CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: Some one want to explain which part of the Bible promotes this? (10/23/2010 4:11:14 PM)
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~~~~~~~fast reply~~~~~~ truckinslave, sorry to hear that you had such a hard time trying to save the life of your premature baby. As for my own two cents tossed into this thread, I am pro-choice because of what I have seen in my life. I was raised to be anti-abortion, was even shown movies when I was 6 years old that had aborted fetuses in trash cans. Anyone who shows little kids gruesome stuff like that needs to have a beating, IMHO. What did I see that changed my mind? I knew girls that were literally thrown out of their homes over unwanted pregnancies so they wouldn't be a corruptive influence to younger siblings. Shunned...treated as dead to the family and never forgiven or pardoned. I read our family's geneology and found out that some families...had...even 24 natural born children. A man's wife would have to be replaced when she died from being a baby machine and he would start all over again with the next, cranking out one after another. I wondered how many children died from illnesses that escalated because of malnutrition, because there were too many children to feed properly. I learned that my grandmother had had to marry her own rapist. (I cannot state how young she was or it would be a TOS violation.) By the time she was 21 she had given him 5 children...eventually she had eight. The pregnancy that was my mother came at a horrible time in grandma's life and she tried her best to abort it, including resorting to flinging herself down the stairs. Grandma never loved my mother, can you imagine that? Mom is in her seventies and the emotional scars remain. This was during the Great Depression, and one time when my grandma was working full time as a waitress in some greasy spoon, the welfare snapped up her kids and put them into foster homes and orphanages because the babysitter phoned them and said she refused to watch them anymore and yet my grandma had dropped them on her anyway. There were no openings for my 5 year old mother, so they dumped her into juvenile hall! Force women to have children that they absolutely don't want or cannot afford? More of this will happen, and worse. Have you read books that document child abuse cases? We need to add more fuel to these flames? Birth control is never 100%. How many people actually read the fine print on condom packages to hear that the yearly failure rate among people who use it exactly right each time...is 20% of these condom using couples having a pregnancy during that year. I got preggies with condoms and while on the pill. My sister was in the army and bad batches of the pill were sold, so she got preggies too. My mother was trying her best not to get pregnant, was using a diaphragm and spermicidal cream and yet got preggies with me. Mom had to marry dad, on his terms. She had found out what an evil rat bastard he was but had to do right by her child and married him anyway. My sister was planning to divorce her physically abusive hubby, but the pregnancy ended that. After the kid was born, he said he would run off with it if she tried to leave him and she would never see her daughter again. Having a baby changes everything, and I believe that women should have a choice in whether or not they change their lives forever by having a baby. Some of us could not give a child up for adoption even if both of us were dragged into hell-on-earth, because the bond is so strong. There is one way to go back to a normal life, to abort. I had counseling. (The counselor thought it best if I put everything behind me and abort.) If anyone had tried to force me to bring my child into the world, it would have damaged our relationship severely. This had to be my decision, not something forced on me because of someone else's religious beliefs or because...there is a shortage of caucasian babies and people have been on waiting lists for years hoping to adopt. Unfortunate circumstances should not force some women into being free babymaking machines cranking out a needed marketable product. Before my son, and afterward, I had a lot of miscarriages. With each pregnancy I'd wake up every morning wondering if that would be the day my baby died. I got very angry with God for a while because of this, I couldn't understand why each of my unborn babies never had a chance to LIVE. Why put a soul in there at the moment of conception if it was doomed from the start never to be born? My ex-husband is Druse and says that his people believes that God puts the soul in with the first breath a baby takes. (I don't know if he knows what he's talking about since I have never studied anything about the Druse faith.) I don't know when the soul is put into the fetus, but I have to believe it's something God decides. I don't believe that a sex act creates a soul, merely the body that the soul can live inside. This is my consolation over the deaths of my unborn children...that they were possibilities that didn't receive the gift of life. I grieved their loss, but I have also made peace with this. Equating a doctor who has the mercy to abort a fetus...to a man with a gun shooting at children seems psychotic...but at the same time, in a horrible way I can understand that you cannot see a difference between the two. I have a cousin like that...she has given birth to 8 children...and puts her money where her mouth is by helping others. Her church group gives counseling and help to unwed mothers and others, not condemnation, and my cousin has taken in children for a while to keep them out of the foster care system until their mother is out of jail or has finished with chemo or some surgery. Support groups, not condemnation/punishment, and helping with families to get them over rough patches...are much better than murdering doctors and terrorizing their families. My friend Steve talked a woman we both know out of having an abortion. It was her fourth kid...and her birth control had slipped again. Funny how many doctors give out antibiotics without warning that it will cancel out the Pill. Anyway, Steve was never her lover but had been a part time babysitter. He promised her that if she didn't abort he would babysit for free all of her kids whenever she needed him to. (He also promised to stop all babysitting and to never talk with her again if she got an abortion.) The girl is 11 years old now, and he is firmly established as Uncle to all of her kids...he is a good man and has none of his own...and takes his role of Uncle very seriously. He watches them several times per week, brings food when they are running low, gives birthday and Christmas gifts to them and takes them on outings. They are his family, it's a win-win situation. He is a rigid pro-lifer and handled it this way, not by turning vigilante and terrorizing the little children of doctors, or by murdering their daddies. I think that if someone is against abortion for Christian reasons...they need to handle this in a way that their Master and King would want. They are supposed to be followers of Christ. Hate to say it but...What would Jesus do? He wouldn't be blowing up abortion clinics.
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