soul2share
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Joined: 12/18/2007 From: somewhere out there..... Status: offline
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Spirit, this is just a quick observation, but hon, lighten up....you seem to have taken this thread rather personally, from the opening line of your first post. Each generation has it's differences, whether they be from their upbringing, their environment or outside influences. In a perfect world the younger generation would be taught things by the older generation, however, there are so many ways that the familes of today are so different from the familes of the past generations. Personally, I grew up rather self sufficient due to the working parents. I was doing my own laundry at 12, starting dinner at 13, and then there were the chores. We sat down at a dinner table, and actually ate dinner as a family. Nowadays, it seems like my friend's families just pass like ships in the night running from one activity to another, school, sports, work. Everyone is trying to cram in so many activities, that family time is an urban myth anymore! I taught my son things about getting along by himself. He can do laundry, cook his own meals, clean up after himself....well, as well as any 25 year old can....I told him that just because he would have a girlfriend or wife, that was not an open invitation to not help around the house. And he does help his fiancee around the house, she works practically full time and goes to school at the same time, so she has days just as long as he does (he works on a dairy farm). Of course, Angel isn't going to pick up after him anymore than I would. And just a note, my Dad has a perfectly seasoned cast iron Dutch oven that I've already laid claim to.......
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I have to stop saying "How stupid can you be?"...people are starting to take it as a challenge! *Not a fuck was given.*
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