Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money?

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udaboss -> Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:06:00 AM)
I mean really, it drives me crazy. Between the pro dommes, financial dommes, scam dommes, dommes that want you to join some pay web site and dommes that want to sell you their pictures or videos or audio recordings, you've eliminated about 85 percent of the dommes who have profiles here. I don't have a problem with people who want to patronize them. But all of these people are basically in the adult sex industry and I'm looking for something REAL. I wish I could just click some sort of button that allowed me to exclude all the scammers and "dommes" who really are just looking for money.

Aylee -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:09:24 AM)
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Jeffff -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:10:34 AM)
Or, you could take a small amount of your time and determine whether or not the woman is a pro or not. If she is, you could then move on. MistressJeff

AQuietSimpleMan -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:12:48 AM)
But that would be asking someone to take responsibility for themselves and you know how unacceptable that is right? QSM

mnottertail -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:13:54 AM)
Well, Mr. Grumpnose. I cannot in any way fathom your personal issue as being anything of general interest. I will have you know several things however. I am friends with a lot of Dominatrixes (thats the way I call em, its HAWT to me) and I find that there is no fucking way that we are going to get it on, and we both know it right up front. I find that on a sliding scale the less you deal with the kinks up front, and become human, the less you are going to run across money issues. Perhaps you are looking and acting in the wrong way and places. Just a thought. Get to know people out here, concentrate on connections, and don't worry about the skin, that will connect in time.

udaboss -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:14:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff Or, you could take a small amount of your time and determine whether or not the woman is a pro or not. If she is, you could then move on. MistressJeff No, it takes a LARGE amount of time, sifting through profile after profile. And many are not up front about the money thing. You take time to read their whole profile, take the time to write a write a nice letter of introduction that clearly shows you've read their profile, and THEN they respond that it's going to cost you money.

Jeffff -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:14:12 AM)
Yeah, what was I thinking? Someone should be able to come her and meet the mate of their dreams in less than two days. I am going to write my congressman about this!

Elisabella -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:15:06 AM)
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juliaoceania -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:15:55 AM)
I am not very popular in my belief that pros and non-pros should be separate for the mutual benefit of all involved.... But you would still have to wade through scammers, pic sellers, etc etc etc... I am a submissive hetro female and I get scammers, so they do not go away just because you created a new category

LadyPact -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:17:02 AM)
Same advice rehashed. The imbalance in the number of pros/fin female Dominants is no where near the same at munches that it is on the internet. If you want to find the lifestyle folks, go where the lifestyle folks gather. If you want to stick solely to the net, you're going to have to do your own work as far as filtering those who are interested in financial transactions.

udaboss -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:17:18 AM)
Evidently, what I'm asking for is clearly too much and highly unreasonable, given the responses so far. Except the last 2.

AQuietSimpleMan -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:20:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: udaboss Evidently, what I'm asking for is clearly too much and highly unreasonable, given the responses so far. Yes asking the Powers that Be to make everything easier for you.... Yes that is Highly unreasonable. Why segregate something that the only difference is one wants money and the other doesn't? I wonder did you think Black and White Bathrooms were a good idea too? SERIOUSLY Take some PERSONAL responsibility and be a big boy, pull up them big boy panties, take yourself off the cross, use the wood and the nails to build a bridge and get over yourself man. Good God. QSM

Jeffff -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:20:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: udaboss quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff Or, you could take a small amount of your time and determine whether or not the woman is a pro or not. If she is, you could then move on. MistressJeff No, it takes a LARGE amount of time, sifting through profile after profile. And many are not up front about the money thing. You take time to read their whole profile, take the time to write a write a nice letter of introduction that clearly shows you've read their profile, and THEN they respond that it's going to cost you money. If you can't tell by the pictures and how their profile is worded no one can help you. The words, " generous" or "tribute" are a good clue. How long does it take you to read a profile? How long does it take you to type, " Hello I saw your profile and I find you interesting" " If you would like, please email me back when you get the chance" Of course any woman on any website probably gets 30-40 emails a day. Something short expressing interest and saying you actually read the profile might be appreciated. Whining will not.

slavekal -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:21:11 AM)
The OP has a valid point, but it would be difficult to regulate that. There are so many semi pros out there that it would be difficult to ferret them all out. It can be frustrating to be looking for a Mistress, and three out of four ladies you contact ask for money.

EbonyWood -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:21:33 AM)
Become a Dom. Instead of pulling your wallet out your pants, you pull out your dick and slap bitches with it. They love it. And they call you Sir. Even if you're just an anteater. My advice - turn off the computer, there are no women for you here. Go to a bar and talk nicely to women until one of them offers to take you home and boss your ass until your eyes water. For free.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:22:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff Yeah, what was I thinking? Someone should be able to come her and meet the mate of their dreams in less than two days. I am going to write my congressman about this! Oh he only wants a live in situation where he can play housewife... But since his profile says he doesn't contact women because they should have enough interest in him to contact him, I don't know why he is bothered if some people want to charge...

Jeffff -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:24:15 AM)
I am not really a fem dom. Your profile seems ok to me. You say you don't contact women? Once again, these women are highly sought after, do you expect someone to hit on you? Also, you might want to take the first paragraph out. It is rather negative. MistressJeff

Elisabella -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:26:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EbonyWood Become a Dom. Instead of pulling your wallet out your pants, you pull out your dick and slap bitches with it. They love it. And they call you Sir. Even if you're just an anteater. My advice - turn off the computer, there are no women for you here. Go to a bar and talk nicely to women until one of them offers to take you home and boss your ass until your eyes water. For free. Reading his profile, it seems he already is a Dom. He's pretty clear in telling his sub how he plans on running the household. quote: The man is to keep the house clean, cook, and do whatever errands or other duties he is directed to do by the female. The man is not even permitted to leave the house without the female's permission. That's just the way things are going to be.

Jeffff -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:28:38 AM)
Ok, I just search fem dom's in Mo. 37-57. The first 3 seemed genuine to me. Why do people think this is going to be easy?

LadyPact -> RE: Couldn't CM Have a Category for Dommes Who Aren't After Money? (8/3/2010 8:29:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze Oh he only wants a live in situation where he can play housewife... But since his profile says he doesn't contact women because they should have enough interest in him to contact him, I don't know why he is bothered if some people want to charge... If that's the case, there's no surprise as to why the lifestyle Dommes aren't knocking down his door. Most of the folks I know expect their male submissives to have a (get ready for it) J. O. B.

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