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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 5:03:50 PM

ScooterTrash

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

Here's a question for you all to play with.......

How important is a potential sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity to you deciding to lock a collar about her throat?

C'm on folks, females, fellas and bald iggles fess up.. Just how much does this affect you choices.....Just immaging y'all have a football field packed with suitable collering material......

Honestly IB, I don't think that (color, race and/or ethnisticity) criteria matters. What's in their heart and in their head is the priceless thing.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 5:09:02 PM

amayos

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ORIGINAL: IronBear
Here's a question for you all to play with.......

How important is a potential sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity to you deciding to lock a collar about her throat?[/color]

C'm on folks, females, fellas and bald iggles fess up.. Just how much does this affect you choices.....Just immaging y'all have a football field packed with suitable collering material......

While a girl's loyalty, temperment, beauty and intelligence are what determines their worth in my eyes...

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 5:40:53 PM

mons

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MsMacComb

I understand you thinking that many
African Amercians may see chains in a bad way
but in reality many of us
are in to kink. It is funny when i hear one of my friend
who happens to be african american laughed and call someone a freak
this means this person male or female is deep into some
wild things, I do not live in an area where I see many Africa Americans
I am one but i am use to being in my area but they do have many
who want to be tie whipped, etc but they hide on the internet .
I could never tell anyone in my chruch i do this or like that i
think they would bapsith is again several times lol. When I said finding on
the internet we do have several differen things i been to none i like so far,
. Manytimes the African Amercian are not looking for one another we like me look for white males
others look for white females it is different sometime. That is
a short history for some who may not know.

take care and wishes you will

mons/jane

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 6:10:42 PM

mons

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amyaoas

greetings

You have a star scale there i see you have
different races, that is good how you wrote that one
but may i correct you African Amareicans are
not Afican nor are African Black ,American. They
Are Afircans `~ Black American are Americans
this is the correct way, I was not born in Africa
so you if you do not mind move Afircan, you see anyone
born their can be African. Many Africans would scream to be in the same bunble as they.
They have pribe of being born free and pure Afircan. Just
as an englishmen who peope came over and he was born here is
is an enlish American and so it goes on ~ thanks i hope you not
mind my explain this to you, I am an Aficran American woman who
was born here :)ok everyone i have been having horribel headache i just went to the doctor he give me some strongest stuff so if my writing is different oh for gieve me :)
of the strongest meds and i am
best wishes

mons/jane

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 6:22:27 PM

artglfr

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While I haven't actually collared anyone yet I have enjoyed playing with Blacks, Japanesse, Indian, Jewish, and Causasian and they are all good and I hope to be finding one suitable for collaring soon.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 6:24:52 PM

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If you are inclined to question the truth of this ask Master Scooter, i am the oldest of 13, my mother was the baby of 23, and one of my uncles has 28 children. That gift took. I got fixed!!!!

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 6:25:29 PM

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My oh my it would be fun to parade them at the club though and watch people's faces

Would we have to sing we are the world or could we go with rainbow connection

Personally I'd like a rugby player in my collar...prefer white but country of origin would be open to negotiation. Somethign about those boys that just makes me all creamy inside....DOH over share...sorry class.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 6:27:19 PM

Proprietrix

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ORIGINAL: IronBear
I can't help thiking how much od a buzz and pure ego boose it would be to have 20 girls in a coffle each of a different race or ethnicisty. all colours, black, white and shades inbetween some slim and curvacious some BBW all exquisit and all exotic.... Ahhh well it is fun to have impossible dreams and to recognise them as such......

Since we're throwing our pennies in the wishing well for a field of slaves....
I'll take the following (in no particular order):

1 wise Native American (preferrably Eastern Cherokee or Blackfoot). Someone older and wiser than I am, that loves to give advice, and can knock any capitalist down to size by showing the power of nature, and loves to talk, and loves to teach others to listen.
1 young, tough punk that knows the workings of the inner city ghetto. I'm thinking white, black, or hispanic boys. I'd even go so far as to say a gangster, sans the drugs and violence. I'm invisioning a WWE John Cena / Dr. Dre kind of mix.
2 norse vikings (hat and all) to be my personal body guards and beasts of burden, and sit me on their laps, and hold me up on their shoulders so I can see things in a crowd. (Because beasts of burden are just plain hot!) And when I want to lead them, I will tug on their graying beards, and when they get in trouble, I'll make them eat jelly beans with a plastic spoon.
1 chubby middle-aged pale-skinned, black-haired, goth chick, whose brazen in clothing, but shy in manner. Goth MILF?
2 Roma gypsies to dance for me around the bonfire
1 Middle-Eastern, dark skinned, dark haired, dark eyed male slave in his mid-thirties, to give me that Magnum PI double eyebrow lift
1 French slave, that wouldn't mind also being a painter and wearing the cute little beret while he paints my portrait
1 huge Polynesian with tattoos that tell his ancestry, who has a great sense of humor, likes to dance, and loves to talk about his people while he bathes me and paints my toenails.
A Greek, A Haitian-Creole, An Icelandic, A Jamaican, A German, 2 Canadian boys, 2 giesha girls, and a partridge in a pear tree.

And all of them have to know how to cook their ethnic foods!

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 6:33:10 PM

twicehappy

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

Big dollars to be earned running a female gladitorial arean

Lol, Scooter And Jewel would probably rent me to you for those 3 days a month when they claim i put Linda Blair in the Exorcist to shame and require a Klingon for a sex partner.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 6:36:27 PM

MistressWolfen

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oooo yes please what Proprietrix said *grins*

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 6:39:35 PM

twicehappy

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Actually IronBear, fair is fair, where is the ask a sub/slave thread regarding same question in accepting a collar?

