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sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 3:51:05 PM

IronBear

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Here's a question for you all to play with.......

How important is a potential sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity to you deciding to lock a collar about her throat?

C'm on folks, females, fellas and bald iggles fess up.. Just how much does this affect you choices.....Just immaging y'all have a football field packed with suitable collering material......

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 3:57:34 PM

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Since the vast majority of women I meet are white, it is hardly an issue of choice, though I have had a black partner and my current play partner is Japanese but it is hard to meet anyone other than a Japanese person in provincial Japan where we met.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 4:01:05 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear
C'm on folks, females, fellas and bald iggles fess up.. Just how much does this affect you choices.....Just immaging y'all have a football field packed with suitable collering material......

of course us redheaded Irish subs would be first picked
(just kidding before anyone gets in a twist)

< Message edited by mistoferin -- 4/29/2006 4:02:26 PM >

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 4:01:32 PM

IronBear

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Fair comment but my friend, you have only addressed colour what about the rest??????

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 4:02:45 PM

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Doesn't matter a whit to me. You cut someone open, they bleed red. Attitude is everything.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 4:03:00 PM

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I think it would be less of an issue in a household like ours, where we're accustomed to having a variety of races, genders, cultures, etc., in the household, and where service isn't about physical attraction. Human beings are an inherently judgemental species, and, in particular where physical attraction and romantic involvement are attached to a decision, I can see personal preferences in attraction playing a much larger part in the selection process -- and I don't think anyone, myself included, would claim that there aren't some body types, racial characteristics, hairstyles, skin colors, and general physical traits that we are more attracted to than others.... so it all depends on why you're looking, and what you're looking -for- as to what the answer might be.

For us, we're looking for short-term, highly service-oriented and -not- sexual or romantic or particularly BDSM/scene/play oriented individuals... any gender, race, culture, or appearance could fit the bill.

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quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

Here's a question for you all to play with.......

How important is a potential sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity to you deciding to lock a collar about her throat?

C'm on folks, females, fellas and bald iggles fess up.. Just how much does this affect you choices.....Just immaging y'all have a football field packed with suitable collering material......

< Message edited by LadiesBladewing -- 4/29/2006 4:15:42 PM >

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 4:06:27 PM

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This is something I've pondered over quite a few times. I 've mentioned it in other threads and while I don't like the idea I'm trying to seek out 'exotic' women, it is something I've tried to analyse myself about and I can't really be certain I'm being honest with myself about. There is no doubt there is an attraction in finding someone a little different. I don't like the idea I could be so shallow but maybe I am.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 4:07:32 PM

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Hmmm… IB this one could get volatile. So I will say for the intelligent posters I am German, stupidly proud of vile Viking plundering heritage, and am attracted vampire slut white skinned girls. I have a buddy in Ireland who said he was going to send me some real Guinness. I said just send me two bottles. One for each hand of the whitest little red head Irish girl you can find. She can drop them off and stumble into a collar. Ooo…. That accent… *Un-Domly drool puddles*

Now for the minority of posters. Oh it doesn’t mater, Jaba’s siter, Yoda’s daughter, I’m not picky.

Smiling Loki

wow, a few seconds ago it was just you in here IB. guess i didnt have to take the plunge after all. lol

< Message edited by Wulfchyld -- 4/29/2006 4:09:34 PM >

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 4:11:46 PM

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There is a pretty wide range I am attracted to.

Race matters not-so long as they don't hold a victim complex over it-then it does.

And ethnicity matters only so long as it is tied to some equally ethnic-and intolerant religion.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 4:18:52 PM

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LOL Loki we share similar interests and partial herritage too Perhaps if your namesake doesnt cause too much shit and Odin wills it, we will drink mead in Valhala

I was prompted to this thread by a facicious wish list I posted on the Hair Colour thread. I can't help thiking how much od a buzz and pure ego boose it would be to have 20 girls in a coffle each of a different race or ethnicisty. all colours, black, white and shades inbetween some slim and curvacious some BBW all exquisit and all exotic.... Ahhh well it is fun to have impossible dreams and to recognise them as such...... My oh my it would be fun to parade them at the club though and watch people's faces .. What a study of human behaviour....

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 4:23:40 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

Fair comment but my friend, you have only addressed colour what about the rest??????

Doesn't 'Japanese' address race/ethnicity? It isn't a country exactly well known for it's diversity....

As far as the OP question, I've not considered those things to be significant factors....people attract or repel me with their words, ideas, and behaviors.

I'm quite used to looking past exteriors.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 4:24:07 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear
I was prompted to this thread by a facicious wish list I posted on the Hair Colour thread.

Yes, and you still have not yet responded to the question on that one as to when exactly is the Big Day? Gosh, I need to know the time frame I am working with to complete the list.

>>>>Stumbles off wondering where I am going to find all this Mead for the Mead drinkers....and where the heck am I going to get that patience of Job......

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 4:24:44 PM

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Whoa, IB have you considered the PMS factor, or were you going to open a gladiatorial arena with it?

Smiling mischievously
Loki
Perhaps our horns of mead will toast before we find our places at the great hall. Nevertheless, should I arrive before you or vice versa I will be traveling under the name Vegtam to slip my name past Thyrm. They will surly let me in.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 4:26:43 PM

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(Oh good God here comes WWIII.)
I could care less based on what's inside, we are all the same. However I do fully admit that based on skin color in one regard I do have a preferance. While I freely admit that this could get one killed by the P.C. police it doesnt change the fact as one who has a major spanking fetish I like to see marks. I once had the pleasure of administering a spanking to a lovely very dark skinned beauty and it was great, except that when done I could not see much evidence of my handiwork. And to take it one step futher there is a bit (to put it mildly) of an uncomfortable feeling within me if I were to be with an African American in this context. Something about whips/chains and the term's Master/Mistress/slave is just not easily dealt with in our country for some people.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 4:27:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld
Whoa, IB have you considered the PMS factor, or were you going to open a gladiatorial arena with it?

IronBear...before you add any requirements concerning this PMS factor to that list...please remember there are SOME things beyond my control!

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 4:28:42 PM

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Big dollars to be earned running a female gladitorial arean may even put WWE out of business is I added 20 male slaves from all over.... Would be very Gorean too....

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 4:31:07 PM

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*Whispers to mist* Chaucers is a good mead and available at many liquor stores.

*Starts his quest to find a high-ranking religious official. Some sell absolution for twenty bucks, the patience of Job cant be that bad.*

SmilingLoki

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 4:36:54 PM

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Well IB if the are kept in close quarters they will sync their PMS factor. About a week before just do loads of mischievous stuff (I’ll send you my official mischief handbook) and blame it on the male slaves. I am betting the farm on mist.

Smiling
Loki

*Thinks he needs professional help with his font... then again I keep you on your toes*

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 4:43:21 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld
I am betting the farm on mist.
Smiling
Loki

Like a she-cat awakened from an afternoon nap by a mouse! (Thanks for the tip on the Mead "store"...I'll go put this honey back in the pantry now.)

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When you make a habit of playing on the tracks, you thereby forfeit the right to bitch when you get hit by a train.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 5:02:38 PM

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I have a hard time with slaves who have vomit-green skin. And I'm not too fond of chartreuse. Otherwise, all colors are welcome.

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