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SorceressJ -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (8/31/2010 4:10:12 PM)

..since when was it NOT? [:D]




BBBTBW -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (8/31/2010 4:14:31 PM)

YEA for tall women




kiwisub12 -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (8/31/2010 4:42:03 PM)

I had such a crush on a doctor - beard and rounded tummy.Then he went away and when he came back the beard and tummy were gone and he had taken up running. Completely ruined it for me.  

*grins* there is just something comforting about laying a head on a rounded tummy. I do like my men a little "rounded".  Healthy but rounded. [:D]




Icarys -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (8/31/2010 4:52:31 PM)

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I am curious, if there are others that actually prefer a fluffy or furry(Or both in my case) man. I'm sure their are, but making assumptions is rarely as fun as asking questions I think.

I did at one time like fat bitches..Not as much anymore.

I'll be building a cabin in Alaska and I really won't have room for an over sized bed. They would be a plus on really cold nights I suppose.


I hope this helped.




VictorCrackus -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (8/31/2010 11:06:00 PM)


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ORIGINAL: BBBTBW

YEA for tall women


I agree. I really don't mind women of my height, or taller.

In fact. I love it.

Something about looking up is very intoxicating.

And sorry about not replying much of the day. Had an issue with my bank account that involved a type. And instead of 12 dollars being taken out.. It was 1065. >.>




MistressTonya2u -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (9/1/2010 12:05:27 AM)

I don't care for body hair, with the exception of arm pits (which is an entirely diffrent thing altogether as I am wild about arm pits) but I do like some fluff.




dovie -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (9/1/2010 4:44:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

quote:

I am curious, if there are others that actually prefer a fluffy or furry(Or both in my case) man. I'm sure their are, but making assumptions is rarely as fun as asking questions I think.

I did at one time like fat bitches..Not as much anymore.

I'll be building a cabin in Alaska and I really won't have room for an over sized bed. They would be a plus on really cold nights I suppose.


I hope this helped.



It's not nice to call flurry men bitches Icarys. As you are already in your bed, I understand why you would avoid the competition.

I hope this helped. [:D]

dovie




Focus50 -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (9/1/2010 3:13:13 PM)

The term "BBW" has pretty much been the success story of marketing social acceptance for those women who feel outcasts because of their inflated size.

And it seems I'm in the minority to say I'm just not attracted to "BBW" at all - and a new age of social outcast is born. With a potential partner, I look at the whole package too - and I want the shape of the normal female package....

Doesn't hafta be skinny or athletic etc and certainly not a stressed and ill-tempered diet-nazi, but I just don't accept an implied message that it's now ok for women to stuff themselves at will because society says that's ok.

Focus.




peacefulplace -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (9/1/2010 3:41:33 PM)

As usual, to each his or her own. I happen to prefer men who are a bit on the heavy side. One man, in particular, was much on the heavy side but sexy as hell. I've met men and women who are everything from thin (not anorexic) to obese who are also sexy. I didn't preclude myself from enjoying such bounty when I was single. [;)]




Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (9/1/2010 4:01:59 PM)

Yes, there are other people out there that like large men, and harry men.

For me it depends on the person and just how large they are, and if I found myself single and in the market for a man again, honestly I'd go for one that was more physically fit, and skinnier, to a point, than not, because  with the support and help of a dominant partner backing me, I want to become fitter, and more active, and I'd love to go back to being a size 16 or 18 if I could. though I admit it's been about 9 years since I was so.

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ORIGINAL: VictorCrackus


Now. BBW are loved. There is no doubt about that, especially now. Though, I find myself worrying if the Big Beautiful men, or as I prefer to be called Large Handsome men, are as loved as the BBW. Note, this isn't a sexist query, it is just a curious one. I have had women comment on me as being a LHM(I know, not quite as catchy),




Kapenakpua -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (9/1/2010 5:15:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Focus50

The term "BBW" has pretty much been the success story of marketing social acceptance for those women who feel outcasts because of their inflated size.

And it seems I'm in the minority to say I'm just not attracted to "BBW" at all - and a new age of social outcast is born. With a potential partner, I look at the whole package too - and I want the shape of the normal female package....

Doesn't hafta be skinny or athletic etc and certainly not a stressed and ill-tempered diet-nazi, but I just don't accept an implied message that it's now ok for women to stuff themselves at will because society says that's ok.

Focus.


@ Focus....you do realise that some people truly can not control what the "ideal" size for their body is? My girl, kapua, is 1/2 Samoan and I dare you to call her or any one from that side of her family "fat"! You are certainly entitled to what you percieve as "normal" but isnt for ALL of us. IF you label yourself as a social outcast because of your view of normal, so be it, but do not include all of us in your normality. And it certainly doesn't hinder things that she has a larger target area for the Flogger, etc. W/we have been together for A LONG time and I would not change that, EVER!!

