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RE: Do we have vanilla sex? - 4/22/2006 10:56:32 AM

MadameButterfly

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Sex is Sex... it makes no difference if it is someone that is not involved in any sort of Kink or not... I dislike the term Vanilla because it has been used in a dergoatry manner for quite sometime. Roles during sex are irrelevant if both parties are getting what they need from the interaction.

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RE: Do we have vanilla sex? - 4/22/2006 11:48:58 AM

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I'm not sure what I'd do without vanilla sex.. then again I still have a tendency to bite/scratch/hair pull whatever, but I've always been like that whether I was "vanilla" or "lifestyler".. vanilla's what you make of it, I just like rough vanilla.. more like a chocolate chip ice cream, still vanilla but with a twist

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RE: Do we have vanilla sex? - 4/22/2006 1:33:46 PM

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What an interesting thread, i think. Master is always Master. i am always slave. He is always in charge, and he fucks me whichever way he prefers, with toys or without toys, in whichever position he prefers. If "vanilla sex" means no domination whatsoever, then no, we don't have vanilla sex. If it means sex without toys, but with him still the authoritarian, then yes we have vanilla sex.

But damn, no one told me i could have ice cream during it!!

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RE: Do we have vanilla sex? - 4/22/2006 1:40:05 PM

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Of course, but depends how you define vanilla. I have never not been submissive ever from as long ago as I can remember so every act of what people might call vanilla sex has been a submissive act for me whoever I've been with because of what is in my head at the time.

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RE: Do we have vanilla sex? - 4/22/2006 1:44:05 PM

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But damn, no one told me i could have ice cream during it!!

In fact if you delete your profile and start a new one, you can have an ice cream cone during it...

C

(only if you gripe about being given an ice cream cone though...)

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RE: Do we have vanilla sex? - 4/22/2006 2:02:57 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CERCKL

(only if you gripe about being given an ice cream cone though...)

LOL trust me...I will NEVER gripe about ice cream!!!

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RE: Do we have vanilla sex? - 4/22/2006 5:01:26 PM

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First Id have to discribe My intimate relationship that involved sex. I come from a Poly Gorean BDSM Home and Family. I was married to Two Dominant Gorean Masters that made up Our Triad. We All Owned slaves. The Primarys were all Three involved with One another sexually. The Dominant Masters are Fathers to My Children. Our sex at times would of been defined as missionary/vanilla and normal. at times kinkie. at times perverse. We all Owned slaves who We have/had intimate relations with and many We have no relationship sexually with. I do not beleive in having sex outside of My Family or with any Man who I am not married to nor as a Free Dominant Woman was expected to by My Husbands. However We have loaned out Our sex slaves to Dominants visiting. Ill let you define what kind of sex you would concider this. It was all normal to Me. LOL

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