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Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 5:53:03 PM   
TerrorNova


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Status: offline 		I would like people's thoughts on long term/short term goals for anal training. I have long believed that a slaves ass should be trained to "perform" on command, for the shear entertainment value, to their humiliation.

In the early days of my BDSM experience the Dommes I experienced placed a particular value on the versatility of a slaves ass.

Any and all thoughts on the topic are welcome.

Suggested goals are most appreciated.
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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 5:57:05 PM   
BonesFromAsh


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ORIGINAL: TerrorNova
I have long believed that a slaves ass should be trained to "perform" on command, for the shear entertainment value, to their humiliation.



What does this mean? Perform how?

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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 5:59:34 PM   
stef


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What does this mean? Perform how?

Giving bad haircuts to unsuspecting salon patrons?  He did say "shear entertainment".

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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 6:01:48 PM   
TerrorNova


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ORIGINAL: BonesFromAsh


quote:

ORIGINAL: TerrorNova
I have long believed that a slaves ass should be trained to "perform" on command, for the shear entertainment value, to their humiliation.



What does this mean? Perform how?



be ready to accept something.. and object, a dildo, a plug...

be prepared to accept activities that might entertain all those concerned. Although i favour longer term usage of plugs, I'm interested in what might be considered a good end result (pardon the pun) something a slave can invest in, a goal to work towards. Sometihng as entertaining as it might be perceived useful.

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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 6:04:38 PM   
TerrorNova


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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: BonesFromAsh

What does this mean? Perform how?

Giving bad haircuts to unsuspecting salon patrons?  He did say "shear entertainment".

~stef



exactly! touche


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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 6:07:11 PM   
BonesFromAsh


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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: BonesFromAsh

What does this mean? Perform how?

Giving bad haircuts to unsuspecting salon patrons?  He did say "shear entertainment".

~stef





I should have known.

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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 6:09:33 PM   
angelikaJ


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ORIGINAL: TerrorNova

I would like people's thoughts on long term/short term goals for anal training. I have long believed that a slaves ass should be trained to "perform" on command, for the shear entertainment value, to their humiliation.

In the early days of my BDSM experience the Dommes I experienced placed a particular value on the versatility of a slaves ass.

Any and all thoughts on the topic are welcome.

Suggested goals are most appreciated.


First, I think it is important that both the receiver and the giver (or in this case the submissive and dominant partners) both have an very good understanding of the anatomy of the anal tract.
The way the sphincer muscles work (there are 2 and they operate very differently) for example.

A good source book on this is Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack Morin.

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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 6:12:18 PM   
TerrorNova


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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ


quote:

ORIGINAL: TerrorNova

I would like people's thoughts on long term/short term goals for anal training. I have long believed that a slaves ass should be trained to "perform" on command, for the shear entertainment value, to their humiliation.

In the early days of my BDSM experience the Dommes I experienced placed a particular value on the versatility of a slaves ass.

Any and all thoughts on the topic are welcome.

Suggested goals are most appreciated.


First, I think it is important that both the receiver and the giver (or in this case the submissive and dominant partners) both have an very good understanding of the anatomy of the anal tract.
The way the sphincer muscles work (there are 2 and they operate very differently) for example.

A good source book on this is Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack Morin.



Safety is a given and the expectations vs. anatomy is understood. Good point.

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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 6:23:16 PM   
JstAnotherSub


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ORIGINAL: TerrorNova

I would like people's thoughts on long term/short term goals for anal training. I have long believed that a slaves ass should be trained to "perform" on command, for the shear entertainment value, to their humiliation.

In the early days of my BDSM experience the Dommes I experienced placed a particular value on the versatility of a slaves ass.

Any and all thoughts on the topic are welcome.

Suggested goals are most appreciated.
gawd that bolded part made me snort and nearly choke to death!

performing asshole


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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 6:45:36 PM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: TerrorNova

I would like people's thoughts on long term/short term goals for anal training. I have long believed that a slaves ass should be trained to "perform" on command, for the shear entertainment value, to their humiliation.



If it can't juggle three chainsaws while whistling dixie, it isn't properly trained.

