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RE: Face Slapping - 9/27/2010 1:06:07 PM   
sexyred1


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There are so many other and better places to slap.


Hey, cunt and tit slapping are both waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay up their on the favored hobbies list.
*Leers*
But I gotta say, face slapping, if done properly and with a gal who doesn't react poorly to it, can drop a girl in and of itself, which few things can do.
Nothing sexier than watcher her eyes drop to half mast and glaze over just from the hair pulling and face slapping alone.
It's a great appetizer.



Uh..when you put it that way....and the hair pulling thing is smoking.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/27/2010 1:25:59 PM   
Hillwilliam


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Status: offline 		Personally, I'd rather slap the other end.  It jiggles more nicely.  As for someone slapping me?  It's a good way to get your arm broken.  (Ex state champion in styles and coach here)

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/27/2010 1:27:39 PM   
Hillwilliam


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Status: offline 		The above edited to read Two styles.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/27/2010 2:08:24 PM   
scharma


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Status: offline 		If anyone smacked me in the face I would deck them... or try to... but with my Dom it is done only when Im at the suib space that can handle it... he waits... and then it is lovely just a short reminder along with others whom I belong to..... its all about time and space and trust

hope that helps
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RE: Face Slapping - 9/29/2010 1:56:35 PM   
submitting4U


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Status: offline 		I like it because it reduces me quickly, a fast regression into childhood when i was slapped by parents, teachers, older folks ... it prepares me for the more serious corporal play. Once i am slapped into child, a shameful place for many subs, i submit more intensely to the forthcoming humiliation. Even better is having my hair held so the slapping imposes a double pain ... One Domina, perhaps 5 ft tall, could slap me to tears, usually in front of her friends and sometimes in public. Slapping in public has a synergistic energy to it, people murmur their disgust at a man who takes that abuse. It aroused both of us and the frenzied beating was finished behind closed doors.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/30/2010 4:33:56 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		mmm face slapping......is that enough of an answer?

it would NOT be appropriate outside of a sexual context for me ever though.

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RE: Face Slapping - 9/30/2010 4:35:47 PM   
laurell3


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ORIGINAL: Kana

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
There are so many other and better places to slap.


Hey, cunt and tit slapping are both waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay up their on the favored hobbies list.
*Leers*
But I gotta say, face slapping, if done properly and with a gal who doesn't react poorly to it, can drop a girl in and of itself, which few things can do.
Nothing sexier than watcher her eyes drop to half mast and glaze over just from the hair pulling and face slapping alone.
It's a great appetizer.



sigh......Kana you should quit your day job and write porn....just sayin....

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RE: Face Slapping - 10/28/2010 6:41:36 AM   
BreakmeDown247


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Status: offline 		Face-slapping was a dark room that my Dominant wanted me to enter, with him leading the way of course. We discussed before hand briefly that it would now be an additional toy in the toybox. So, when we started out on our last session, and he took his hand to cradle my face, (I thought to be endearing for a moment) but then the other hand completely stunned the right side of my face out of nowhere! Shock overtook me briefly, but as he continued to fuck me, never breaking eye contact, composure, or control; the shock and pain quickly morphed into intense sensations of pleasure. I believe in our 7 years of pushing boundaries together, it was a very solidifying and transcending moment. I ended up loving it and each subsequent one that followed that evening. The one that made my ears ring and eyes glaze over. The light bruises left on my face were quite amusing to me. I can't wait to do it again!!!

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RE: Face Slapping - 10/28/2010 2:10:16 PM   
akimarain


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Status: offline 		I try not to leave bruises on my girls face, so that she may continue to work

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RE: Face Slapping - 10/28/2010 2:20:54 PM   
SorceressJ


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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

Personally, I'd rather slap the other end.  It jiggles more nicely.  As for someone slapping me?  It's a good way to get your arm broken.  (Ex state champion in styles and coach here)


< -- not an ex-wrestler or anything, but yeah, the rest totally fits. Slap me in the face under ANY circumstances, scene or not, and someone's getting hurt for real. My ass? Now that's another story altogether..

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RE: Face Slapping - 10/28/2010 2:38:36 PM   
DaddyRsgirl


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Status: offline 		I love it but when it happens it's because I have done or said something wrong- a kind of  'pay attention' reminder ;)

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RE: Face Slapping - 10/28/2010 2:42:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		Great way to feel connected ... however briefly that is ...

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RE: Face Slapping - 10/28/2010 3:17:00 PM   
IrishMist


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Face Slapping seems to have become part of D/s Porn suddenly. [maybe NOT so suddenly, I might have missed a few years of porn - hey I was busy with the real thing!] Anyway, I am curious how it is viewed in real life? What say you all? Common and "acceptable" or not? Erotic?

I find that the pain that is produced from a real good slap is highly arousing.