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 6:41:54 PM

OnyxGoddess

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My husband is white so color means nothing. As a rule I prefer men 6ft min and of a solid athletic build. Green eyes make my blood boil but sometimes a cold icy blue stare gets me riled up too.

As far as African Americans go...we're some of the biggest freaks out there (by freak I mean sexually free). How else do you explain the fact that next to Hispanics we have the next highest birthrate! LOL. It's a joke folks...relax. Shameful thing I notice though is that African Americans are at the bottom of the list as far as preferences go for most folk in the bdsm scene. Wonder why that is.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 7:07:09 PM

IronBear

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ORIGINAL: twicehappy

Actually IronBear, fair is fair, where is the ask a sub/slave thread regarding same question in accepting a collar?

I figured that some enterprising soul would be asking that question in that forum. Not sure how it would go unless a sub/slave wanted to have multiple owners....

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 7:17:04 PM

twicehappy

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

quote:

ORIGINAL: twicehappy

Actually IronBear, fair is fair, where is the ask a sub/slave thread regarding same question in accepting a collar?

I figured that some enterprising soul would be asking that question in that forum. Not sure how it would go unless a sub/slave wanted to have multiple owners....

We could simply state our preference as well.

Myself it's really not race but it is sterotypical, a tattooed greybeard on a Harley.(Crys pardon to her Master whose beard is still mostly blond)

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 8:00:07 PM

ladyangel

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I've always prided Myself in being equal opportunity in regards to My sexual preferences. This extends to friendship, kinship, comaraderie, lovers, bf's, you name it.

I have had lovers of most all races, colors, nationality....and enjoyed them all. Saying that, I know we ALL have our preferences, and Mine is intelligence, no matter the skin color.

This goes without saying that it also spills over into My BDSM preferences. Skin color, nationality......it matters nothing to Me. Desire, intelligence, wit and devotion are what drives a sub/slave to the top of My desired list, whether they are caucasian, african american, asian, indian......etc etc etc.

However, I can count on 3 fingers the number of submissives/slaves , of color, that I have crossed paths with----
So, I will en joy the devotion from slaves of any skin color that comes along.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 8:15:56 PM

thetammyjo

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quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

Here's a question for you all to play with.......

How important is a potential sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity to you deciding to lock a collar about her throat?

C'm on folks, females, fellas and bald iggles fess up.. Just how much does this affect you choices.....Just immaging y'all have a football field packed with suitable collering material......

It honestly does not matter to me unless it is important to them.

For example I have had African American men contact me and want to do some "anti-bellum" south scenes because I'm white.

See, the deal then isn't their identity but the fact that my race seems to be the big reason they are contacting me and that offends me.

If I were with an African American man, had trained him and/or owned him and he told me about those fantasies, I think I'd be fine playing with the images and ideas because he would know me as me first and not just me as some random white woman whose kinky.

For a real life example, I had a partner once who was Jewish and he expressed the desire to reenact of scenes from history where Jews were treated pretty bad. Because we had been in a relationship for a few months, we negotiated and came up with a scenario that would work for both of us. BUT if someone randonly contacted me and said "I'm Jewish and I can tell by your last name that you are part German, do a nazi scene with me" I'd be offended.

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 9:36:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: IronBear
How important is a potential sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity to you deciding to lock a collar about her throat?

Absolutely no importance that all!

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/29/2006 11:20:14 PM

Phoenixandnika

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quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

Here's a question for you all to play with.......

How important is a potential sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity to you deciding to lock a collar about her throat?

C'm on folks, females, fellas and bald iggles fess up.. Just how much does this affect you choices.....Just immaging y'all have a football field packed with suitable collering material......

Evening Iron Bear,

Interesting question. My answer may not sit well with others however, it is honest and mine. First off let me state I am Cherokee and I have 2 bi-racial children. I am not racist, however I would be lying if I did not say that at this point in my life I would consider the big picture on "mixed" raced relationships. I have seen how bigoted society can be towards mixed race relationships and more importantly to bi-racial children. I see things now that I didn't see 11 years ago. Don't get me wrong I love my children and try very hard to teach them my culture and their fathers but they face alot in our society because of a choice I made.

Now if I there was not a chance of children from the relationship, race would not even be a factor. We may all bleed the same but the reality is our world even the good old united states is full of bigots and racists.

Not sure if this answered your question.

Nika{Phoenix}

< Message edited by Phoenixandnika -- 4/29/2006 11:33:48 PM >

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/30/2006 1:27:31 AM

mons

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Oxy ( i shorten you name i could not remember how to spell )

LOl you so right we are some of the biggest freaks, and i
do not like that word but lol it is true that so many wil
look down on us in our community for being who we are!
I know many black men well have a fit unless they are in to
the bdsm scene too.YOur letter open my eye wide lol and
i am laughing. Yes we were at the last but Oxy who many
men approach us TOO MANY LMAO. I am okay if some
choose not to pick me it is ok i am having a wondeful time
here and just love to know how many people think. what a hoot
everyone her is really very open minded and nice
.
take care and best wishes and oh nice to meet you

mons/jane

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RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? - 4/30/2006 1:52:33 AM

Sirus

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

Here's a question for you all to play with.......

How important is a potential sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity to you deciding to lock a collar about her throat?

It doesn't at all. I think that's pretty shallow.

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