truckinslave
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Its my personal experience that families with a lot of depression often have a lot of alcoholics. Certainly that's true of my family. Again, just from anecdotal personal experience, refusal to seek treatment is not uncommon. Either for oneself or for one children. I spent a long time refusing it myself. Two things. Do something.Anything. For, I suspect, yourself and him. Even if you are not depressed, caring for him under these conditions cannot be easy. There are free 12-step meetings everywhere. It does not have to be designed just for depressives, in both my opinion and experience. My AA group has been "crashed" by Weight Watchers Anonymous, Sex and love Addicts, Adult Children of Alcoholics, Gamblers.... My first pigeon suffered as much from depression as booze- maybe more. No one in my group cared about these outsiders., except on the rare occasion of a "closed" meeting with someone present who was actually concerned about maintaining anonymity. Under those conditions we told the outsiders the location and time of the next open meeting, and invited them to come to it. These groups are many things, from coffee clatches to stress management, but they anount to free group therapy; they have helped an awful lot of people. EVERY AA group seems to me to have members with centuries of dealing with government agencies, clinics, etc. Someone will know how to get a legitimate prescription, and how to get the manufacturer to fill it for free, or at least at greatly reduced cost. Your bigger problem may be getting the depressive to cooperate. With anything.
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1. Islam and sharia are indivisible. 2. Sharia is barbaric, homophobic, violent, and inimical to the most basic Western values (including free speech and freedom of religion). (Yeah, I know: SEE: Irony 101). ERGO: Islam has no place in America.
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