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Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:14:25 PM   
femasoslave


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Status: offline 		Please, everyone, it seems as though there has been quite a few threads about when we started fantasizing etc and it is as children, The problem I have is that this is a public forum and any sicko (namely paedophiles) can read these threads.
I'm a Mum, whether or not my child shows any tendancies towards being subby, Dominant, straight, I want to keep to myself, I dont think that we should be bringing up discussions about underage here....even if it is about our own past.
If some of you disagree, so be it
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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:17:01 PM   
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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:17:59 PM   
servantforuse


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Status: offline 		I see nothing wrong with talking about this subject. I'm sure that the pedofiles out there have bigger fish to fry than hanging around collarme.

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:19:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm not, I'm afraid-my childhood is still a pretty large percentage of my life so far, and that development is part of who I am.

I'm not going to live my life in fear of some theoretical paedophile looking over my shoulder.

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:19:31 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		Um, if you are referring to the threads about son/daughter exhibiting traits of submissive or dominants... these threads are not about "children", they are about legal adults...

If that is not what you are talking about, I am mystified as to what you are referring to

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:19:52 PM   
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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:20:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I am mystified as to what you are referring to
I'm guessing it's the 'how do fetishes start?' thread.

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:22:06 PM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious


quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I am mystified as to what you are referring to
I'm guessing it's the 'how do fetishes start?' thread.


Oh, I never hit that one, because I am of the opinion no one knows where they come from

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:22:27 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Please. I don't think that anything was said violates any rules here. I think it is a real stretch to assume pedophiles would be interested in discussions on when fetishes started in adults.

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:26:18 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		I've seen the subject of children come up a few times recently, femasoslave, but never without a thought of how best to protect their interests.  A paedo looking at these boards is likely to come away with the impression that the overwhelming majority of us are quite strict about guarding them against any malign influence from the world of BDSM.  Our collective sense of responsibility would be a buzz-killer for them - they're much more likely to search for their kicks elsewhere. 

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:30:37 PM   
nephandi


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If you are referring to the thread in the submissive forum about if you would introduce your daughter to BDSM, that thread specify adult daughter 18+.

As for discussing how fetishes start that is actually an important part of who we are today. As far as I know, and I can be wrong in which case I am sure the mods will inform me, there is nothing in the TOS against mentioning how ones own interest for BDSM started, though I do not think it is allowed to speak about others . So I can say that for me I have always had an submissive streak and that I used to play at being the servant or slave for my dolls, nothing sexual off course, just the fetching tea and the sort. But I do not think I can speak of anyone else that is underage.

I wish you well


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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:33:52 PM   
VaguelyCurious


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Status: offline 		My understanding of the TOS was that we are not allowed to talk about sexual activity involving minors, but anything else is ok.

Mods? Any clarifications?

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:33:57 PM   
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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:35:42 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		What mob?  There are a whole twelve replies at this point.

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:39:38 PM   
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Invariably, whenever someone finds that others disagree with them, instead of being mature, they pull out that old mob/clique mentality thing.

Sad.

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:40:54 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1



Invariably, whenever someone finds that others disagree with them, instead of being mature, they pull out that old mob/clique mentality thing.

Sad.

I think I've said something very similar on five or six threads lately.


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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:41:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

What mob?  There are a whole twelve replies at this point.


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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:41:22 PM   
VaguelyCurious


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Invariably, whenever someone finds that others disagree with them, instead of being mature, they pull out that old mob/clique mentality thing.
What's weirder is that other than the OP I think only one person so far has actively disagreed with him...

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:43:12 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		I know, but there is that group that rushes to the defensive of the underdog; the OP who is being disagreed with. Sort of like that dude on the gender thread, no one was attacking anyone and he rushed in with verbal swords drawn.....

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/16/2010 6:45:56 PM   
whitedragonX


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

What mob?  There are a whole twelve replies at this point.


lol yes you guys are right theres only 12 posters not a big thread.
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