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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/18/2010 2:43:28 PM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		Have fun, there's no discussion of sex and children, so the pedophiles probably are not getting off on collarme. Now, do I know this for sure, no I don't, but it's probably a good likely hood, since we're not allowed to mention children in juicey sexually appealing to perps ways. With out what would make them all hot and bothered, why would they hang out  looking for hot an bothered about children type topics?

And, we can't live our lives in fear of what some sicko might be reading, and as someone else said kids are a huge part of people's lives if they have kids, so like other people said I am in favor of just talking naturally, and children happen to be mentioned in a way that's not TOS violations, don't worry a bout it.

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femoslave has valid concerns, how do any of you know where paedophiles lurk. They are the worst of the worst and any encouragement they get whether on collarme or elsewhere be it known or unknown, if we can we should try to stop it.

It also should not be trivilised, it is a serious problem that we all should be wary of.


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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/18/2010 2:48:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		Interesting how some people seem to know so much of what the MO of a peadophile is...
Anyway bdsm is all about manipulation right?
So 1 + 1 = 2
Off course bdsm forums are closely followed by sex offenders to learn to manipulate.
If you think not you are blind def and certainly dumb.

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/18/2010 2:59:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		MrBuka, manipulation how?

And there's no one thing "bdsm is all about" it's different for every one involved.

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Interesting how some people seem to know so much of what the MO of a peadophile is...
Anyway bdsm is all about manipulation right?
So 1 + 1 = 2
Off course bdsm forums are closely followed by sex offenders to learn to manipulate.
If you think not you are blind def and certainly dumb.


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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/18/2010 3:03:03 PM   
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In every aspect of bdsm I can locate manipulation. Maybe you can not.

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/18/2010 3:13:45 PM   
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mmm fantasies about rapeplay, bondage, mental bondage, hypnosis, ultimate surrender just finish the list yourself.
In every aspect of bdsm I can locate manipulation. Maybe you can not.


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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/18/2010 3:25:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MrBukani

Interesting how some people seem to know so much of what the MO of a peadophile is...
Anyway bdsm is all about manipulation right?
So 1 + 1 = 2
Off course bdsm forums are closely followed by sex offenders to learn to manipulate.
If you think not you are blind def and certainly dumb.



I know I am not dumb, but I have no idea what you are talking about.

BDSM forums are followed by sex offenders? Uh...ok

BDSM is all about manipulation? Of what and whom? In my world, it is all consensual; your world, I have no clue.

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/18/2010 3:43:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Manipulation isn't necessarily negative. In the BDSM sense, a skilled top will manipulate the situation to achieve a desired result from the bottom and yes, I do think much of it is about manipulation, but not the negative type. Something as simple as combining painful or unpleasant sensations with pleasurable or positive ones and increasing the stimuli is manipulation of your body and mind's responses and very common. I think the reaction is that the term manipulation implies some lack of consent and knowlege, but I'm not sure that's necessarily true.

With regard to the topic. I don't think anyone here is talking about children and bdsm. The assumption that a theoretical topic about educating young adults about bdsm is going to give pedophiles fodder is just a bit silly to me. There's very little on cm that would give ANYONE much sexual fodder imo and all this hypothesis about what is and isn't fodder for pedophiles is just meaningless, self-important rheteroic imo.

Now, if peon and LP would finish the thread about boy on boy....THAT would be fodder (for me)... do it!

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/18/2010 4:45:19 PM   
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There's very little on cm that would give ANYONE much sexual fodder imo and all this hypothesis about what is and isn't fodder for pedophiles is just meaningless, self-important rheteroic imo.


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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/18/2010 7:40:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yeah its like saying that bdsm has little to do with sex. That one really makes me laugh so hard my belly aches.
Maybe in a couple of years it will be an olympic sport.

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/18/2010 7:52:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think the only reason people are posting is because the topic goes "Please, stop..."

Talk about manipulation.

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/18/2010 7:56:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Focus50


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ORIGINAL: whitedragonX

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What mob?  There are a whole twelve replies at this point.


lol yes you guys are right theres only 12 posters not a big thread.
:)


Pardon the hijack but enquiring minds have become interested.....

Sooooo, exactly how many or what minimum constitutes a mob?

Yep, slow night here - hell, I even posted is 'Ask a Mistress'....

Focus.


I would think that would be dependent on how many were carrying torches and/or pitchforks.   The implements would make a small group project as a mob.

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/18/2010 8:04:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh one more funny thing, topping from the bottom is manipulation. Just thought I would finish the list.
And yes I thought please stop means go on in this darkydarkworld

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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/18/2010 8:12:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: laurell3
Now, if peon and LP would finish the thread about boy on boy....THAT would be fodder (for me)... do it!

It's definitely on My to do list.  I was completely surprised at what a positive reaction that thread got.


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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/19/2010 8:07:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		MrBukani, again just because it possibly  has to do with sex for you and many others, it doesn't always have to do w/ith sex for others. You may want to be open to others having ways of doing bdsm differently t han you.

I can be spanked and flogged and do bdsm activities and not have it be anything to do with sex, I just enjoy the endorphine high i get and the sensations, It's very relaxing, in fact I can almost go to sleep during a good butt whooping where I've reached the point it's not registering as sharp pains.


Now I won't lie, sometimes it's for sexual gratification, but most times not.
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ORIGINAL: MrBukani

Yeah its like saying that bdsm has little to do with sex. That one really makes me laugh so hard my belly aches.
Maybe in a couple of years it will be an olympic sport.


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RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm - 8/19/2010 8:12:22 AM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		Hehehe, yes topping from the bottom in the negative form that is commonly most used, is manipulation, it's a tactic to get the dom to do what you want him to do.

I use it as a spoof though, since some doms an even other subs on here act like having needs is topping from the bottom and will tell others this, so I am spoofing the concept.

That and I don't believe if a Dom really is in control like he thinks he is that TFTB would be a problem in the relationship, because he'd nip it in the bud.


Originally though I think it started out as the dom telling the sub what to do to him if you had a dom that liked sensations and wanted it done a very specific way, at least that's a widely passed around notion.

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ORIGINAL: MrBukani

Oh one more funny thing, topping from the bottom is manipulation. Just thought I would finish the list.
And yes I thought please stop means go on in this darkydarkworld


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