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RE: Broken Toys and aster's who can't cope... - 8/7/2010 7:46:03 AM

texangael

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Guess what, some people's opinions ARE more important and better than others. This is how the either very young or very ultraliberal tend to thinkl

Non sequitur. Offerings of help--suggestions--are the topic at hand, not opinions.

The fact of naturopathy is there is substance to support it. You will not know this because you will not allow that to penetrate your perception.

Such is your choice.

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RE: Broken Toys and aster's who can't cope... - 8/7/2010 8:14:44 AM

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I hope He stands by you and finds the patience to do so if, in fact, this is not something you knew about prior to becoming His. If it IS something you knew about but didnt tell Him.. then its a breach of trust and grounds to be released.

Good luck.

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RE: Broken Toys and aster's who can't cope... - 8/17/2010 10:41:24 AM

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OK folks, here goes something that will get me yelled at. I'd say the slave should call off the d/s relationship. At least for the time being. I've seen a few relationships where the slave was either bi-polar or depressed and there's just no way to make it work out. I'm reading all the reponses of "if he dumps you, he's a jerk" and all I can think is, is he supposed to be a master or a boyfriend? From my experience, the relationships I've seen where he winds up caring too much, she'll wind up leaving him because he's no longer a master.

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RE: Broken Toys and aster's who can't cope... - 8/22/2010 7:31:37 AM

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it's one of those, it depends, question...

if you were his blood daughter, would he kick you to the curb? in other words, it depends on how much, as a person, you mean to him.

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RE: Broken Toys and aster's who can't cope... - 8/22/2010 5:28:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: loyalonlychild
Greetings. my Master has been told that His slavegirl has Bi-Polar affective disorder. Sadly He is unable to cope with the depressive side where this girl does not have much, if anything pleasant to say. When girl is manic, most is in harmony, apart from trying to get girl to sleep....her mind is racing. my Master is at his wits end, and this girl sinks lower into depression knowing her illness has caused all this headache for my Master.
This slavegirl would be gratefull for practical help, yes we have professionals ( vanillas ). What would You do,?. Would You release her only on the basis of her illness, ?. Would You stand by her side and support Your slavegirl through therapy for 6 months,?.
Very interested to know Your feedback. Thank You. slavegirl kyun.

I have read the first page of this thread.

You are not a broken toy. You are a submissive with a bipolar condition. (I will not call it a disorder and neither should anybody else.)

The first thing to do, in my lay opinion, is for you to accept who you are.
The second is to find ways to cope. (I am sure that you have some.)

You know that your depressions do not last. So you can at least endure them, wait them out.
Do not be negative during a depression, but be positive. (That might even end the depression sooner.)

Is your master able to empower you when you are depressed? Can he supply you with the energy that you lack? Are you able to obey him when he commands? (Like to study or to perform a task?) (I know that performing a task in a severely depressed condition is hard. I very well recall how tying my shoelaces felt like having to climb Mount Everest - but I managed it. Studying and reading on the other hand was not hard at all - but that may be different for you.)

Does your master have the necessary patience? Can he be the rock or mountain that you require to support you during your depressed time?

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RE: Broken Toys and aster's who can't cope... - 8/22/2010 5:47:45 PM

Rule

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Your posts make sense to me.

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