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Highlandsub -> RE: what are your thoughts? (11/23/2010 7:57:23 AM)
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ORIGINAL: UmbraDomina
Ok, let me preface this with I 101% do not agree with what the man in my conversations said and I found it horrible rude, and told him so............ on with the story...................
A month or so ago, I made mention to a man who I knew who is a submissive, that I find it difficult to interact with many of the submissive men I meet at events and parties, that they tend to not approuch me, while they do tend to approuch many other ladies.
His answer was......... well Alexandra, your too in shape, and too pretty to be a dominant female, most submissive men enjoy the humilation factor of submitting to a overwieght woman, someone who they would not normally be attracted to.
I asked him WTF???? I was livid that he would even say this...... I was offended for all females out in the world at this statement.
But I thought I would ask others for their thoughts on this, especially submissive men, to get their input.
Well everyone is entitled to there own opinion but I think he is wayyyyyy off on this one. That may be his preference or his take on the situation but I can say that he does not speak for all submissive men. Personally I find it just the opposite, I am not attracted to overweight women, therefore I would find it difficult to submit to someone like that. Everyone has there preference, but lets face it, for alot of people step one is physical attraction.
I think that alot of men find beauty intimidating. When I am out with friends I hear them say wow she is too pretty to be single, or she is too pretty to want to talk to me. Funny thing is when they say that they are looking at the woman that is there "ideal" woman, but are too intimidated to approach them. It could be that he is just like others, intimidated by a woman's looks. You do kinda have to laugh at the you are too pretty, or too in shape thing though......
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