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LadyPact -> RE: Any survivor want to release anger (9/20/2010 10:14:34 AM)
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ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip
I know several dozen survivors who have tried this. All told me they felt better afterwards, that it was very theraputic for them. None suffered any damage. I have remained in contact with most of them. In every case precautions were taken in case the survivor experienced a flashback. There is a name for this treatment in psychology. It is called psychodrama. It entails cathartic release of toxic emotions. If this is not something that interests you, I respect that. But I would not judge the survivors who found this form of role-play theraputic. or the masochistic bottoms who benefited from it. No submissive bottom was ever injured. No survivor ever expressed any regret. Many Dommes subconsciously use anger from their abuse in their play. Their male masochists subs are happy they are able to help their Dommes in this manner. Many female subs found once in a blue moon, this role-play helps them. I generally get a small fee from both the survivor and the masochist. I provide a female bouncer to ensure things dont get out of hand. She helps the survivor in the event the survivor experiences a flashback. The point of these sessions is cathartic release of bottled-up, repressed emotions. Judging by the responses Ive read here, most of you seem to have a great deal of bottled-up hostility, and repressed emotions. You seem to get-off on emotional abuse and putting others down. I am sorry if I responded in kind. Forgive me. I am sensitive to the people I interact with. Nasty, negative, hostile people bring out a side of me I dont like. I try to avoid them at all costs. The nicer people are with me, the nicer I am with them. In fact I always try to always repay kindness two-fold. I should have realized everyone on these boards is a know-it-all.
I've noticed on a couple of other threads that you have been called on making claims that you can not substantiate. My opinion is that you have no proof to these comments, either. It is also My opinion that any layman should not be attempting to use human beings to prove their theories on BDSM being any type of psychological remedy for past trauma or abuse issues. Frankly, you're not qualified in any mental health field. The idea that you are receiving money for providing this "arrangement" only serve to make the concept less tasteful.
The above portion that I have highlighted in red is a comment that just about anyone could make and is not based solely on one gender. The same accusation could be applied to male sadist as well. In My experience, it's actually perpetuated more often by men than women that, somehow, female sadists must have some type of inner hatred toward men or they have some sort of repressed issue. However, that theory is blown to bits when the same female sadists top both genders and get just as much enjoyment out of it.
As a Dominant and a sadist, I have topped bottoms who have reached a cathartic release. I have had people who have had an emotional trigger happen during a scene that neither of us suspected would happen (as a side note, this has happened more with male, rather than female bottoms). I have specifically conducted scenes that I knew there could be fall out after the scene had been completed. If you're promoting the idea that any or all of this would be fine just because there is a female bouncer in the room during the play, and that covers all of the bases, in My opinion, you are not aware of the consequences that could result.
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