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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 9:10:55 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
~bolding mine~

BEING PROACTIVE. If the "submissive" males who have profiles would actually be proactive about wanting to DATE a dominant woman, instead of playing the coy maiden, there might be some progress. So many of these men managed to get married at least once, surely they remember how to offer a greeting, start a conversation, and ask a person to coffee?

I hope this doesn't seem like this is too far off topic.

With the recent changes that CM has made, I honestly believe this is going to get better.  Of course, we (meaning Dominant women) have to do our part to help the system along, but it is already becoming an effective change.  As the 'white noise' becomes less (random messages that just say "hi", form letters, etc) the percentage of good messages through mail actually becomes higher.  I do think that some will have to change their email habits in order to adapt.  In either case, males who do write good introductions are going to benefit as a result.


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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 9:18:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		I totally agree. I really don't think I would be with my partner now if he hadn't made me gasp with such an amazing first introduction email through here. It was the most honest, well thought out, well written one I had ever read. Not that I hadn't received others before, of course. But he had actually taken a lot of time to read through my profile and take note of my likes and dislikes, and he showed he had got a very good idea of the sort of person I was just from that, which was a fantastic start. He showed me he was as serious in his search as I was. 

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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 10:00:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Sex? What is this sex of which you speak? Shoot, I never do THAT~


I never do sex either.  However, happily, I shoot on a regular basis. :-)

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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 10:05:07 AM   
PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
I hope this doesn't seem like this is too far off topic.

With the recent changes that CM has made, I honestly believe this is going to get better.  Of course, we (meaning Dominant women) have to do our part to help the system along, but it is already becoming an effective change.  As the 'white noise' becomes less (random messages that just say "hi", form letters, etc) the percentage of good messages through mail actually becomes higher.  I do think that some will have to change their email habits in order to adapt.  In either case, males who do write good introductions are going to benefit as a result.



I haven't actually initiated contact with a Domme here for many months.   I'll have to check out these changes CM's made . . . .

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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 10:44:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
I hope this doesn't seem like this is too far off topic.

With the recent changes that CM has made, I honestly believe this is going to get better.  Of course, we (meaning Dominant women) have to do our part to help the system along, but it is already becoming an effective change.  As the 'white noise' becomes less (random messages that just say "hi", form letters, etc) the percentage of good messages through mail actually becomes higher.  I do think that some will have to change their email habits in order to adapt.  In either case, males who do write good introductions are going to benefit as a result.



I haven't actually initiated contact with a Domme here for many months.   I'll have to check out these changes CM's made . . . .


First, you put the shock collar around your balls...then you plug it in to your keyboard... 

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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 11:38:51 AM   
PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim
First, you put the shock collar around your balls...then you plug it in to your keyboard... 


Damn.  Guess I'll have to get a bigger shock collar then.  Can you get them for elephants' necks?

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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 11:52:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

ORIGINAL: OttersSwim
First, you put the shock collar around your balls...then you plug it in to your keyboard... 


Damn.  Guess I'll have to get a bigger shock collar then.  Can you get them for elephants' necks?


Oh how kind of you to think of buying one for me! 


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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 12:02:26 PM   
LadyPact


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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 12:04:23 PM   
OttersSwim


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

There's a saline injection/inflation joke in there somewhere.  


Yep...

"P...best buy two while you are out..." he said manfully shifting his 'livestock'


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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 2:43:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

saline injection/inflation


HARD LIMIT!!!!!

Seriously, I can't bear the thought and I don't even have testicles.

<edited cuz of the stupid formatting>

< Message edited by VaguelyCurious -- 9/16/2010 2:49:56 PM >

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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 3:56:49 PM   
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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 4:01:00 PM   
VaguelyCurious


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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 4:17:46 PM   
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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 4:34:12 PM   
PeonForHer


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Yes, I have noticed your recent neglect, Peon!


No . . . as if I'd neglect you, dear Lady Hib!

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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 4:37:52 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 4:56:58 PM   
VaguelyCurious


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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 5:19:00 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 5:26:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		...are we talking about the same kind of walnut whip? 

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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 5:33:13 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes - 9/16/2010 5:35:09 PM   
VaguelyCurious


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Status: offline 		Actually, I seem to remember that most of the gooshy stuff in a walnut whip is white...

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