As for the OP (2nd Gen) yes I love my BBW(politically correct) girl, as the saying goes" Don't knock it 'til you've tried it"




Daddysredhead -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (9/1/2010 5:54:09 PM)

I'm a BBW.  I'm just a touch under 6 feet tall, a size 22 or so, and plush T&A to go with it all.  I'm funny, smart, and cute as hell.  I know this because my Dad, my Sir, and my son say so.  And these three manly types wouldn't lie.  [;)]

Honestly, I adore BHM (big, handsome men).  I like men who are 6'2" and taller, solid, and have some squish to them.  They give me the best hugs.  *swoons*  I like big, strong arms and a nice round tummy to lay my head on.  It's just my preference.  I adore my friends and family who are of any size just because I love them.  But if I'm picking someone who just meets my favorite "eye candy" criteria then I want a nice, solid, big guy.  (I don't like hairy because my tactile preference is "smooove" rather than furry.)

~ PlushyRed ~




subforherMaster -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (9/1/2010 6:50:38 PM)

Everyone has their own tastes but why does it seem that more women are attracted to larger men then men attracted to larger women? Even larger men, from what I have seen are looking for the smaller women.




BBBTBW -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (9/2/2010 2:43:56 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Focus50

The term "BBW" has pretty much been the success story of marketing social acceptance for those women who feel outcasts because of their inflated size..


I don't think large women feel like social outcasts. I think people that have no self esteem feel like social outcasts large or small. As far as "inflated size" My size isn't inflated for me and for many others their size is not inflated for them. However, for a skinny minny out of her element, being larger might very well be an "inflated size"

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And it seems I'm in the minority to say I'm just not attracted to "BBW" at all - and a new age of social outcast is born. With a potential partner, I look at the whole package too - and I want the shape of the normal female package.... .



I have been a minority all my life for MANY MANY different reasons. Being on the edge is what makes life interesting....enjoy it. Confused and Curious about what the shape of a "normal female package" is.

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Doesn't hafta be skinny or athletic etc and certainly not a stressed and ill-tempered diet-nazi, but I just don't accept an implied message that it's now ok for women to stuff themselves at will because society says that's ok. .



I wonder if genetics, the way our food is raised and processed and how our bodies metobalize these foods have anything to do with our respective weights. I am not saying all, but some people are not over-indulgent, we are just above average.





sweetsub1957 -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (9/2/2010 3:26:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: BBBTBW
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Doesn't hafta be skinny or athletic etc and certainly not a stressed and ill-tempered diet-nazi, but I just don't accept an implied message that it's now ok for women to stuff themselves at will because society says that's ok. .



I wonder if genetics, the way our food is raised and processed and how our bodies metobalize these foods have anything to do with our respective weights. I am not saying all, but some people are not over-indulgent, we are just above average.

I'm with BBBTBW on this. I'm neither a diet-nazi nor a self-indulgent stuffer. As a matter of fact, I eat way fewer calories, fats, and carbs than my slimmer friends do AND I'm just as physically active as they are. Not all plus-sized people stuff ourselves at will. There are some that do, BUT....and this is a BIG but....there are just as many others who may have inherited slower metabolisms and/or have medical issues involved. I think it's wrong to paint us all with the same brush and be rude and insulting about it. I don't expect everyone to think my plus-sized self is sexy, but I don't think people need to be rude either.

~sweetsub~




Icarys -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (9/2/2010 3:31:54 PM)

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I hope this helped.

Yes it did. I realize now that your insane. Are you fat though? Insane and fat just won't do.[:D]

The answer is yes..I'm a little of both but I still have my preferences.[8D]




LaTigresse -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (9/2/2010 3:35:00 PM)

The difference is that, for a person to say they do not find a skinny person sexy is seen as not rude.

It is a culturally sensitive issue. I read a study somewhere that conducted a poll. The things a person would sacrifice to be thin, if it were possible, is astounding.

I cannot say I find a nude, fat body, of either gender, sexy. But then again I do not find an overly thin body of either gender, sexy. Unfortunately, there are just more of the first sort.




sexyred1 -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (9/2/2010 3:38:09 PM)

Ladies, I don't believe you need to justify your size to satisfy anyone let alone the snarky comments of some here. Blanket comments about social outcasts, and what is normal is sickening to me.

What so many fail to realize, mystifyingly, is that everyone has a preference and just because they don't care for BBW's (and many men do, I can assure you) being nasty and judgemental is just a total bore at this point. It just reveals bad character to put down a body type you don't like. Fat or thin, hairy or bald, one legged or two legged, whatever.

I always say, if you are confident, whatever your size and think you are the bomb, then you are the bomb.

Believe it and stop with the outcasts of society bullshit. If someone doesn't like your size, fuck them.




WyldHrt -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (9/2/2010 3:40:35 PM)

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If someone doesn't like your size, fuck them.
Actually, that's the last thing that I would do.... [;)]




sexyred1 -> RE: Big Beautiful Women. As well as Large Handsome Men. (9/2/2010 3:42:52 PM)

Yeah, that's what I meant!!




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