Twoshoes
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ORIGINAL: atursvcMaam Very beautifully stated. Comfort with one's own self seems pretty unique these days. The post was prompted by another "Why doesn't anyone on collarme talk to me?" thread. Yes, the smoke and mirrors which help people to find one another fades over time, but that is a completely different, and more complex issue. i am quite open to suggestions as to how does one make love stay. Well, for one thing, if you start out with smoke and mirrors and then kill your own affinity for the spectacular... Best advice I've been given (by an old man) is to keep doing everything you'd normally do in the beginning. Simple and thus powerful concept. (The kind that involves lots of work. ) When it fades, you could ask: "Why did you like me again? My memory is flailing me." This could result in a more efficient, targeted approach to mutual satisfaction. Laser-guided missiles, Napalm, whatever. (Yeah, I made a cheesy love-war analogy, but these things just write themselves. )
< Message edited by Twoshoes -- 9/27/2010 1:33:51 PM >
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