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RE: Do you expect subs to act submissive 24/7? - 8/12/2010 8:23:57 PM

Adanu

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Anyone who thinks a person needs to act a certain way *all* the time is an idiot who does not take into account emotions and simple time wear and tear.

Probably just a wannabe looking to get off on the perceived control.

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RE: Do you expect subs to act submissive 24/7? - 8/12/2010 10:29:31 PM

MistressLavinia

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Not only is being submissive a duty, but it is a mindset. However, if you live in the real world, no matter how much you say 24/7, it is impossible, this is my opinion and of all the dominants I know, relationships that have lasted longest are those that have compromise. I know without a doubt I am a strong dominant. I have a very special d/s relationship with my submissive, for over 2 years. He is an officer and because of his position, at times he cannot behave how I would want him too, but tries his best. Do I accept this, of course, it's life, and as in any relationship, you have to accept the good with the bad. Just as he must accept how I want him to behave in certain situations I am in because of business. Sometime along the way you will have to make a decision that might not be the decision your dominant would make, and as long as it is with thought of your dominant partner and you are not disrespecting your partner, I see nothing wrong with the 21/7 rule. That is why we are all bred differently and our thought processes are different. You can live your life according to the rules and regulations of someone else, but in time, through time, and because of time, things change. With consideration and effort, the d/s relationship will always work, one way streets are made for one vehicle to go down.

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RE: Do you expect subs to act submissive 24/7? - 8/13/2010 12:45:24 AM

macs

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The answer has to be no I would not expect her to be submissive untill we started a relationship of somekind.

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RE: Do you expect subs to act submissive 24/7? - 8/13/2010 8:19:03 PM

nephandi

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Greetings

I once had an email from a Dom who said I was not submissive enough because my email sounded to dominant. At the time the mail address was [email protected] (no this account no longer works it is years since I abandoned it.) apparently he expected a sub to have something more cute and feminine as a mail address. :P

To answer your question there are some Doms who will expect the craziest things, if you do not agree with them, ignore them.

I wish you well.

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