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RE: Face Slapping - 10/31/2010 8:05:03 PM   
DMFParadox


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Status: offline 		Be CAREFUL if you do this.

I don't think anyone's mentioned this yet in this thread, so I'm weighing in with it. You can cause whiplash and head injuries if you hit someone's face as hard as a good smack on the butt.

Also, if she has an ear/sinus infection, strep, any kind of above-the-neck infection, NO SLAPPING PERIOD. Just don't. Even if she's told you she's ok for rough play.


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RE: Face Slapping - 11/1/2010 10:55:22 AM   
daddysprop247


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Status: offline 		face slapping is a disciplinary action like any other in this house. note i said discipline, not punishment. it is meant to be a wake up call, a "check yourself." it is quite effective. my Master is far from gentle in his slapping, and i have been left at times with ringing in the ears, mild dizziness, things of that nature but nothing we would label as serious.

face slapping has nothing to do with erotic activities or "rough play" for us.



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RE: Face Slapping - 11/3/2010 1:10:27 AM   
DMFParadox


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Status: offline 		Ok, just let him know he can rupture your eardrum or worse if he slaps you when you've got an infection.

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RE: Face Slapping - 11/3/2010 1:24:07 AM   
SpiritedRadiance


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Status: offline 		The one time I was slapped across the face, All I could see for several minutes was red, blood was involved, alot of physical violence and whiskey.....

Apparently is bad form to break your partners nose.... and knock out a few teeth....who knew.

Edited to clarify: I didnt know I was hurting or even attacking my partner, all I saw was deep blood red.....


< Message edited by SpiritedRadiance -- 11/3/2010 1:25:13 AM >

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RE: Face Slapping - 11/3/2010 7:49:03 PM   
behavingbadly


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RE: Face Slapping - 11/4/2010 9:25:11 AM   
pdv99


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Status: offline 		Hot - doesn't have to be hard - but humiliating - esp. if She slapped me in public....

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RE: Face Slapping - 11/4/2010 10:11:16 PM   
tallme56


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Status: offline 		This faggotbitch's MASTER regularly grabs HIS property by the hair and slaps and backhands HIS property's face repeatedly and hard. HE does it when HE is angry, HE does it when HIS property has made a mistake and HE does it a lot when HIS property is sucking HIS cock or being fucked by HIM, slapping and backhanding HIS property makes HIM rock hard. This faggotbitch's MASTER is SIRMEDERK.

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RE: Face Slapping - 11/4/2010 10:12:23 PM   
stef


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RE: Face Slapping - 11/5/2010 1:28:27 AM   
hlen5


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ORIGINAL: tallme56

This faggotbitch's MASTER regularly grabs HIS property by the hair and slaps and backhands HIS property's face repeatedly and hard. HE does it when HE is angry, HE does it when HIS property has made a mistake and HE does it a lot when HIS property is sucking HIS cock or being fucked by HIM, slapping and backhanding HIS property makes HIM rock hard. This faggotbitch's MASTER is SIRMEDERK.


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RE: Face Slapping - 11/5/2010 6:48:06 AM   
tallme56


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Status: offline 		hlen5, thank you for the welcome. Can you tell me how to replace the vanilla ice cream cone with something more accurate?

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RE: Face Slapping - 11/5/2010 6:56:46 AM   
allthatjaz


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RE: Face Slapping - 11/5/2010 7:47:26 AM   
Hillwilliam


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RE: Face Slapping - 11/5/2010 9:52:23 AM   
submitting4U


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Status: offline 		The humiliation aspect seems to be the point more than the pain ... especially in front of others ... being slapped in public is so degrading and humiliating ... it all arouses me, but only to receive it ... at a party, my hair was held and face slapped repeatedly until i was crying ... when she finished, she spat on me in front of her friends who were agast ... we were both very aroused at this point ... i always know when it is coming, she points to the floor, i usually kneel and present my face ... she sometimes videos with her camera phone to share with others ... a cold hearted indignity produces a fiery sexual scene ... that paradox is life

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RE: Face Slapping - 11/5/2010 12:09:38 PM   
OneMaster4You


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Status: offline 		I have used face slapping when I want someones full attention. For this it is very useful. Also it can be used to make and punctuate a point. In punishment it can be used for punctuating a scolding.

As a use for eroticism it can be used when gagging a submissive with my cock and she tries to pull away, a firm loving slap brings her back to the matter at hand ...or should I say mouth.

A submissive may also enjoy it during other forms of rough sex play. Know your submissives limitations and your own strength.

It is also important to understand your submissive and know what she associates a slap with. There are some that have negative connotations associated with being slapped. In this instance it will do more harm than good.

Subconciously the slap can have implications that one must understand and then use accordingly. Bottom line ....know your submissive, take the time to understand her so when she sighs a certain way you know exactly what is going on in her head.

Ask her and talk openly about it. This allows for maximum control ....and fun constructive face slapping.

nuff said


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RE: Face Slapping - 11/5/2010 12:47:11 PM   
MarcusLaRue


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Status: offline 		As in any physical activity the context defines the result. With my LTR partner (not currently), initially one of her hard limits was face slapping. But, as we "grew" and the relationship evolved I introduced it in one of those handful of hair "now suck your Daddy's cock" moments. It was relatively benign as far as the amount of force but the symbolism affected her head space immediately. After that, while not necessarily a large part of our interaction, it was a regular one. Very appropriate on a primal level but only if the flow of energy is congruent.
As a discipline, not my cup of tea.


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RE: Face Slapping - 11/5/2010 5:43:08 PM   
CaptainsPet


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Status: offline 		I don't know. Never had anyone try that with me. If I'm in the right head space, though, I can roll with just about anything.

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RE: Face Slapping - 11/5/2010 7:24:20 PM   
HisManegirl


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Status: offline 		I have never had it done to me by my Dom, I have no idea how I'd react. I'm sure it would be very humiliating and may trigger some crap from my past like when I was  slapped by a man who was really pissed at me when I was very young.

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RE: Face Slapping - 11/5/2010 7:51:37 PM   
porcelaine


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DMFParadox

Be CAREFUL if you do this.

I don't think anyone's mentioned this yet in this thread, so I'm weighing in with it. You can cause whiplash and head injuries if you hit someone's face as hard as a good smack on the butt.

Also, if she has an ear/sinus infection, strep, any kind of above-the-neck infection, NO SLAPPING PERIOD. Just don't. Even if she's told you she's ok for rough play.



Greetings DMFParadox,

You're correct and the issue was raised during a demonstration on rough body play techniques that I attended in the past. They provided hands on instruction on how to strike the face with appropriate finger/palm placement and indicated the areas that should be avoided to prevent injury.

Namaste,

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RE: Face Slapping - 11/5/2010 9:05:40 PM   
MMsCandy


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Status: offline 		M has slapped me - no not an all out slap but definitely a good slap. It's not my favorite "thing" but in the right context it can do wonders to my head space. 

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RE: Face Slapping - 11/5/2010 9:49:29 PM   
DMFParadox


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ORIGINAL: behavingbadly

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Fucking christ girl. Too far away. And you go for the dominant women too. But you say something like this where I can see it. It's like candy inside the bottom of a fucking wine flute. I'd have to break the glass to get at it. You're inciting shit here. ...Awesome.
... though, you look like a love tap would send you across the room. I'd have to slap you with someone else's arm.


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