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RE: Face Slapping - 9/25/2010 3:14:51 PM

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I'm not one to say will never try it again in the future, but in the past, I'm one that has not reacted very well at all to having my face slapped.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/25/2010 7:22:22 PM

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Face slapping is in my top five list of things that I absolutely love.
It's an instant turn on for me, except when he catches me really off guard in the middle of something nonsexual and then I burst out in giggles for the next fifteen minutes.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/25/2010 7:31:59 PM

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Totally erotic to deliver the slapping - as for receiving I've never been slapped in the face and hopefully never will, on that end it would be a big mistake on the slappers part. (unless we pretend ass is face - that's a different story

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/25/2010 8:02:52 PM

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The first time a guy stared me down and slapped my face, I almost fainted because it was so hot. However, I can see how this would not be cool for people who associate face-slapping with something unpleasant.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/25/2010 8:07:44 PM

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Somewhat common for us. Definitely acceptable.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/25/2010 9:13:39 PM

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Big fan personally. It's one of those things that can make me go from normal to drooling puddle of sub in milliseconds.

It's all the rage apparently, not just in porn. In one of the first episodes of Mad Men this season, Uber Alpha Male Don Draper had a woman slap him in the face a few times. I almost fell out of my chair when I saw that.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/25/2010 9:21:19 PM

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I'll slap.

For a fee.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/25/2010 11:31:04 PM

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Lastly are a few how have it as a hard limit, usually due to a bad memory when they were slapped previously in their lives.

Some of us, without bad memories of being slapped, have it as a hard limit because it takes us from zero to "I am going to kick your &%$#** ass!!!' in under 2 seconds. Some triggers just are, and face slapping is one of mine.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/26/2010 6:13:40 AM

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And some of us have medical issues that cause it to be a hard limit. A previous history of retinal detachment for example, implanted lenses for another, certain hearing difficulties etc.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/27/2010 12:59:38 AM

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Are there suggestions some might make ...for me and my Dom as this is something He seems to want to pursue and i hesitate due to a painful past association. He is aware of this...and seems to deal with comforting me in those situations.

My question is...are there others who have had a past with this...a Dom who likes the idea and how do they ...uhm...rise to the challenge?

I desire to "go there" but wish to limit my uncontrolled and negative reactions to a minimum.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/27/2010 6:29:03 AM

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Face slapping?
Love it!

*Grins*
It lets me put my years of martial arts to good use.
Happy, happies all around.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/27/2010 6:30:38 AM

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Hopefully it was more ju jitsu and less kickboxing?

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/27/2010 7:04:00 AM

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been slapped during play once - and really did little for me. It was interesting, and maybe would like to try it again, but so far ..... meh! little reaction.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/27/2010 7:30:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: poise

Hopefully it was more ju jitsu and less kickboxing?

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/27/2010 7:42:14 AM

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Ive always been a big fan of the old school UFC, especially ju jitsu....Royce Gracie can have my submission anytime!

.......slaps my own face in order to keep this thread on topic

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/27/2010 7:57:45 AM

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I have never tried face slapping until my ex did it. I sort of liked it, but since I did not trust him at that point, I was very leery of his ability to control it or himself.

I would say that I am not into it since if anything happened to my face or eyes, that would be very bad indeed.

There are so many other and better places to slap.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/27/2010 7:58:48 AM

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I like watching savate because it's more flamboyant.

Some of those guys will stop at nothing, though:

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/27/2010 9:55:55 AM

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There are so many other and better places to slap.

Hey, cunt and tit slapping are both waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay up their on the favored hobbies list.
*Leers*
But I gotta say, face slapping, if done properly and with a gal who doesn't react poorly to it, can drop a girl in and of itself, which few things can do.
Nothing sexier than watcher her eyes drop to half mast and glaze over just from the hair pulling and face slapping alone.
It's a great appetizer.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/27/2010 10:08:26 AM

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He is the only person that can slap my face. any other will be in for an ass whipping. it reinforces my submission to Him and that is always a turn on.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/27/2010 11:39:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: Kana

Hey, cunt and tit slapping are both waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay up their on the favored hobbies list.
*Leers*
But I gotta say, face slapping, if done properly and with a gal who doesn't react poorly to it, can drop a girl in and of itself, which few things can do.
Nothing sexier than watcher her eyes drop to half mast and glaze over just from the hair pulling and face slapping alone.
It's a great appetizer.

As a submissive man I have to say the very first dominant woman I knew was a face slapper, and it even now almost thirty years later it can send me into "sub-space". Once I am there most of my "hard" limits usually fall away.

Submissively,
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