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RE: Face Slapping - 10/28/2010 4:19:36 PM   
WolfyMontgomery


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Status: offline 		For me slapping is a very hard thing to define. In certain aspects, situations, and the way it's done, I'll turn to sweet subby mush at Master's feet. At the same time, even in those same situations if it's done just a little bit wrong, I'll be knocked out of sub-space so fast he'll be dealing with a panicking, crying, pissed off slave at his feet instead. Neither of us are wholly sure WHY this is, since I never really had any bad experiences that I can remember, but because of it he takes the slapping very carefully.

It might be in part due to the fact that thuddy anything tends to make me panicky (heavy toys tend to be a no-no too more often than not - if I feel bone being touched or the feeling that it could be I tend to close up and drop rather than fly) and so when he slaps, the very heavy feeling of his hand hitting a place that doesn't have very much fat to protect the bone might be doing it. Which is why he aims at the fatty cheek part rather than my cheek bones or something, and doesn't hit very hard, and tries not to let his hand rest after the strike (which tends to lead to thuddier impacts rather than sting ones).

So it's both a turn on and a major turn off, depending.
When it's done right though, I really am a sweet pile of mush at Master's feet though ;D


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RE: Face Slapping - 10/29/2010 5:57:03 AM   
Ait


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Status: offline 		It's acceptable...But I'd never do it. I consider it part of the whole humiliation schtick... Not my thing, things get very bad for me very fast when playing heads in that direction. Doesn't really appeal to me to see it in porn either, I've been seeing it too. Ickyness. I was taught growing up that women should never be hit in the face, so to me that says that she means nothing, you don't view her as a woman and she has no value.

-karen

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RE: Face Slapping - 10/29/2010 6:54:10 AM   
RavenMuse


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ORIGINAL: DomTeddyBare

Face Slapping seems to have become part of D/s Porn suddenly. [maybe NOT so suddenly, I might have missed a few years of porn - hey I was busy with the real thing!] Anyway, I am curious how it is viewed in real life? What say you all? Common and "acceptable" or not? Erotic?


No idea about the porn but its been around in the lifestyle... possibly since there was a lifestyle LOL, so yes I would say 'common'. But from My experience as far as the girls go its a 'marmite' thing, they either love it or hate it. As in hate it to the point that it has negative emotional triggers that, if not harmful to them is oft harmful the the relationship... I've observed the negative reactions being surprisingly out of proportion.... girls that hate anal for instance, but will grit their teeth and do it for Him, yet can't handle a face slap!

Conversely others will both turn in to a puddle and cause one if You bring Your hand across their face. When I first encountered a girl who enjoyed it, I did have a hurdle of My own... upbringing wise, learned behaviour, I found I got a negative emotional response the first time. The girls reactions however helped Me re-assess the issue.

It isn't something that does much for Me on its own, but if the girl is reactive to it... Well, I'm a reaction slut... If I'm going to put much force behind it, I will support her head with My other hand (To prevent inadvertent damage to her neck from her head whipping to the side), Which means I can now get a delightful reaction just from stroking her face... she doesn't know if the stroke will suddenly just stop and become that support as the other hand lands :P

So 'acceptable'? So long as caution is used... nothing 'unacceptable' from My perspective.




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RE: Face Slapping - 10/29/2010 7:02:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		Face-slapping is something I've always gotten off on, but my pretty one was quite leery of it due to past experience. I took my time on it and it's one of those boundaries which was successfully pushed. She trusts me to a)never do it in anger or in an abusive way, and b) to not slap her too hard....... 

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RE: Face Slapping - 10/31/2010 12:38:29 AM   
babygurlangel


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Status: offline 		I love having my face slapped if its in the right context anyway. My Daddy doesn't do it often because he doesn't feel right doing it and when he does do it, you can just tell he is not used to it because he doesn't do it hard its more soft and gentle than anything lol and I don't get much from that LOL. But when it is done firmly I get turned on and enter sub-space.

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RE: Face Slapping - 10/31/2010 2:00:32 AM   
TotalDiscipline


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ORIGINAL: akimarain

I try not to leave bruises on my girls face, so that she may continue to work



you are so good to her..lol

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RE: Face Slapping - 10/31/2010 5:04:03 PM   
porcelaine


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ORIGINAL: DomTeddyBare

Face Slapping seems to have become part of D/s Porn suddenly. [maybe NOT so suddenly, I might have missed a few years of porn - hey I was busy with the real thing!] Anyway, I am curious how it is viewed in real life? What say you all? Common and "acceptable" or not? Erotic?


Greetings DomTeddyBare,

In the past I didn't enjoy face slapping and viewed it as humiliating and degrading. Although I found the latter two activities very appealing, being struck in the face was a blow to my ego and was typically the result of something I'd said or the individual's desire to do so because he could. I have reconciled this and I'm able to readily accept it without going into the negative head space I once entered. The change is primarily due to my belief that all things that come from Him are for my benefit. As such, being slapped would carry the connotation He creates as opposed to the mental ones I previously harbored. In my opinion bristling or seeking its omission would inhibit Him from expressing Himself in that capacity and deprive me of the experience too.

Namaste,

~porcelaine


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