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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 1:49:44 AM   
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There is at least one thread a week around here about financial domination.  It's really like any other kink out there.  It may not be one that you are interested in, but that doesn't make it less legitimate.  Nobody comes on here and says they aren't into needles (for example) so that means that anybody who is into needles must be wrong.  Same premise.

Also, juju is precisely right.  Anybody out there who wasn't getting the hot young chicks in the vanilla world isn't going to have any better success in the kink world.  Truthfully, the odds are greatly reduced.



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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 3:38:50 AM   
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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 7:01:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Atropos19

The thing I love most about the CM board is the unfailing civility of its members...


Given the abject ignorance of many of the drive by newbies....... the civility here really does amaze me. And I am dead serious when I say that.


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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 7:10:39 AM   
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< Message edited by Kana -- 12/2/2010 7:13:09 AM >

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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 7:30:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Atropos19

The thing I love most about the CM board is the unfailing civility of its members...

Hey, I here you, bro. Tell you what, let's do this, and say fuck these money dommes.

We'll be.....Money Subs! Send me your money dominants, and MAYBE I'll let you beat me to a pulp, because I'm a hard core masochist that needs severe discipline! You want a toilet? I gotcher toilet right here, I crave the humiliation.....but send me the money first, because I need to think about if I'm unworthy enough for your superiority. Forced bi? No prob. Castrate and turn me into a woman? ABSOLUTELY (this will have to be done on a lottery system, you have to buy tickets, because, well it can only happen once....and if I decide to actually draw a name, well, in the meantime, BUY MORE TICKETS!!!!) Turn me into a human pig, dog, cow, furniture, tablepiece, etc.? I'm your loving doormat Ma'ams and Sirs.

And after I make tons of money off of these suckers? Well, there's this profile of this really hot Domme who said she wants money before I can even see a pic of her, but wow, she sounds hot, and she promises that someday, if I send her enough money...........



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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 9:35:48 AM   
Atropos19


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Status: offline 		Haha... nice.

*gives shiver a virtual high five*

And I'm sorry, Greedy, but I don't see how calling me a "perv" b/c I express an opinion you don't agree with can possibly be called "civil."  Nor do I understand how you can accuse me of "thinking I know everything about how CM works" b/c I expressed a strong opinion on one particular subject.

LadyPact... I understand that you seem to be tired of the financial domme discussion, and for the record, I didn't start this particular thread (nor have I ever started another thread on the subject), I just responded to it.  But can I suggest... if you don't like the discussion, why not just decline to take part in it?  I've been posting in the weight thread recently as well, and it's full of the exact same kind of posts...

Side A) F*** these f***in' fatties!

Side B) Come on, now, have a heart.  It might not be their fault.  :(

Side C) Are we really having the fat discussion AGAIN?

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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 10:55:53 AM   
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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 11:13:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Atropos19

Haha... nice.

*gives shiver a virtual high five*

And I'm sorry, Greedy, but I don't see how calling me a "perv" b/c I express an opinion you don't agree with can possibly be called "civil."  Nor do I understand how you can accuse me of "thinking I know everything about how CM works" b/c I expressed a strong opinion on one particular subject.

LadyPact... I understand that you seem to be tired of the financial domme discussion, and for the record, I didn't start this particular thread (nor have I ever started another thread on the subject), I just responded to it.  But can I suggest... if you don't like the discussion, why not just decline to take part in it?  I've been posting in the weight thread recently as well, and it's full of the exact same kind of posts...

Side A) F*** these f***in' fatties!

Side B) Come on, now, have a heart.  It might not be their fault.  :(

Side C) Are we really having the fat discussion AGAIN?



Well sugar if it makes you feel better, the site of fat people naked, rather grosses me out, even myself if I get a bit too pudgy. It sure as hell doesn't turn me on!!! I also find the sight of penises, testicles, moobs, and hairy asses, gross. But I sure as fuck don't wax poetic about it, possibly hurting the feelings of people I like/respect/or even love, in some cases.

Just as I don't personally demand money for my uber cool domination. But hey, if someone is willing to pay, I don't fault the people that ask for it, and GET IT!

The fact is, these two subjects have been debated beyond death and several reincarnations. If you did a search, you would know this. Sooooooo, if you don't like the remarks you are getting in response to your remarks, tough shit.


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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 11:32:52 AM   
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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 11:34:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: crystalclarinet
Am I missing something? 
Yeah, I'd say you're missing pretty much EVERYTHING.

I can name at least 20 reasons right off the top of my head that someone might do this that don'tinvolve any sort of financial consideration or any sort of kink. At the very top of that list would be.... uh.... submitting... Now, given that the name of this very forum is "Ask a sub", I'd think that "submission" would be in most of the people's awareness. Obviously, I got that wrong.

