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RE: Who punishes the dominant? - 7/16/2010 8:16:23 AM

SouthernSpankin

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I've been involved with various groups for several years, and one of the negative things I've noticed is the arrogance of dominants then they 'punish' submissive or slaves, while turning around and making mistakes themselves.

Do you have an example of what is upsetting you so much?

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RE: Who punishes the dominant? - 7/16/2010 8:35:34 AM

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I've been involved with various groups for several years, and one of the negative things I've noticed is the arrogance of dominants then they 'punish' submissive or slaves, while turning around and making mistakes themselves.

Do you have an example of what is upsetting you so much?

5 pages now and the OP has yet to respond with anything.

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RE: Who punishes the dominant? - 7/16/2010 10:30:56 AM

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I'm a little shell shocked by what you just said... unless I misunderstand what you're implying by "close to catatonic at the end of each treatment".

I believe you did.

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When he screws up, I freeze up. He doesn't get what he wants that way and so the reward system works all by itself.

I believe Caring was referring to the attitude that "might" have been read in this statement and how it would be dealt with by her friends.

Clarify: Ya know..As if she was doing the freezing on purpose to control the situation.

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RE: Who punishes the dominant? - 7/16/2010 1:09:42 PM

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Marc, I like the question and I believe it to both most valid and timely for I do believe some at the very least of the newer folk may believe that Dominants of any form, are untouchable and above punishment.

I agree that dispelling the idea Masters or Mistresses aren't human and capable of making mistakes is a good thing, and in that, you've taken a lemon post and made lemonade with it, and I applaud the optimism.

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