damaging? Of course it can.

I am so sorry to hear about the fire and your wife's coma.

< Message edited by domiguy -- 7/14/2010 7:24:32 AM >

_____________________________



(in reply to BDSMPleasures)
Profile   Post #: 56
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 7:08:46 AM   
BentUnit


Posts: 897
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Every one draws their own lines. I am inclined to go with DG on this one. It can be kinda weird what is and is not acceptable. As long as it is out in the open, it's ok with me.
It's also ok with me if he gets slapped around for it.

It is not ok if DG gets to bang MissA and I do not.


Word!


You are one sick MF!

Yes Domi I have wonderous tits.....a beautiful face and a body that makes grown men cry......but first you have to get past the utterly caustic humor, the biting wit and a BS detector that will take no prisoners.
There's not many men who fit the bill.

(in reply to Jeffff)
Profile   Post #: 57
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 7:13:45 AM   
sexyred1


Posts: 8998
Joined: 8/9/2007
Status: offline 		Sadly, I agree with Domiguy here. Who gives a damn if this guy wants to cheat? I mean really.

Tons of people come here asking how to meet someone and they get good advice with no judgement.

Now this married guy comes along, states he is married on his profile for all to see and he gets crap.

I have no feelings whatsoever about this guy cheating and my only interest when someone writes me is that they are upfront about what they want.

That is IT. If another married woman wants to cheat with the OP, god bless both of them.

Even if this was a vanilla site, and he was upfront about being married and cheating, it is his right.

Just as it is someone's right to say no. I actually respect a guy when he tells me he is married or involved, then I have full information to make a decision and not deal with them. One can always tell anyway if a guy is married and trying to hide it.

This guy does not need your moral proclamations. He is old enough to make his own moral decisions.

P.S. I am not personally advocating cheating as a way of dealing with things, but I advocate people being able to do what they want if upfront about it.

There are TONS of people here who are in poly relationships, who are married, who have other relationships.

If the point of all the judgement is that his wife does not KNOW he wants to cheat; again, that is his and their business.

As long as I am not involved with them, I could care less.

PPS: DarkSteven just wrote that Doms have integrity. This has nothing to do with being a Dom or not. And it has nothing to do with the guy trying to work things out in his marriage.

Again, all concerned here are ostensibly grown up with grown up issues and grown up choices to make. The OP did not ask how he should fix his marriage, he asked how to meet someone else in his particular situation.

Just playing devil's advocate.

< Message edited by sexyred1 -- 7/14/2010 7:16:53 AM >

(in reply to Jeffff)
Profile   Post #: 58
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 7:14:30 AM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: BDSMPleasures

some say 28% of population... someone you know and trust has done it...


Look, fella... I've been polite to you before.  But you need to know what a Dom truly is.

A Dom has integrity.  They stand by their word.

I admit that I reneged on my marriage vows by getting a divorce.  I had tried to work it out and finally left.  Then I felt free to chase other women.

You on the other hand come here to cheat.  I'm not sure if you have a need for kink or a need for other pussy.  That's neither here nor there.

But it really chapped my ass for you to say that 28% of people cheat.  Hell, a Dom is supposed to be a leader, not check the latest poll to see if a behavior is okay or not. And a Dom should be an example of integrity, and not worry about statistics.

Just be a fucking man and either divorce her or work things out.





Please. There are a zillion pathetic people on this thang.

Are Doms not people too? Do we not gain weight when we over eat? Do we not smoke? If cut do we not immediately heal?

I once had a boil. I felt like such a sub.


MissAssylum the time in my life known as "The Boil Fiasco" was years ago. I have now dommed my body. I can control my heart rate.


And "no" you fuckers, I will not make it permanently stop beating. I must live. Too many are counting on me and waiting for my words of wisdom. I hate all of you.

_____________________________



(in reply to DarkSteven)
Profile   Post #: 59
RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female - 7/14/2010 7:20:43 AM   
Jasmineinbloom


Posts: 59
Joined: 4/24/2010
Status: offline 		Yeah I know it 's still cheating. My hope is that his wife get's into his computer and finds out what he's doing.

(in reply to BentUnit)
Profile   Post #: 60
Page:   <<   < prev  1 2 [3] 4 5   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> RE: Challenges in Finding a Submissive Female Page: <<   < prev  1 2 [3] 4 5   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.096