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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 11:59:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		I mean I understand it would be a submission thing, but I guess I just haven't encountered it. I really didn't mean for this thread to get so out of control it was really just a curiosity thing for me because in my relationship with my Dom money isn't a factor and since I literally have none I would not ever be in a relationship where it was. I know that there must be people out there into it and I guess was just looking for more knowledge on it, but what it turned into was a bash fest, but also not too much from anyone that actually is into it. I do kind of get put off by it simply because I am trying to learn more about the community and what people are into and what there is to explore out there and I get a little frustrated when people are not willing to talk about their experiences, or when they come at me with a reply like... I only want money slaves. I only want my Dom, but that doesn't mean I am opposed to talking to other Doms. I guess that might just be how I differ than a lot of people. I basically would like to have a better understanding of the community before I jump head into going to the local BDSM club, but at the same time when everyone in your area that has a profile on here has that attitude it just makes me wonder why even bother with the local community, but then again who knows what it would be like otherwise. I know that there are people who literally need, want, crave the type of domination that comes with handing over your money and everything that comes with it, but I guess for me personally, and this is not ment to put anyone that does down, I would have to be a long and committed relationship prior to me ever getting to that point. I was expressing my frustration with this post and then also trying to learn more about something that I just don't understand, and I guess what I really ended up doing was getting the people that dislike it to chime in and not to really get any feedback from anyone that acutally participates in it.

I guess I was just trying to get an idea of how many of these people are acutally legit, if they are acutally just trying to "run a business" or if it is really a common fetish for people. I know that there will always be scam artists out in the world even outside of BDSM, so I was just really wondering.

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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 12:16:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana

"Anybody out there who wasn't getting the hot young chicks in the vanilla world isn't going to have any better success in the kink world.  Truthfully, the odds are greatly reduced. "

QFT



Exactly. Really wish there was a way to get that through everyone's heads so they could all move on and stop pretending they're in magic land where all their wet dreams come true.

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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 7:35:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Atropos19
LadyPact... I understand that you seem to be tired of the financial domme discussion, and for the record, I didn't start this particular thread (nor have I ever started another thread on the subject), I just responded to it.  But can I suggest... if you don't like the discussion, why not just decline to take part in it?  I've been posting in the weight thread recently as well, and it's full of the exact same kind of posts...

Side A) F*** these f***in' fatties!

Side B) Come on, now, have a heart.  It might not be their fault.  :(

Side C) Are we really having the fat discussion AGAIN?


I responded to a particular facet of this thread.  Mainly you (being new) not having the actual knowledge that this does happen to be a kink for some folks.  Had you been reading threads on the same subject less than a month ago, you'd have seen a post from a male sub who happens to love this particular kink and very specifically mentioned the joy of 'tribute for his princess'.

The only reason that I quoted you was to explain to you what was meant by a Red profile.  Wasn't it you who didn't know what it meant and then proceeded to complain about how mean people are on the forums?  So when someone shows up to answer your question, you complain about that as well.  Had I just answered your question on Red profiles, and not addressed the topic, that's called a hijack.  Something the Mods tend to frown on around here. 

As to your high five to shiver, you do realize that it's a ton of malarkey.  Being a female top and a damn good one, too, there are more than enough bottoms out there.  I could put up an ad tomorrow saying that I was going to South West Leather Fest and say that I'm looking for bottoms.  My inbox would be flooded with males (females too, actually) who want to be beat.  Know why?  Cause there are more of us than there are of you.


< Message edited by LadyPact -- 12/2/2010 7:36:31 PM >

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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 8:33:09 PM   
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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 8:39:25 PM   
anniezz338


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Status: offline 		I would think it wouldn't be wrong whether the Master wants it or the slave wants to give it. If it works for them, then it does. Do anything you want with my body but don't touch my money? huh?

I don't mind contributing to any roof I am living under. And if I am with someone I see as a happily ever after, I'll throw it all in. Money is a necessary evil. Would I behave foolishly and give it to any one who would have me? No.

But I do believe my happiness, memories and that special someone is more important than my money.

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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 10:41:38 PM   
Atropos19


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Status: offline 		LadyPact: Thanks for explaining about the Red profiles.  I was indeed the one who was confused about that.

For what it's worth, my "high five" to shiver was based on his statement about demanding money up front before he'd even talk to a domme about subbing for her.  I do think that, in principal, that's no different than the inverse: i.e., a domme demanding payment upfront before any kind of relationship has been formed, much less before a service has been rendered.  

I think what leads to threads like this, is the frustration a person feels when they first come to a site like this and start trying to connect with people, only to encounter a lot of money-grubbing opportunists who aren't *interested* in making a real connection.  It's the same frustration I felt as a job hunter, when I'd go for what I thought was a job interview and end up getting roped into an hour and a half long presentation about some "pay us now and make money later" scheme.  It may be what *some* people are looking for, and if so, to each his own.  But the type of thing I'm complaining about, are the girls who say that they're looking for subs, not specifically money slaves, but expect you to pay them a tribute up front before even getting the privilege of talking to them.  I continue to think that's a shady practice, motivated not by "kink," but by greed and expediency.

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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 10:52:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		I wasnt calling you a perv.. 'perving profiles' is an activity.  It means you're going through profiles.. simple, neh?

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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 10:58:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you had said "perusing profiles," that's how I would have taken it.  I tend to associate the word "perve" with, well, perversion.  Keep in mind that I'm new, so if that's some sort of vernacular that's used on the forums (or by the BDSM subculture in general), I'm not familiar with it.

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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 10:59:28 PM   
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RE: What's with all these money hungry people? - 12/2/2010 11:21:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Atropos19

If you had said "perusing profiles," that's how I would have taken it.  I tend to associate the word "perve" with, well, perversion.  Keep in mind that I'm new, so if that's some sort of vernacular that's used on the forums (or by the BDSM subculture in general), I'm not familiar with it.


the hip kids use perv as a kinda power word, they are called pervs for their sexual tastes so they take it back by using it as a term of endearment, kinda like some black guys and n****r or some gay/bi guys and f*g

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