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RE: Nobody really lives the Bdsm lifestyle 24/7 do they?? - 4/7/2005 9:04:42 AM

ruffnecksbabygir

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ok, i'm late posting on this thread but just tossing in my own thoughts...

In our relationship we live bdsm, M/s 24/7 365 days a year...it's who we both are not a role we are playing. Not putting down those who do the lifestyle as a part time activity, we all have our own personal needs and desires to fulfill and some are content with a "bedroom" type kink and others need and want it in every aspect of their lives not just int he sexual aspect.

Master makes all decisions for me, if He is not around i am to make the best decision i possibly can that will be more or less what Master would want...i am productive outside the home, i work, have a child, i do function but Master controls everything, finances, food, clothes, even my likes and dislikes are many times controlled by Him, when and if i go to the bathroom, bed time, wake up time, when we are alone in His home and there are no children (of course) present, i am naked with my collar on 24/7, while cleaning, or whatever i am doing... i am His slave from the moment i wake up til i close my eyes at night, even in my dreams i am His : ) ....and yes, we do live this way all the time, it's not a role we play it's simply who we are and i we have never been happier or more fulfilled than we are now, i can't speak for Master but i know He feels the same.

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RE: Nobody really lives the Bdsm lifestyle 24/7 do they?? - 4/7/2005 7:37:52 PM

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Greetings everyone,

Actually, yes, some people do. It is to me and those who are with me much like a parental responsibility. No matter how loose or how strict the particular rules and tenets of the relationship are, the relationship is 24/7. Responsibility to a submissive that has completely submitted to me does not turn off when the lights turn off at night, or when I even go to work. It does not diminish even if there are hundreds of miles between me and a submissive. The challenges become harder, the communication and trust we share more important, but the relationship does not change. Everything I do in life -- I keep my responsibilities in the forefront at all times, as to me anyone who submits to me is giving me the greatest gift there is -- their trust and devotion.

I am still new to this (less than 2 months as a Dominant), I am still learning, but I take that what is entrusted to me seriously enough to probably be considered 24/7 by many. Yes, I do work outside the home, but even there I see how to increase my resources, knowledge and connections for the growth and wellbeing of both myself and my submissives. We do have distance issues to contend with, and we're still settling ourselves in nicely. While I do remain busy with life and living, I do wish to become involved with these forums as I am able to do so :).

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RE: Nobody really lives the Bdsm lifestyle 24/7 do they?? - 4/7/2005 10:21:18 PM

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Welcome to the boards HayaSierra

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RE: Nobody really lives the Bdsm lifestyle 24/7 do they?? - 4/7/2005 10:35:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
Like you, we also enjoy, lifestyle and non-lifestyle conversation, TV and other distractions. But I don't see this as "realistic 24/7". We identify ourselves as 24/7 because we maintain the TPE relationship 24/7. Whether I'm with beth or not, she exists and behaves under the rules I set for her.

We are the same way - even though our boy is on the road most of the week (his boss changed who they haul for, so yay! he's home every weekend now). He calls us before buying anything other than food that costs more than a few dollars (even though he knows that we aren't likely to object), he tells us where he's at, he calls us every night (or gets online, but that's more difficult), etc. He knows, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, that we are in charge of him, that we own him. It's not what most people think of though - we have "vanilla" activities that we enjoy, like walking the dog, hiking in the park, going to movies, etc - and we have jobs (well, 2 of us do *grumbles about stupid assholes who fire people without knowing the whole story*) and we have friends who don't know that we are into the lifestyle ... but we think about it, it influences every decision we make (i.e. so and so doesn't know/doesn't like that we are in the lifestyle, and we are feeling particularly 'lifestylish' so we won't hang out with them that day, something looks like it would make a great toy with very little alteration, so we put it in our cart with the groceries, etc. - little things - every day). We have lives to live, bills to pay, animals to take care of, a house to upkeep, etc ... but we always have the D/s dynamics in the back of our minds.

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RE: Nobody really lives the Bdsm lifestyle 24/7 do they?? - 4/8/2005 2:40:22 PM

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Yes, of course; 24/7 exists in a myriad of way. My Master and I don't live together but I am His property, full stop. I have a number of rituals He has required of me which re-inforces his physical ownership but the acceptance of His mental domination is far more important. I belong to him until or unless he releases me. Easy.

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