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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 7:05:28 PM   
OttersSwim


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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 7:15:40 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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The keys to anal play are lube and relaxation. I saw an anal virgin fisted to the elbow at a demo.

Anal training is a myth perpetuated by porn.

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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 7:22:35 PM   
Tantriqu


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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 7:46:57 PM   
ReginaMirus


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Anal "training" is male-centric play, a treat doled out at a whim by her for HIS pleasure. WTH makes you think the Domme benefits at all from that sort of activity?

< Message edited by ReginaMirus -- 11/7/2010 7:47:41 PM >

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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 7:51:50 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: ReginaMirus

~~fast reply~~

Anal "training" is male-centric play, a treat doled out at a whim by her for HIS pleasure. WTH makes you think the Domme benefits at all from that sort of activity?


Uhhh... some women, both kinky and non kinky enjoy fucking their men in the ass. So yes, some women do receive pleasure - and hence benefit - from their men doing anal training.

And there is also the pleasure of the control, humilation for some and pleasure for others. Now, I would guess that submissive men overvalue this because they are focused so much on what they want any ol' dominant to do to their ass as long she's a chick.

But still, to dismiss it as having no benefit to any domme is unfair.

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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 7:53:18 PM   
Tantriqu


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Status: offline 		Lol, I *know* "that sort of activity" benefits me and mine, because with a vibrating strap-on, I come like a BULL in good subs' asses.
And training here is used in the sense of a man being shy about any anal stimulation being trained to Take a strap-on, not indulging a literally do-me bottom.

Evidently, ymv!
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ORIGINAL: ReginaMirus

~~fast reply~~

Anal "training" is male-centric play, a treat doled out at a whim by her for HIS pleasure. WTH makes you think the Domme benefits at all from that sort of activity?


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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 7:59:54 PM   
ReginaMirus


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: ReginaMirus

~~fast reply~~

Anal "training" is male-centric play, a treat doled out at a whim by her for HIS pleasure. WTH makes you think the Domme benefits at all from that sort of activity?


Uhhh... some women, both kinky and non kinky enjoy fucking their men in the ass. So yes, some women do receive pleasure - and hence benefit - from their men doing anal training.

And there is also the pleasure of the control, humilation for some and pleasure for others. Now, I would guess that submissive men overvalue this because they are focused so much on what they want any ol' dominant to do to their ass as long she's a chick.

But still, to dismiss it as having no benefit to any domme is unfair.


Right.

Should qualify that.

These are MY feelings on the topic. Others may feel differently, but this is how I see it.

 oy vey.

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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/7/2010 9:17:22 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		My goal in anally training a submissive male is to get him to transfer as much of his sexual response from his penis to his anus as he can. He gets a chance to learn what it's like for many women whose partners think they should be able to cum from vaginal fucking only without any additional stimulation. When he's able to ejaculate from a strap-on fucking, I consider him 'fully trained. Very few can do it...so we keep trying ;-)

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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/8/2010 2:19:56 AM   
BlackTigerDragon


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ORIGINAL: BonesFromAsh


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ORIGINAL: TerrorNova
I have long believed that a slaves ass should be trained to "perform" on command, for the shear entertainment value, to their humiliation.



What does this mean? Perform how?


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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/8/2010 6:25:34 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: TerrorNova
be ready to accept something.. and object, a dildo, a plug...

be prepared to accept activities that might entertain all those concerned. Although i favour longer term usage of plugs, I'm interested in what might be considered a good end result (pardon the pun) something a slave can invest in, a goal to work towards. Sometihng as entertaining as it might be perceived useful.


Which is fine, because it is your belief.  What happens when you meet the Dominant woman who believes otherwise? 

The highlighted above leads Me to believe that you are working from the fantasy angle, because the reality of a Dominant woman currently in your life doesn't exist yet.  You are supposing that this is what she is going to want and you want to be prepared in anticipation of establishing this type of connection with someone.  In My opinion, this is never a good idea, to conjure up what the Dominant woman is going to want based on what you think she's supposed to like.  You don't really know her opinion of it.  You're just going on the stereotype.

Some Dominant women are interested in anal play with their submissives and others are not.  Where does all of your 'anal training' leave you if the Dominant woman that you choose to have a relationship with doesn't care one way or the other?


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